But I think the last time I heard any of them was at least 30 years ago, maybe more. They did become socially unacceptable, at least in most places; but the underlying racism and bigotry never went away altogether, and now people who still think that way have been given permission by the Trumpistas to say those things in public again.

Shows how much I know.

According the online Oxford Dictionary, "fap" refers to a man masturbating:

https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/fap

Or perhaps you meant the medical condition (from Wikipedia):

Sometimes I get lost in Google, looking things up and following links. The Urban Dictionary is another excellent source for odd words.

my truck.

I and many of my era, were grateful to see hurtful racist name calling and joking become a parriah. Many vowed not only to do better themselves, but to raise kids their better. Not so much for the Trumps.

My father was a educated man with two advanced university degrees, yet his political views were like Archie Bunker's. I must have heard every racial epithet and joke there was, growing up.

One I got out from under my parents' rule, and saw the world for myself, my attitudes became the polar opposite of his. I sometimes wonder if he's spinning in his grave knowing that his daughter is a Liberal.

(remember Waldenbooks and B Dalton?) and find several books like “Worlds Best Polish Jokes” and “500 Italian Jokes”. My friends and I would read them and think it was hysterical. Now I cringe! I’m glad things improve over time.