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Lindsay Graham is not gay! (Original Post) thegoose May 2019 OP
And why should we care if Graham is gay or not? at140 May 2019 #1
BlackMail Me. May 2019 #3
That does make some sense! Good point!! at140 May 2019 #9
Read the article thegoose May 2019 #4
I didn't bother after seeing article is from Washington Times..nt at140 May 2019 #10
We don't. GoCubsGo May 2019 #22
If he was open about it and a champion of LGBTQIA rights, I'd agree with you. backscatter712 May 2019 #41
+1000 smirkymonkey May 2019 #62
and he isnt lighthearted and carefree either, the old definition of gay. nt msongs May 2019 #2
Well, he ain't queer neither BBG May 2019 #5
Damn straight thegoose May 2019 #8
I call BS ProudLib72 May 2019 #6
not that I care-but the fuck he isn't demtenjeep May 2019 #7
... NurseJackie May 2019 #11
Oh. OK. democratisphere May 2019 #12
No he isn't. Just a wannabe, especially around manly men like McCain. elfin May 2019 #13
Dump is as butch as Eve Arden thegoose May 2019 #17
Um. cwydro May 2019 #49
This is what Trumpers would call "fake news" Mr. Ected May 2019 #14
Not married no kids. Huh. I don't think he's gay. ismnotwasm May 2019 #15
I once heard a repug wag refer to Graham as "the bro with no ho." brush May 2019 #16
I heard he likes them young Lunabell May 2019 #18
I am sort of on his side on this one. Blue_true May 2019 #26
True it is no reason treestar May 2019 #29
The difference is we know his email was hacked by the Russians, pnwmom May 2019 #35
He may be gay, but we need more that conjecture and stereotyping. Blue_true May 2019 #37
Like I said, I think they're blackmailing him with something pnwmom May 2019 #38
Oh , there's no lack of snickering on DU when it cwydro May 2019 #50
If Graham is gay and he is hiding it in his position, that is not good Blue_true May 2019 #59
Why does he have to prove it? Tipperary May 2019 #60
You got part of the point that I was making. Blue_true May 2019 #64
"Single, thin and neat?" misanthrope May 2019 #47
???? nt. Blue_true May 2019 #58
Episode of Seinfeld misanthrope May 2019 #61
When it comes to tv or movies, I always need an explanation. Blue_true May 2019 #63
Sure, neither was the other great hypocrite, liar and crook Roy Cohn. BigmanPigman May 2019 #19
Right? thegoose May 2019 #20
He even lied about that! He is 100% garbage. BigmanPigman May 2019 #24
When he was dying .... CatMor May 2019 #28
I don't think he is gay could be a eunuch? Either way Trump owns him. walkingman May 2019 #21
Who cares?! InAbLuEsTaTe May 2019 #23
Never cared mahina May 2019 #25
I could care less about his sexual preferences. It's his being an ooky May 2019 #27
Post removed Post removed May 2019 #30
This thread is eye-opening. cwydro May 2019 #52
That's hard to swallow! TheBlackAdder May 2019 #31
Doesn't matter. He is a two-faced lying scumbag MineralMan May 2019 #32
The Russians hacked one of Graham's email accounts. pnwmom May 2019 #33
There are many wonderful LGBQT out there Lindsey is not one of them! Thekaspervote May 2019 #34
While he may be homosexually oriented I don't consider him gay. David__77 May 2019 #36
Hopes now dashed for so many young gay Senate interns. Funtatlaguy May 2019 #39
Well, regardless of the truth of the matter, if he never had any women around him before, lindysalsagal May 2019 #40
No but he is most definitely a bloviating asshole. Initech May 2019 #42
The alternative to him being gay is that he's incel. backscatter712 May 2019 #43
Ugh The Genealogist May 2019 #45
I could really care less where he docks his boat The Genealogist May 2019 #44
Post removed Post removed May 2019 #46
Seriously? cwydro May 2019 #51
I don't care if he is gay or not LibFarmer May 2019 #48
It matters because of the harm he's trying to cause the LGBTQ community. RandySF May 2019 #54
It's my understanding that his Chief of Staff is also his partner RandySF May 2019 #53
It's the hypocrisy (if true) TDale313 May 2019 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author RandySF May 2019 #56
Ok, whatever. smirkymonkey May 2019 #57

GoCubsGo

(32,103 posts)
22. We don't.
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:39 PM
May 2019

But, everyone in the cult/crime syndicate to which he belongs doesn't like gay people. He's only afraid of being run out of his own party.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
41. If he was open about it and a champion of LGBTQIA rights, I'd agree with you.
Sat May 4, 2019, 09:21 PM
May 2019

But instead he's a right wing tool that regularly takes a steaming shit on gay rights.

So if we find out he's been snorting lines of coke off of a rentboy, it's open-season.

BBG

(2,569 posts)
5. Well, he ain't queer neither
Sat May 4, 2019, 06:57 PM
May 2019

His peculiarity is political and unwelcome in the freak show I live in.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
6. I call BS
Sat May 4, 2019, 06:57 PM
May 2019

Interesting how for Rs lying, treason, and murder are all fine, but being gay is what can do you in.

elfin

(6,262 posts)
13. No he isn't. Just a wannabe, especially around manly men like McCain.
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:08 PM
May 2019

Wait - that doesn't explain his brown nosing pretend-manly Trump.

For someone with a proud military history, he sure is a delicate flower bending to the hard right political wind, perhaps thinking it makes him look "manly" and strong. No, it doesn't.

Mr. Ected

(9,675 posts)
14. This is what Trumpers would call "fake news"
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:09 PM
May 2019

Coming from a right wing rag. If this is what they're trying to advance to their true believers, the opposite is surely true, and Putin's probably dangling the proof over Lindsey's terrified head.

ismnotwasm

(42,030 posts)
15. Not married no kids. Huh. I don't think he's gay.
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:22 PM
May 2019

Probably an extreme misogynistic asshole though, or a Republican, but I repeat myself.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
26. I am sort of on his side on this one.
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:45 PM
May 2019

He may in fact be gay and hiding it. Or he may not be gay. As a lifelong attractive bachelor who has no children and is not gay, I see where he is coming from, I have had the "gay" stuff thrown at me. When a person has a certain profile and does not have someone of the opposite sex involved in their life, the "gay" rumors start being whispered. I have been the victim of that stuff endlessly and think that it is reprehensible. For whatever their reason, some people just choose not to be married or involved with someone.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
29. True it is no reason
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:04 PM
May 2019

To assume that. Especially with no frequent companion of the same sexy either. It’s simple mindedness.

pnwmom

(109,028 posts)
35. The difference is we know his email was hacked by the Russians,
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:27 PM
May 2019

but they didn't release it. On the other hand, he seems to have really flip-flopped on Trump and the Russians.

Being blackmailed would explain a lot.

P.S. Graham is a lifelong bachelor, but he has never been "attractive." That's not why some people think he's gay!

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
37. He may be gay, but we need more that conjecture and stereotyping.
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:37 PM
May 2019

Falling for that stuff truly is beneath us.

pnwmom

(109,028 posts)
38. Like I said, I think they're blackmailing him with something
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:41 PM
May 2019

and so that seems to be a possibility.

It wouldn't matter if he were out. Unfortunately, it does matter if he's not.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
59. If Graham is gay and he is hiding it in his position, that is not good
Sun May 5, 2019, 12:21 PM
May 2019

for the country. But as a regular citizen, I feel that we need something more concrete on him that insinuations and conjecture. Eventually the truth comes out, but as a person in a situation similar to him (single, never really dated anyone, no children) I know what people say behind one's back. I am straight, but how does a man "prove" that he is not gay, go out and impregnate 1,000 women? But exactly what would have been proven or disproven?

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
64. You got part of the point that I was making.
Sun May 5, 2019, 05:26 PM
May 2019

We should take people at their word on their sexuality until solid evidence proves otherwise. He or she should have to prove nothing.

misanthrope

(7,436 posts)
61. Episode of Seinfeld
Sun May 5, 2019, 02:19 PM
May 2019

Jerry was explaining how others often assumed he was gay because he was "single, thin and neat."

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
63. When it comes to tv or movies, I always need an explanation.
Sun May 5, 2019, 05:22 PM
May 2019

I have missed so many iconic cinema events.

BigmanPigman

(51,675 posts)
24. He even lied about that! He is 100% garbage.
Sat May 4, 2019, 07:44 PM
May 2019

"He insisted to his dying day that his disease was liver cancer."

"According to Roger Stone, Cohn's "absolute goal was to die completely broke and owing millions to the IRS. He succeeded in that."

"Cohn and McCarthy targeted many government officials and cultural figures not only for suspected Communist sympathies, but also for alleged homosexuality. McCarthy and Cohn were responsible for the firing of scores of gay men from government employment and strong-armed many opponents into silence using rumors of their homosexuality."

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roy_Cohn

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
28. When he was dying ....
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:03 PM
May 2019

his dear friend trump would not visit him. trump was probably afraid he would "catch" Aids. trump has been a scumball, just like Cohn, his whole life.

Response to thegoose (Original post)

pnwmom

(109,028 posts)
33. The Russians hacked one of Graham's email accounts.
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:19 PM
May 2019

They went to the trouble of hacking the RNC server but didn't leak anything they found there.

So what did they do with the emails they didn't leak? Maybe they kept them for blackmail.

Anyone who is gay and is afraid of being outed could be subject to blackmail.

If Graham is being blackmailed that would explain why he stopped publicly hating Trump.

This is from December 16, when Graham was still concerned about the Russians:

https://www.cnn.com/2016/12/14/politics/lindsey-graham-hacking-russia-donald-trump/index.html

Washington (CNN)Republican Sen. Lindsey Graham said Wednesday his campaign email account was hacked by Russians -- adding that the US needs to work together to stop this from happening.

"I do believe the Russians hacked into the (Democratic National Committee). I do believe they hacked into (John) Podesta's email account. They hacked into my campaign account," he told CNN's Wolf Blitzer on "The Situation Room." "I do believe that all the information released publicly hurt Clinton and didn't hurt Trump. I don't think the outcome of the election is in doubt. What we should do is not turn on each other but work as one people to push back on Russia."

SNIP

"They're trying to destabilize democracy all over the world. Not just here," he said about the Russians. "Here's what we should do. We should tell the Russians that on no uncertain terms, you interfere in our elections, we don't care why, we're going to hit you and hit you hard, we're going to introduce sanctions, it'll to be bipartisan."

Blitzer asked him about Trump denying that Russia tried to influence the elections.
Graham responded that maybe Trump isn't being briefed properly on the information, or maybe he doesn't want to know, adding, "There is no doubt in my mind that the Russians hacked into political systems," matter.

Thekaspervote

(32,825 posts)
34. There are many wonderful LGBQT out there Lindsey is not one of them!
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:25 PM
May 2019

It shouldn’t really matter one way or another....but he thinks it does. And being from SC if he came out, it would probably end his career. He is the typical unhappy angry closeted gay

lindysalsagal

(20,802 posts)
40. Well, regardless of the truth of the matter, if he never had any women around him before,
Sat May 4, 2019, 08:57 PM
May 2019

he sure as heck won't, now!

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
44. I could really care less where he docks his boat
Sat May 4, 2019, 11:05 PM
May 2019

I am guessing that it came out that he is gay, his party would kick his fussybudgety little kiester to the curb. They tend not to care too much for gay men over there in the land of narrow minds.

Response to thegoose (Original post)

RandySF

(59,902 posts)
53. It's my understanding that his Chief of Staff is also his partner
Sun May 5, 2019, 02:48 AM
May 2019

Normally I would say it's nobody's business except for all the harm he's tried to cause to anyone who chooses to live their life in peace.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
55. It's the hypocrisy (if true)
Sun May 5, 2019, 02:49 AM
May 2019

It’s about someone in a position of power in a party that actively opposes equal rights for lgtbq people being a closeted gay man. I dunno if the long-standing rumors are true, but if they are it’s next level messed up. Not because of being gay, but because someone who should know better and is in a position of power instead enables policies that hurt other people in the lgtbq community. Also that someone that closeted would be very vulnerable to blackmail.

Response to TDale313 (Reply #55)

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