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Sun Jan 19, 2020, 12:27 PM Jan 2020

Couple together for nearly 65 years die on the same day

The couple who had been together for nearly 65 years have died on the same day at a St. Louis area nursing home.

They met as Harriett accompanied her father on a trip with the drum and bugle corp he played in. Jack was behind the wheel of a charter bus that drove the group to some of its concerts. The couple went on their first date on Halloween of 1955. “They went to a little diner and never separated from that day on,” Wagener said. They married about six months later.

About a year ago, Harriet tripped while walking their dog, breaking her pelvis and hip, Sue Wagener, a niece raised by the Morrisons said. Harriet had dementia, and moved into ‘The Woodlands of Arnold’ nursing home and rehabilitation center. Meanwhile, Jack was having trouble living at home. Wagener said she talked him into moving into a villa at the ‘Woodlands’ in May. In September, he also fell, breaking his neck. He then moved into the nursing home, four doors down the hall from his wife.

Even then, they would nap together, one in a wheelchair, the other in bed — their hands intertwined. “Some days she knew him; other days she didn’t,” said Wagener. About 11 p.m. on Jan. 10, she got a call from a nurse saying Harriet appeared close to death. The nurse asked if staff could move furniture out of Jack’s room so the couple could be together. The Morrison’s beds were placed next to each other in their final hours, allowing them to hold hands. 86 year-old Jack died first. Harriett, who was 83, died later (on Jan. 11 2020).

https://www.star-telegram.com/news/nation-world/national/article239440133.html

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Couple together for nearly 65 years die on the same day (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Jan 2020 OP
Lovely story snowybirdie Jan 2020 #1
When I was a kid, four elderly sibs lived in the same house. One died. 3Hotdogs Jan 2020 #2
How strange! smirkymonkey Jan 2020 #4
Broken hearts, stress? Who knows. No foul play or carbon monoxide. 3Hotdogs Jan 2020 #5
So sad, yet lovely. smirkymonkey Jan 2020 #3
That was the hardest thing I've ever done spinbaby Jan 2020 #6
I'm sorry spinbaby. smirkymonkey Jan 2020 #8
That look between them..... Bayard Jan 2020 #7
A blessing. Karadeniz Jan 2020 #9

3Hotdogs

(12,442 posts)
2. When I was a kid, four elderly sibs lived in the same house. One died.
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 12:50 PM
Jan 2020

The remaining three were found dead the next day, when a neighbor when to express condolences and check up on them.

3Hotdogs

(12,442 posts)
5. Broken hearts, stress? Who knows. No foul play or carbon monoxide.
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 01:00 PM
Jan 2020

I think we have all read about captives on Middle Passage who willed themselves to die.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
3. So sad, yet lovely.
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 12:56 PM
Jan 2020

I think most of us would like to go that way, never having to endure the loss of our beloved.

spinbaby

(15,092 posts)
6. That was the hardest thing I've ever done
Sun Jan 19, 2020, 01:36 PM
Jan 2020

I don’t think I’ll ever completely get over losing my husband. It really is like losing part of yourself.

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