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I've been told by Trump supporter family members "What if that was you and you were asked to leave because of your politics?"
First off, please, every business who supports Trump, let me know. I go to great pains to avoid restaurants and businesses, large and small, who support that no good piece of shit. I will not buy a car at Ernie Boch's in Norwood Ma., who had a fund raiser for Trump. I will not buy "my pillows". You get the point. I will not even eat in a restaurant if Fox News is on the TV.
To give you an example, my Dentist, who is an immigrant, had Fox News in the waiting room. My mother, my wife and I all go to him for dental services, and have for nearly 13 years. I asked the receptionist to change the station and she refused. I told my dentist if the station wasn't changed, or if I ever come in here again and Fox is on the TV, my family will be changing dentists. He fired the receptionist and CNN is always on now.
Another situation. I have maintenance on my main drain pipe done at my home twice a year, to make sure I never get a back up. A truck pulls up from the company I've used in the past, and this time it had a Trump sticker on the back. As the guy was starting to unpack his stuff, I told him, "put your shit back in the van. I'm cancelling the appointment. If you or your boss support Trump, you're not allowed in my house. I'll find a new company to do business with."
Asked to leave a restaurant? My answer would be, "thanks for letting me know that you are a Trump supporter. If I knew that in the first place, I would never have come in here."
And let's get something straight. This is not political, it's moral. I've done business with people who supported McCain, Bush, Romney. I disagreed with all three's politics, but I never found them to be immoral.
This is a new age. I love Michelle Obama, but her position, which I always held until now, "When they go low, we go high" didn't work out so well. We lost the Presidency, the Senate, the House and the Supreme Court in 2016 and it may take a fucking generation to win back what we lost in 2016.
I, for one, will not knowingly and willingly patronize a Trump supporter's business. You don't ever need to ask me to leave. I will gladly vacate the premises of a racist. Thanks for letting me know.
manor321
(3,344 posts)This isn't about politics. It was about her personally, which is allowed. Ask those same assholes if a private restaurant could refuse to serve Obama.
Sarah Sanders is not a protected class of persons.
George II
(67,782 posts)mythology
(9,527 posts)We should be better than this.
7962
(11,841 posts)The Conductor
(180 posts)All the false equivalencies the righties have been trying out about this are about race, gender identity, culture, etc. These are things you are born into: it is what you are.
Sara Three Names was booted for was she DID, not what she is as a person. Big difference.
But, of course, the right can't figure this out.
snort
(2,334 posts)like skin color. This would explain a lot.
spooky3
(34,531 posts)There are statutes protecting your race, etc., from discrimination.
snort
(2,334 posts)Salviati
(6,009 posts)Link to tweet
Its encouraging that Sarah Huckabee Sanders was judged not by the color of her skin but by the content of her character.
-Anthony King
@theanthonyking
Cha
(298,087 posts)The Genealogist
(4,723 posts)We have all these people who want to refuse service to me as a member of the LGBTQ community, so I have no sympathy when someone like SHS gets her widdle feefees hurt when the same happens to her. RWers want to persecute and discriminate but when it comes back to bite them in the ass they run crying foul. Better toughen up, smowflakes.
DemocracyMouse
(2,275 posts)Just don't throw them out of your restaurant because they hate your drapes. If they hate your BEING or your brothers' and sisters' being tell them in a principled "high" bearing: "I'm sorry, I cannot be party to, or support, your fascist regime. Come back after you have renounced Trump and everything he stands for."
We go high by being calm, firm and principled. Shouting and cursing is OK on Mondays... well, given the times EVERY day... but... darn it, we'reup against fascism... OK, let's be pissed, but not become fascist ourselves. Does that work? Is that "high"? Or just "not low."?
Rorey
(8,445 posts)brush
(53,978 posts)That is not being fascist, that is being principled.
Trek4Truth
(515 posts)THE OVERT LYING is nothing we have ever seen before.
Child kidnapping is nothing we have seen before.
This is beyond politics.....this is the very soul of our nation.
THEY started this and we gonna finish.
Roy Rolling
(6,943 posts)It's about morals, not politics. Thanks for highlighting that.
lamsmy
(155 posts)But that is the same argument the baker who refused to bake a cake for a gay wedding used. He believed the occaision was immoral and therefore he shouldn't be forced to participate.
Look, I detest SHS as much as everybody else on this site, but refusing her service in a place of business because she violates your personal values, is exactly the same set of principles claimed by the bigots who want to deny service or rights to the LGBQ community.
I know many are completely fed up with the constant lying and undermining of national institutions and values, but stooping to the same abysmal level for a bit of gut level satisfaction is wrong. If Democrats are truly concerned about the erosion of principles and rights, then those rights must be defended in EVERY case - even if you detest the person involved.
The management of the Mexican restaurant where K. Nielsen was heckled had the right approach: let her in and serve her dinner. And when the protesters show up, let them in too. Her right to service was not denied and the protesters right to protest was accommodated.
happy feet
(881 posts)are not equivalent to morals. Even aetheists have morals.
moose65
(3,169 posts)Let everyone in! The protesters took care of Nielsen! And as for Sanders, I'm kinda torn by that. One, it gives the right ammunition to use against us (whether it's deserved or not), and two, it would be exhausting trying to identify everyone who is immoral. Maybe a better thing to do would have been to serve SHS and her party, and then donate all the money they spent to a progressive cause, and then let her know about it. "Sarah Sanders is funding Planned Parenthood"!
herding cats
(19,569 posts)Civil rights concern the basic right to be free from unequal treatment based on certain protected characteristics (race, color, religion, sex, age, handicap, or national origin) in settings such as employment, education, housing, and access to public facilities.
A person doesn't choose to be gay, it's just who they are. The same as their gender or race, etc. it's not something they picked on a whim or because their employer urged them to do so.
A person does choose to be homophobic, racist, bigoted, xenophobic, etc. In doing so they're subject to the social repercussions of their acts. Be it shaming or a lack of service in an establishment staffed by people they've denigrated and/or harmed with their words and actions.
mountain grammy
(26,676 posts)RandomAccess
(5,210 posts)and the support of it.
And the LIES for it / as part of it.
Bettie
(16,151 posts)and lie to the public daily as my vocation. So, I doubt would ever come up.
If I went in with, say, a button or t-shirt espousing my political beliefs and was told they don't serve liberals there, well, I'd leave and find someplace not overrun with Trumpkins.
Maggiemayhem
(811 posts)and would be surprised to find out about the ones they know. They really think liberals are all a bunch of welfare layabouts. I always had to keep my mouth shut at work. They have no original thought and spout off every talking point of the day from the RNC no matter how bizarre. I am a petite white woman so I had to listen to a bunch of crap all the time I suppose that I look trustworthy. I had to learn how to shut it out and how to avoid them as much as possible. Maybe we should at least try to define liberal to them. It all boils down to them being bigots and dumbasses. I no longer work with public and dont want to. I wonder what the ones who were convinced about FEMA camps think about the ICE camps? Or maybe it doesnt matter in their small minds because they are not whites being held against their will.
Raven123
(4,937 posts)Supporters' establishments or businesses. Trump I haven't had your experiences, but I hope I plan to pay closer attention.
maxrandb
(15,401 posts)I'll let you know
HAB911
(8,957 posts)DBoon
(22,430 posts)The Republican Party is firmly behind businesses that do this to LGBT customers, solely because of their sexual orientation.
They call it "religious freedom"
Well my religion allows me to refuse service to war criminals
Bernardo de La Paz
(49,075 posts)forgotmylogin
(7,540 posts)Or flipped off, or told they're going to hell, or...
DBoon
(22,430 posts)A few elections back...
sinkingfeeling
(51,498 posts)discriminate against any person based on their moral beliefs, throwing SSH out of a restaurant was the exact same thing."
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)It's against my religion to deal with monsters. I agree with the OP, time to start making them pay for what they've done.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)The baker case didn't create precedent and ruled narrowly for the baker in this situation (wrong though that decision may have been IMHO)
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)And I agree, that it's a slippery slope. But it hasn't actually happened yet. I'm concerned about Kennedy's apparent insistence that civil rights commissions are now going to have to be constantly looking over their shoulders to make sure that they are being deferential enough to claims of religious freedom- or least careful not to make any too strongly negative comments about religion in general.
sinkingfeeling
(51,498 posts)Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)but SCOTUS didn't legalize anything nationwide was the point.
BTW is that law being challenged?
sinkingfeeling
(51,498 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)So do they realize it would work both ways? You have to wonder. They are white and Republican and maybe it never occurred to them that somebody would not want THEM around.
brush
(53,978 posts)zentrum
(9,866 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(49,075 posts)SidDithers
(44,228 posts)Sid
louis c
(8,652 posts)IronLionZion
(45,667 posts)a person's politics is a choice and can be kept private if desired.
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)but Religion is a CHOICE and can be kept quiet if desired.
IronLionZion
(45,667 posts)and was born into it.
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)Religion has been and always will be a CHOICE. You may be "born into" a religion, but it is NOT genetic.
Clothes don't make a religion, clothes are a choice.
You are totally wrong.
IronLionZion
(45,667 posts)I'm sorry your feel that way. And consider yourself lucky if you are probably not on the receiving end of discrimination.
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)As a gay man, I have been. By religious people claiming I chose to be gay. The same religious people that make a choice to believe in magical fairies that want to kill gays.
So, take your all-seeing self-righteous eye elsewhere.
IronLionZion
(45,667 posts)you want to discriminate against completely different people who didn't claim anything about you or do anything to you.
Do you want to punish me for what those other people did to you? I don't make those claims.
Do you want to be punished because my white privileged gay coworker doesn't believe I was born in America? You didn't make that claim.
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)and putting words in my mouth that I did not say is so very typical.
Show me where I said I wanted to punish anyone. Welcome to ignore. And take your self-righteous bigoted attitude with you.
Your idiocy knows no bounds.
irisblue
(33,061 posts)Reads really close to one.
"Your idiocy knows no bounds."
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)Calling some's idiocy out in not an attack.
irisblue
(33,061 posts)If you are alerted on, it goes to a jury, you may/may not get a hide. You get enough violations, you get FFR.
As to 'snowflake' ohhh kay. The first time I saw that was last year from a RW poster on twitter. I jad to research that.
There is a difference between discussing ideas & insulting your allies. Your milage may vary, either way, enjoy the evening.
brush
(53,978 posts)targeted quite often. Are they to hide who they are to suite you?
Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)Last edited Mon Jun 25, 2018, 05:03 PM - Edit history (1)
If they were in a oposition to freely make a choice, do you think they would choose a belief system that treat women so badly. No. Stop being so full of shit.
brush
(53,978 posts)Last edited Mon Jun 25, 2018, 04:32 PM - Edit history (1)
You don't have to agree with their choice and neither does anyone else if they're not imposing it on others, but there is such a thing as freedom of religion, just as there should be freedom to love who you want.
Stop with the blatant hypocrisy.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Evergreen Emerald
(13,071 posts)malaise
(269,328 posts)Rec
vlyons
(10,252 posts)Karma is just like gravity - it never stops working. If my behavior were such that I got shunned in public, I would sit down and examine what were the causes and conditions that caused it to happen. I would hope that I might learn something from the experience. That I could transform the experience into a little wisdom. In Buddhism, everything is part of the path, and all experiences can be opportunities to become more compassionate for the benefit of others.
As a Buddhist, there is a lot that I could teach SHS about how to live a happy life, but she isn't ready to hear it. I doubt that she wants to hear it, because it would require that she be willing to cast aside her ego-cherishing and all her condescending attitudes towards non-Christians, poor people, people of color, etc.
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)Which is one step higher on the path to enlightenment than her current being.
vlyons
(10,252 posts)Thoughts to change the mind, that we Buddhists are taught, are the preciousness of human life, and that we do not know the day or the hour of our death. Human life is very very rare, compared to all the other species of sentient beings that exist. Only humans have the opportunity to hear the dharma, but it is a very very opportunity to do so. Over 300,000 species of beetles alone. So it's best not to waste the opportunity of a human life in chasing after wealth, power, and fame. And it's a waste of our precious human life to close our minds to treating people with loving kindness. I pray that everyone gets the most auspicious rebirth possible. But it's really not up to me to decide where karma pushes people.
MineralMan
(146,351 posts)Because of that, I don't anticipate that situation ever occurring.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)she didn't either. She just happens to work for and speak on behalf of the President of the United States. However, in this particular instance, her visit to the restaurant was not as Press Secretary, but as a private citizen, just like you. I would agree with her ejection if she was behaving inappropriately or trying to stir up things but, at least as far as we know, it was her mere presence which prompted her removal.
MineralMan
(146,351 posts)I'm not. She stands up in front of a camera almost every day, lying for our poor excuse for a President. She demonstrates complete contempt for the news media depended on by everyone to tell us what's happening.
She is instantly recognizable by most people. Her public behavior is plenty of reason for her to be shunned.
I am not a public figure. When I go into a restaurant, nobody there has any idea of what my political views might be. Further, I'm not going to share them in a restaurant. I wear no slogans. My behavior is well within the boundaries of normal public behavior. I am there to enjoy a meal, and am willing to pay for it.
Public figures must own their public behavior. I'd throw Sarah Three Names out of my restaurant, too. And Trump. And anyone else from his administration who is a public figure. Their presence is a disruption, due to their public behavior.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)I know that some restaurant staff members felt uncomfortable with her there, but unless she was making a scene, attacking staff, etc, there does not seem to a justifiable reason to eject her. Next time employees of some restaurant owned by rabid right-wingers feel "uncomfortable" with Barack Obama and his family or (insert famous Democratic political figure) and they get ejected from a restaurant, will we cry foul and demand justice for them? Or will be forced to agree that the restaurant was within their rights to eject them because of the feelings of their staff/owner? SHS is NOT a good person I agree but, until or unless she is charged and convicted of a crime(s) and given due process, she is still a citizen with all applicable rights and freedoms (I'm throwing up in my mouth typing this but it's true) whatever else we may think of her.
MineralMan
(146,351 posts)No doubt there will be criticism.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)and the owner is the one who makes the final decision. I get that she was trying to be supportive of the staff but I believe the owner still made a mistake IMHO.
MineralMan
(146,351 posts)Her decision may end up costing her that business. It's too early to tell. The restaurant is very popular. What impact this incident will have is unpredictable.
It's not my restaurant. It wasn't my decision. People make choices, and have to live with the consequences of those choices. I'm just fine with that.
I can say this, however: If I owned a business and any member of the Trump administration entered it, I would ask that person to go somewhere else. I guarantee it.
mountain grammy
(26,676 posts)there must be a check on the outrageous lies and behavior of the administration. SHS is the face of the lies, approves and promotes them. She shames and belittles journalists for asking questions that it's her job to answer.
With no checks and balances from Congress or courts, we are left with public shaming and boycotts.. citizen action while we still can. the police are following orders. Have you noticed?
Ilsa
(61,720 posts)that this is also about SHS lying for the administration, not just supporting them.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)but still. I personally just don't agree with the idea of restaurants picking and choosing whom to serve based on their employer/political affiliation. If we are going down this road, however, we will have no ground to stand on if and when it happens to a prominent Democrat next time.
Ilsa
(61,720 posts)over something Obama said. Perfectly legal, and easily acceptable if someone does not want their business associated with a certain prominent, outspoken figure.
handmade34
(22,759 posts)we pay her salary!! We should have some say
I have never thrown someone out of my business (fortunately never had to) but I have left businesses because they support DT... one day my partner and daughter and I went to eat out and the waiter came to the table with a Trump button on his shirt... we left and told him the reason for leaving (we could not in good faith support a business that supports DT)
rzemanfl
(29,585 posts)MineralMan
(146,351 posts)Few people recognize me anywhere. Everyone recognizes SHS. She WANTS to be recognized. Baggage comes with recognition, sometimes.
rzemanfl
(29,585 posts)brush
(53,978 posts)There are consequences for being a party to fascism.
lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)fight back more.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)but I don't agree with what the restaurant did here and may possibly lead to a tit-for-tat situation that I don't believe will be good for the country. Not to mention that stuff like only energizes the Trumpian right-wing base and gives them ammo that they otherwise wouldn't have going into the midterms. SHS is a detestable person working for a truly despicable man and his (mis-)Administration. That being said, I don't know that this sort of protest/shunning is effective and/or warranted just because of her politics or who she works for and this behavior can (and probably will) just as easily be wielded against us as well.
lefty2000
(177 posts)A liberal is a man too broadminded to take his own side in a quarrel.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)like, we are supposed to be better than this.
Raster
(20,998 posts)...while we're "being better than that," we could be loaded in boxcars and sent to the camps. If it were up to me, NOT ONE FUCKING PERSON from the tRump* shithole administration would ever be tolerated in public, polite company again.
And further, I am sick to fucking death of <clutch pearls> wondering what tRump*s base will think of it. tRump* "base" only knows two things: hate and fear, which he feeds to them like mother's milk.
BULLETIN: tRump*s base has no issue with children ripped from their parent's arms, all to make a vindictive point. Donald J. tRump* has created a HUMANITARIAN CRISIS of monumental proportions, and was able to do so because persons like Sarah Huckster Sanders* keep giving him cover and an air of legitimacy.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,461 posts)just seems like an ineffective strategy to me- even if the person in question is SHS. Having patrons inside or outside expressing their free speech rights confronting her would have been a better idea JMHO. Maybe the restaurant owner should have encouraged her employees to confront her themselves would have been better. Throwing her out of the restaurant just gives her an opportunity to claim victimhood status and energize the righties at a time that we don't want/need them energized. Plus, it will probably just lead to more tit-for-tat denial of services. Do I personally really care if she got thrown out of the restaurant? No, not really. But I disagree with it as a political strategy.
Raster
(20,998 posts)...from what I understand, the owner take a poll of all the employees at the restaurant AND THEY VOTED NOT TO SERVE the Huckster*.
Charles Pierce from Esquire add his take:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100210785226
This debate is stupid. Its also dangerously beside the point. SarahHuck is the lying mouthpiece of a lying regime that is one step away from simply hauling people off in trucks. That she was politely told to take her business elsewhere is a small step towards assigning public responsibility to public officials that enable a perilous brand of politics. There are bigger steps to be taken, but everyone in official Washington is too damn timid to do what really needs to be done about this band of pirates.
And from me to you: You fly our Pride flag. This "administration" would kick us to the curb without a second thought. Stonewall came about because Drag Queens, Trans Peeps, Hustlers and other "deviants" stood up and said: FUCK YOU we are not going to take this anymore.
brush
(53,978 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)What if an admitted full-blown Nazi or KKK member came into your restaurant? There has to be a limit to what is tolerated in the name of politeness. Remember they are attempting to normalize these positions, so that they are not socially unacceptable, as they had become.
NRaleighLiberal
(60,038 posts)Corgigal
(9,291 posts)and then allow laws that attacks others for who they personally are. Should have thought that one through a little longer,eh?
Now, the majority has the same right. It's a hold our beer moment.
ecstatic
(32,798 posts)I would at least be mature and responsible enough to accept the social fallout that came with such behavior. Something rethugs used to refer to as personal responsibility.
solara
(3,836 posts)Very well stated. Absolutely spoke for me. This should go viral if it is at all possible.
Thank you
brooklynite
(95,012 posts)NutmegYankee
(16,207 posts)onecaliberal
(33,013 posts)struggle4progress
(118,379 posts)they simply didn't serve us:
A native American woman and I walked into a rural Pennsylvania diner in the 1990s and sat at the counter. There were other customers but the place wasn't anywhere near full. After looking at the lunch menus, we tried for about an hour to get service. They studiously avoided all eye contact with us. We never got so much as a glass of water there. Finally my friend said they weren't going to let us buy lunch and we left. I don't know exactly what they thought but they obviously decided they didn't like us. Or maybe it was just me they didn't like: I think she told me she had eaten there in the past
And I was told to leave other places, when I wasn't making any noise at all but was just waiting for a waitress so I could order food
BarbaRosa
(2,685 posts)as a long hair guy back in the day I had similar experiences.
struggle4progress
(118,379 posts)LeftInTX
(25,813 posts)If she got all belligerent about the "slow service", then film her being a belligerent cry baby.
marieo1
(1,402 posts)In northern Mn there are a lot of djt supporters.(I can't even put his name in here)! I will not knowingly go to any consumer that is a supporter of this immoral, obscene, despicable, lying piece of white trash!!! I just don't get how anyone can support him. Especially those who claim they are Christians.
byronius
(7,413 posts)I find myself unable to enter the door of any establishment that has a whiff of Trump.
The mearest molecule of it.
gordianot
(15,259 posts)"This is reserved for the hat of the Grand Dragon." I asked what it meant and did not get an answer. We paid our bill left and never returned. I did find out what was referenced it meant what I thought. I too prefer that Trump supporters, racist, Fascist and Klan advertise who the are so I can express my right of association.
Justice
(7,188 posts)rzemanfl
(29,585 posts)Caliman73
(11,760 posts)beachbum bob
(10,437 posts)2008 working on Obama campaign and at a roadside vendor was told to move on when they saw the Obama bumper sticker..
SHS Is representing a truly evil admin....and republicans themselves have pushed for service to be be denied based on moral grounds. It's 2 way sword and I and we all should stand proudly with the Red Hen manager..
WhiteTara
(29,736 posts)CaptainTruth
(6,619 posts)"What if that was you and your child was pulled from your arms, put in a cage, and you didn't know where they were or see them for months?"
I find their sense of anger to be far, far too selective.
DarleenMB
(408 posts)Especially the last bit. When they go low we need to go right after them. Enough is enough.
Fritz Walter
(4,292 posts)1. Last year, the house across the street was undergoing major renovations. The general contractor showed up one day and parked his drumpf-stickered truck blocking my driveway. I had to hunt him down to ask him to move it so I could leave for work. After glaring at me for interrupting his berating the subs (some of whom were POC), he lumbered to his trash-heap and parked it a few feet past my driveway. When I have some renovations done on my 81-year-old house, he'd be the last contractor I'd hire.
2. My former primary care physician had an electronic count-down clock/calendar at the check-out counter (this was during President Obama's re-election campaign and the device counted down the time until the end of his first term). I told the clerk there that I found it inappropriate and offensive. She told me that other patients had complained, but "Dr. B" insisted on keeping it there. I changed doctors immediately.
3. My favorite local cafe is the last place ShitHeadSarah or any of her ilk would show up for a meal. About half of the staff are LGBTQIA and the others treat them like family (maybe even better). Another reason it is my favorite is because there's no TV, so no Faux Gnus. The sound system plays channels from Sirius/XM satellite radio, but strictly music. Political comments occasionally emerge at the bar, but very rarely do I hear regurgitation of right-wing paranoia, rage or other talking points. There are plenty of other places near-by, some less expensive, where knuckle-draggers might feel welcome. Point is: I feel welcome there, as do so many other patrons.
MrScorpio
(73,631 posts)Theres no way that I would ever stand behind a White House podium and lie to the world in behalf of Donald Trump.
So, if l did get kicked out of a restaurant, it wouldnt be the same as SHS. So, false analogy.
marieo1
(1,402 posts)Mrscorpio.........I can't believe any of this - it's like some horror movie. I, for one, can't wait to never hear of DJT or his pack of cronies again. Apparently, SHS doesn't have any moral code herself. How can she lie and mislead people and support such a creep? And.....I can't understand why doesn't anyone call DJT out on his behavior, past and present? What are they afraid of? Makes one wonder.
RoBear
(1,188 posts)"This is not political, it's moral."
We need to keep that in front of us, I think.
fishwax
(29,152 posts)asked to leave a restaurant? It would be celebrated in memes and viral emails. I remember one of those emails from years ago about how a Vietnam Veteran kicked Jane Fonda out of his restaurant. The right wingers loved it (even though the story was bullshit). I don't see how this is a real controversy.
onenote
(42,854 posts)because of the owner's dislike for Biden's politics.
Ask them about the non-existent outrage from the right when that happened.
pangaia
(24,324 posts)Plus those other right wing assholes were not in the process of overthrowibg the government...and tossing it into the hands of the international mob..
Oh, wait.....
Mr. Ected
(9,675 posts)The fascists on the right want to expunge liberalism, will not compromise or negotiate with Democrats, and in fact believe that Hillary (and Obama) are more dangerous to our republic than Vladimir Putin. There is absolute no telling where this could lead, but being asked to leave a restaurant may be the least of our worries in the future. There is currently a very large armed militia willing to do the government's bidding if abolishing progressives from the planet is the edict.
Isn't it funny that the gun nuts believe the 2nd Amendment is to protect us against government tyranny, but now that we actually have a tyrannical government, they walk in lockstep with it? Let's face it, this interpretation of the 2nd Amendment is actually a call to arms when DEMOCRATS are in office, plain and simple. Call a spade a spade.
BlueJac
(7,838 posts)I avoid Cracker Barrel.
Downtown Hound
(12,618 posts)on his car? Or the bakery that got over a million dollars in bigot donations when they refused to bake a same sex wedding cake?
SeattleVet
(5,485 posts)Anthony King: It is encouraging that she was judged not by the color of her skin but by the content of her character.
louis c
(8,652 posts)Solly Mack
(90,803 posts)blue-wave
(4,375 posts)With you 110% Well said!!!
GusBob
(7,286 posts)He opened up the broadcast with it
NatBurner
(2,640 posts)GusBob
(7,286 posts)I love it when DU gets quoted on his show!. Second week in a row!, last time it was PCIntern WTF post
DinahMoeHum
(21,839 posts)Funny how that saying cuts more ways than one. Right, Trumpsters?
heaven05
(18,124 posts)the whole shot....I do the same. Especially fox news. I did it at my Denny's once, that is all it took while getting my mid-morning almost brunch. I told them turn it off, turn the channel or I'm leaving. It was right behind me to the side, mounted I already had ordered my meal. So they had a quick conversation and turned it down. A couple of trumpers gave me their hate stare. I smiled. A few others looked surprised. Some looked relieved. I am 70 and have to walk with a cane most times. I wanted a trumper to attack me. Didn't happen.
mainer
(12,037 posts)If the customer is just some local redneck or tea party conservative, they should not be denied service.
But if it's someone who ACTIVELY works to deny rights to other Americans, then I think you're within your rights to deny service.
louis c
(8,652 posts)heaven05
(18,124 posts)FLOTUS Michelle Obama???? You are blaming Michelle Obama for us losing, Presidency, Senate, the House and SC in 2016. Right???? Hell no!!!!!!!!! Not true
louis c
(8,652 posts)But we were far too nice, while the other side was brutal.
Look at everything that happened. Democrats were too afraid to be accused of "putting our thumbs" on the scale by letting the people know about collusion, while the other side ranted "lock her up" over some innocuous emails.
I'm sick of taking the "high road". I don't knowingly do business with anyone who supported Trump. I was never that way, but I am now.
I get in people's face if they have a Trump button on or a MAGA hat or a Trump sticker. I measure how much you love this country by how much you hate Trump, just as Germans loved their country more, the more they hated Hitler.
Our side was never that mean. Everything was "civil discourse" and we got run over. I admit that I always believed in "going high" and we all did exactly that in 2016 and we got fucked.
It will never happen to me again. Not even for a single day. Other than family, and who I have no choice to interact with, occasionally, I avoid Trumpsters (and they me) at every point in my life.
I firmly believe America is at a crossroads and we could lose this country if we fail in the next two election cycles.
Personally, my wife and I are childless and have a house all paid for in another country. We have 2 elections over the next 29 months and we need to win them both, and the people on the other side need to know that they are deplorable in our eyes. I don't want to associate with any of them or do business. And I want them to know why.
heaven05
(18,124 posts)was a major contributor to the rise of Nazism in Germany. True. A wheelbarrow full of Deutschmarks to buy a loaf of bread ect. it did create immense pain and misery and made the time right for a despot like hitler. Yet the nazi playbook is at work here and the Senator is right to point out the beginning of Hitlers 1000 year Reich as the decade of the 30's as trump is trying to set up the same here.
https://www.brainz.org/10-most-evil-propaganda-techniques-used-nazis/
I have no real argument with your points. Just the historical inaccuracies. We are at a crossroads where the better nature of our citizens and our democratic experiment is being challenged most forcefully by our despotic potus and his appointees. The NPA aka GOP is his not so secret weapon and they along with the SC are changing our political landscape to one man/party rule. I get it. November will be one of our most important elections, I think. I'm 70 and feel for the following generations. I have no argument with any of your political survival observations and points.
meadowlander
(4,413 posts)still eat in any restaurant in the country in public as if nothing had happened?
ismnotwasm
(42,028 posts)Without question.
That being said you will never catch me in a Hobby Lobby or a Chikfila. I usually manage to stay out of Home Depot. If I accidentally walk in a place of a bigot, I dont want to give them my money. So yeah. thanks for letting me know Now let me and my money the hell out of here is a good response
Tucker08087
(621 posts)has not happened to many of us, but what SHS experienced is something that many of us have experienced. Its called discrimination. Im torn because of this. There is a vengeful, maybe childish version of myself that wants them to experience it first hand, because they have shown that they cannot be empathetic and understand the feelings of others without facing it themselves. Then there is the responsible, civic-minded side of me that says discrimination, for any reason, is wrong.
My answer to the question: What if it happened to you, is that, for many of us, it has (discrimination), and it continues to happen because people like SHS are okay with it, lie to the public about it, and have allowed it to escalate with this administrations rhetoric. They continue to bask in attacking groups or causes to spread fear and hatred.
So, in some ways, Im torn. However, she was politely asked to leave, out of earshot if others, so was not humiliated. She was not arrested for being Republican while eating. She used her platform to condemn the restaurant, but somehow escaped being called a son of a bitch by the administration and his followers have not hounded her, spit on her, or thrown beer on her for using this platform to just work and protest on some other platform.
So, I am beginning to think that they still dont get it. Its a shame that SHSs boss is too afraid to face the media himself. Its a shame that he throws everyone under the bus. But until they have reached the point where the need Republican Lives Matter flags, and need police escorts to enter law-abiding health facilities, and wait with fear to learn how the next bit of legislation will specifically target their lives, livelihoods, and lifestyles, Im afraid the devil on my shoulder is winning. These are the people who want to legally determine what is appropriate to purchase for their families to eat using their SNAP benefits. I find it difficult to sympathize with a family whose income is fully supported by American taxpayers who could not order whatever overpriced meal they had hoped to consume. This is what they wanted: Complete control over how taxpayer money is spent, and the ability of businesses to refuse customers that are, in their view, morally reprehensible. I dont like this new world that they created, but it is THEIR creation, and they will never see the injustice of their actions until they live it. If SHS doesnt like it, perhaps she should stage a sit-in or take a knee in front of the establishment to learn what happens when people peacefully protest.
louis c
(8,652 posts)I wouldn't
flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)...and btw, would YOU want someone who hates your guts making your food???
Yet they're perfectly okay with homophobic bakers, and marriage license clerks deciding to use their jobs as a bludgeon to enforce their beliefs on everyone else. Don't get me started about the pharmacists who decide to start playing God with people's lives.
FUCK those hypocrites.
ProfessorGAC
(65,427 posts)These people are promoting this sideways agenda, and they are publicly paid officials of the government. They are being singled out for their prominence and their actions, in pursuit of a paid for agenda. I just don't see how this compares to the kind of discrimination you are describing.
Most of your own posts suggests you see the distinction. Your 4th and 5th paragraphs are pretty illustrative of that fact, yet just above that you are comparing this to real forms of discrimination.
PatrickforO
(14,605 posts)These are good steps and I will be taking them.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,580 posts)A very reasoned approach to the problem that should be obvious to everyone, and a great comeback answer.
Nice!
brush
(53,978 posts)haele
(12,700 posts)Signs against Liberals or Democrats or supporting extremist "Biblical" theology or proudly boasting that somehow their right to be swaggering bigots are protected by the 2nd Amendment and "True Patriotism" have been posted on businesses since the 1992, when Bill Clinton won his election.
The GOP and hard Right well and truly lost their mind about then.
After that, in many businesses, it was just a matter of "Don't Tell when they Ask" self-protection in some of those businesses; if you were travelling through one of those locations and really needed a product and you were privileged enough to look like you belonged, you swallowed your pride and outrage and meekly made your purchases all "friendly - like" - because you already had one strike against you.
If you didn't look like you belonged or if they suspected you were a liberal, you didn't go in. Because you risked getting hippy-punched. That was what being a Liberal, Democrat, or an outsider minority was like back then.
So cry me a river. The restaurant was polite enough not to be threatening her in her face about her politics. They didn't boo or shame her when she came in to eat, nor were they willing to subject other customers to her and the stench of the circus of Satan she surrounds herself with on a daily basis.
They just cancelled her reservation.
Haele
flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)I'd probably be a Republican I guess?
Tatiana
(14,167 posts)This is what we have to do. The only thing these racist, selfish bullies understand is brute force and hitting them in the pocketbook.
It's hard because it goes against most of what decent liberals have been raised to do, but we've got new rules and we need to switch playbooks.
We need to be strategic, but we need to be street fighters and let them know that their actions will receive a strong and severe consequence (not just a sternly-worded letter).
LeftInTX
(25,813 posts)I think that would have been more humiliating.
lame54
(35,359 posts)Ferrets are Cool
(21,117 posts)csziggy
(34,140 posts)Not just because of his politics but also because he just assumed I would take his business.
I used to board horses but for a while I leased my facility to a woman who taught and boarded. When she left she told me she was leaving one of her clients and he would call be about his horse. Three months after she told me and weeks after she had left he finally called. He wanted to know how to make out his check. No asking if I was interested in his business, he just assumed I would. At that point I no longer wanted to engage in the boarding business and told him that.
Meanwhile I had looked this guy up. His name seemed familiar and I found articles about him. When Jeb Bush first became governor of Florida, this guy had been appointed to a position in the Department of Motor Vehicles. He put out a contract to install computers in every Highway Patrol car but he did not go through the proper channels of getting the contract approved, soliciting for bids, reviewing bids to select the best one. No, he just signed a multi-million dollar contract. He was allowed to resign, the contract was nullified, and the process had to start over again.
The moron would not take a simple "No" from me as an answer. He wanted to keep his horse at my place. The horse had been there for two weeks without an agreement, I did not have any instructions, did not know what it ate, who the vet or farrier were to take care of it's needs, and wanted it off my property. He would not admit that we had no contract, verbal or otherwise that obligated me to care for his horse. I had to threaten to call the sheriff to remove it.
At the end, when the horse was being loaded in a trailer, he was still whining about having to move it and trying to talk me into taking his business. I finally told him outright that aside from his negligence in not contacting me immediately to make arrangements, I could not trust anyone who treat taxpayer money so carelessly in any contract, verbal or written. And that I really didn't want to do business with any Republican anyway.
ProudProgressiveNow
(6,130 posts)cp
(6,680 posts)Amen is quite ironic.
Thanks
Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)dt businesses...let your freak flag fly, and put your dt sign in the lawn.....AHHHHHHHhhhhh those of us around during the election REMEMBER who had dt signs anyway. YOU cooked your own goose. haven't eaten or shopped in a place where a dt sign popped up like mold, since before the election. Signs are important. I/WE REMEMBER.
pansypoo53219
(21,013 posts)my chiro has HGTV. BUT WHY DO WE NEED A TEEVEE AT ALL.
i get kicked out, but because i am barefoot. a barefoot pal & i tried 2 moderate priced places a columbus day evening years ago. kicked out. since the pakistan place was close to closing, i suggested the fancy pants german place. it was open on sunday. WELCOME! just us & a family & we had a very good pork shank.
OhioBlue
(5,126 posts)it would be an apples to oranges comparison but let's say I went into a restaurant where an ex-boyfriend and his fiance were holding their wedding rehearsal dinner. Let's say the manager approached me and said that my presence was making others uncomfortable and offered to comp my dinner and give it to me to go. I would appreciate the free meal, act in an understanding manner and would not whine about it on social media. Quite frankly, I would probably feel a little bit angry or sad about the situation for various reasons (either regret over dating someone that was such a jerk that I never wanted to make amends or someone that I still liked as a person and wanted to keep as a friend and felt excluded) but would never put it out on social media.
Cha
(298,087 posts)with Any trumphans or not listening to the propaganda station when you're in a place of business. I've been that way since bush.
As far as "going high..".. or not.. We'll always be Higher than Deplorables.. They LIE CHEAT and STEAL.. We don't and we Don't put kids in cages.. no matter how much they try to weasel and LIE that President Obama did.
Demsrule86
(68,825 posts)I wouldn't got there if I knew.