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Civic Justice

(870 posts)
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 10:36 AM Jun 2018

A post about women... for women and men... of the Liberal Mind to read

You have open eyes.... sadly so many don't and other refuse to open their's

Long history in America by the right wing white male conservative extremist, has always seen woman as no more than "A POSSESSION", who'd duty was to give him pleasure, and produce an offspring.. aside from that, she was to have no voice and no place other than the place he assigns and designate her to hold.

We see it in the now embolden white women, who are exposing the historical abuse, and the acts of themselves being seen for no more than their sex organ, and the function of the sex organ as being for his use and pleasure, and when she ages she is even lesser considered,because he no longer has concern for her sex organ, because she is aged, which means he has lesser concern for her to an even lower level than before.

It was a tragedy to see so many white women give the vote to Trump, as the esteem of knowing and accepting the truth of how she was abused, was something she had to try and deny, by casting her vote, while all the same time... her inner self twisting in being confounded, as she tried to weight the overall, and avoid the acceptance of the facts of how she has been used, and relegated to being a possession. It was simply too overwhelming for many to face or come to terms with, and voting for trump was an act of denial as if to gain peace of mind, but only to find... they stood against everything they are as an individual and person, when the realization of what is Trump and the Republican system and how it has a detesting concept of a woman as being regarded as an equal individual. Now... they see what they did not want to see....

Maybe it might help them also learn how to see "white men", and learn to know what is the difference between a Liberal white man, and the Right Wing Bigoted, bias and race and female gender disrespect they harbor within.

The rabid racist white man, gives her what he has always given her, which is some access to his money, to shop to keep her busy, so she does not recognize she is his possession, and gives her a fiction of stature, as long as she is on his arm and conducts herself as submissive and subservient to him.

Where as the Liberal man, will share his money with her, and she does not have to become lost in shopping as a means to blind herself, because she has less to blind herself unto, because the Liberal white man, see's her as a individual and equal person, who has intrinsic values as being her own person, with all the dignity and grace of being herself, he is proud if she holds his arm in public and stand as equals with him.

It has been hard for the white woman to see this, as she has been continually patronized about her face and her body, from the gaming of beauty pageants, to the denigration of her because of the natural process of aging.
Now, even in beauty pageants, whom are not longer being led to be treated as a caricature on stage in a bikini and high heels, which is like an 'illicit conflict of imagery of herself as a woman" that is meant to denote that her worth is only to entice his fantasy of eroticism. a bikini has nothing of function commonality with a high heels. !!! even the element of high heels is designed to present her as frail and fragile, while at the same time prohibits her free mobility, while she endures the pain of walking on her tip toes so he can be entertained within his want of erotic fancy.

Truth is, God Made Woman Beautiful as simply being woman, and God made Woman to be Desirable to Man, even with not a stitch of clothing.... or even is she is dressed in a simple cloth... Because the beauty God instilled is part of her gender and make up in and as being a woman.

Women are learning how to accept what she has been denied, which is "independent person-hood"... she does not have to be driven to alternative life styles of any sort as a means to claim her "independent person-hood"... because she is learning that in the liberal minded man, her "independent person-hood" as being female is what is the driving force that his love for and of her is connected to.


The women march, brought such truth to the realization of many woman.... The vile of the Republican Agenda and the Vile of Trump has made woman see even more the value of themselves beyond that diminished frame the Right Wingers has tried to cast her into.

Women are learning they can be fully themselves with a liberal minded man, where as the mentality of the right wing man, has caused women to do many things trying to escape the oppression's and repressions and caused her turmoils that she would not have endured if she could have known she could step away from the right wing capture and repressive aims to contain her into his fictional image.

With the liberal minded man, she is able to enter and express herself in any field, be a mother to her children, while still being a person unto herself, she is able to be a person in the bedroom who is herself, rather than a possession in the bedroom for the pleasure on the man, without regard for or of herself. She has come to see, within the liberal man, she can find a mate, that promotes what God created... which is a "help mate" as male and female unto and with each other.

She is not condemned for her desire of intimacy and sexual motivation by the liberal man, where is she is ridiculed and made to repress her desire with the right wing bigot of a man, and denigrated if she speaks of her own desires as being important in a relationships.

She is learning and standing up against all the horrors of how devastating it has been for generations to have been relegated to the level of being "a possession" !!!

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A post about women... for women and men... of the Liberal Mind to read (Original Post) Civic Justice Jun 2018 OP
I am embarrassed for you...after reading this post. Demsrule86 Jun 2018 #1
Why... look back at the history of disenfranchisement of women, it certainly was not just political Civic Justice Jun 2018 #2
Women are not "help mates" kcr Jun 2018 #3
what does that mean? Civic Justice Jun 2018 #4
What I mean is kcr Jun 2018 #5
people should watch the movie "The Help"... Civic Justice Jun 2018 #6
 

Civic Justice

(870 posts)
2. Why... look back at the history of disenfranchisement of women, it certainly was not just political
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 10:51 AM
Jun 2018

The subjects that people have reluctance and fear of indulging and investigating... is where the real truth exist...

I wrote on sexuality and the general elements decades ago, and engaged friends who work in psychological therapy as both therapist and psychologist who were friends... who have addressed many of these matters in their clinical setting...

repression of woman is nothing new, nor is the fact that even in the health field, it has long been noted the deficiency of research to help women with their health issues.

It was not some fiction that women were long seen as possessions. Go back and check history... when the white man, declared himself only as "person", and woman was not considered as Person, because only white men, as person, could vote...

So, be not embarrassed for me, but maybe for yourself to have feigned the investigation into the history of women as being oppressed and seen as less than, and considered as a possession. The raw truths has always been hard for some to digest, because many were groomed to follow in such social groomed paths.... and because of such grooming, does not make it right!!!

Truth... is an interesting things, and often it is more than the faint heart can digest, and some can only digest it in tid bits... while others have been digesting it for generations, which is why we have had a long history of women fighting for liberation as a independent viable human beings, who should not be diminished based on gender.

Society has long been groomed "not to question the white man"... but it has been a history than has not and cannot nor has it ever been one where the "questions have not raged like fire"... even when it was "denied by many white people in white society".

It's no fluke that women had to fight for Roe vs Wade, nor the fight to vote, and it is countless cases of women being mutilated, murdered and battered and beaten as if they were a possession which gave man such a thought of it being his right to do so.

Its no fluke that the Right Winger still to this day, want to control her body, as well as her mind, and she is denied in many places to this day, equal pay, even when she enters professions she has to fight for credibility as an equal... she is still expected in some cases to work, and come home and be a housekeeper... but in the minds of the enlighten liberal men, he understands that he too can help with not just house work, but raising the kids and being a Help Mate, in what it take to maintain home and life equally so as man and woman.




kcr

(15,329 posts)
5. What I mean is
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 02:41 PM
Jun 2018

No, women aren't objects. And anyone who thinks it's only right-wing men who see women like this is sadly mistaken, by the way. But we aren't created by God to be help-mates, either. In other words, it's no more liberal to view women as how we're useful from a male point of view even if you aren't merely viewing us as objects. The whole tone is patronizing, quite frankly. It reads as if our lives were miserable under right-wing rule until the liberal men came and rescued us to be help-mates! And only the white ones. Yay!

 

Civic Justice

(870 posts)
6. people should watch the movie "The Help"...
Wed Jun 20, 2018, 08:16 PM
Jun 2018

it just might have some pointers that people can learn from.... if they are willing to listen as they watch.

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