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The couple who had been together for nearly 65 years have died on the same day at a St. Louis area nursing home.
They met as Harriett accompanied her father on a trip with the drum and bugle corp he played in. Jack was behind the wheel of a charter bus that drove the group to some of its concerts. The couple went on their first date on Halloween of 1955. They went to a little diner and never separated from that day on, Wagener said. They married about six months later.
About a year ago, Harriet tripped while walking their dog, breaking her pelvis and hip, Sue Wagener, a niece raised by the Morrisons said. Harriet had dementia, and moved into The Woodlands of Arnold nursing home and rehabilitation center. Meanwhile, Jack was having trouble living at home. Wagener said she talked him into moving into a villa at the Woodlands in May. In September, he also fell, breaking his neck. He then moved into the nursing home, four doors down the hall from his wife.
Even then, they would nap together, one in a wheelchair, the other in bed their hands intertwined. Some days she knew him; other days she didnt, said Wagener. About 11 p.m. on Jan. 10, she got a call from a nurse saying Harriet appeared close to death. The nurse asked if staff could move furniture out of Jacks room so the couple could be together. The Morrisons beds were placed next to each other in their final hours, allowing them to hold hands. 86 year-old Jack died first. Harriett, who was 83, died later (on Jan. 11 2020).
https://www.star-telegram.com/news/nation-world/national/article239440133.html
snowybirdie
(5,243 posts)3Hotdogs
(12,442 posts)The remaining three were found dead the next day, when a neighbor when to express condolences and check up on them.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)What happened to the remaining three siblings?
3Hotdogs
(12,442 posts)I think we have all read about captives on Middle Passage who willed themselves to die.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I think most of us would like to go that way, never having to endure the loss of our beloved.
spinbaby
(15,092 posts)I dont think Ill ever completely get over losing my husband. It really is like losing part of yourself.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)It must be very difficult for you. My thoughts and good wishes are with you.
Bayard
(22,184 posts)Says it all.