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It is VERY VERY VERY wrong to mock Southern accents. (Original Post) EleanorR Jan 2020 OP
I do it all the time. Aristus Jan 2020 #1
Have lived in North and South. And it is totally Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #3
An interesting case of the opposite is when, after living in Washington State for a few years, Aristus Jan 2020 #5
Funny. Don't think I even know what a Pacific NW accent sounds like. nt Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #10
Well, based on their mockery of me, it's very nasal and high-pitched. Aristus Jan 2020 #12
I have met a lot of people from that region because of my profession. Blue_true Jan 2020 #51
Hmm, I live in the Pacific Northwest (not from here originally). LisaM Jan 2020 #54
I am from the South. What I hear is upscale deliverance, more so the farther from Blue_true Jan 2020 #58
Unless you've been to Chicago, Progressive Jones Jan 2020 #63
Unfortunately all that I know about Chicago is the airport. Blue_true Jan 2020 #64
try coming from Germany gopiscrap Jan 2020 #14
I LOVE German-accented English. Aristus Jan 2020 #16
I hated it I was teased mercilessly in school gopiscrap Jan 2020 #17
When I was in elementary school (it was a Department of Defense school) Aristus Jan 2020 #18
that's really cool gopiscrap Jan 2020 #20
Me too a la izquierda Jan 2020 #60
My friends Mom is from Germany mitch96 Jan 2020 #38
An old (she will be 92 this year) friend of mine turned her German accent into a huge trademark DFW Jan 2020 #41
Nice! It must be the year of 45.. Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #46
Well, marriage at 45 only in the real world DFW Jan 2020 #49
Magyar, in my case! ChazInAz Jan 2020 #80
Cool. You know who is irritating is John Kasek..too Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #84
Not entirely. ChazInAz Jan 2020 #85
Us Northwesters sound just right and don't you forget it. The other people talk ugly and wrong. Shrike47 Jan 2020 #56
Not because I am from there, but have to say that Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #88
I have worked hard to get rid of my southern accent and have been largely successful at that GumboYaYa Jan 2020 #43
Oh ya, forgot CEEment. Lived in Birmingham a while Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #45
I know that mercuryblues Jan 2020 #61
I will say 'y'all' until the day I die. Aristus Jan 2020 #66
Si-REEN ... SKWUR-rill NurseJackie Jan 2020 #44
Lol. Where is that spoken? Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #68
That's OK. You should hear what we say about Noo Yawk or Baaston accents DFW Jan 2020 #72
I've lived in the North all my life, but have been accused of being from the South... Frustratedlady Jan 2020 #77
Wonder why? Might be like New Orleans Cajuns Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #89
I like pretending I can't understand them and call it gibberish. :) brewens Jan 2020 #52
Dang tootin' Mersky Jan 2020 #2
Don't you mean hippercritt? Wounded Bear Jan 2020 #9
Lol, in my neck of the woods it'd be hippahcreeyat Mersky Jan 2020 #13
We have been in Oklahoma for 20 years now. redstatebluegirl Jan 2020 #4
Trust me, we make fun of Polly Hennessey Jan 2020 #6
What is a California accent? I can't imagine mocking it? Don't all Californians... LAS14 Jan 2020 #15
My California accent was mocked mercilessly when I was a kid living in the U.K. hunter Jan 2020 #21
Ah! If it was in the UK, then I think they were just mocking "American." nt LAS14 Jan 2020 #22
At least most Californians do not sound like Valley Girls any more csziggy Jan 2020 #32
I have a friend from England who says that since TV dropped LAS14 Jan 2020 #34
Yes, BBC had their own version of the US Midwest accent csziggy Jan 2020 #35
We have to use close captioning for anything from the UK. nt LAS14 Jan 2020 #36
LOL! WE used to have more problems csziggy Jan 2020 #40
I think it was the "received" British accent, although I've never heard what it was received from... Hekate Jan 2020 #73
Yes, that's it! "Received." Thanks. LAS14 Jan 2020 #75
Exactly like this jayschool2013 Jan 2020 #53
I had never seen any of those clips. HOLY SHIT! A HERETIC I AM Jan 2020 #81
These idiots taking on Rick Wilson may as well have had a frontal lobotomy hlthe2b Jan 2020 #7
Republicans have been pullling the "we're just regular folk" scam for quite some time EleanorR Jan 2020 #8
I grew up in the South and the mocking went the other way, too csziggy Jan 2020 #11
I have a similar set of experiences of in and out of different accents Mersky Jan 2020 #19
Yes, within groups, teasing about acents can be fun csziggy Jan 2020 #24
I agree, somewhat Mersky Jan 2020 #28
I was raised in the north by parents from the south. Alliepoo Jan 2020 #23
Raised in the South ... SomewhereInTheMiddle Jan 2020 #25
I swear, telling the world, there is nothing in the Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #69
Why? SomewhereInTheMiddle Jan 2020 #74
Do you also call 23-27 year old men "sir"? nt. Mariana Jan 2020 #78
I've Been Called Sir By Both Genders... ProfessorGAC Jan 2020 #82
Yes..it makes people feel old!!!! Simple as that. And this Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #87
Unless you're Donald Trump and the Attorney General is Jeff Sessions MaryMagdaline Jan 2020 #26
Also grew up in the southeast. iamateacher Jan 2020 #27
isn't this on the list of things Vonkers doesn't like? 0rganism Jan 2020 #29
I love that this is blowing up. K&R crickets Jan 2020 #30
I have one and live in the PNW. I don't get mocked. I get complimented. nolabear Jan 2020 #31
My sweety is from the Texas panhandle. panader0 Jan 2020 #33
How is that different than mocking people from NYC & NJ? Oh, yeah! We can fucking take it! TheBlackAdder Jan 2020 #37
I knew two kids from Miami Beach.. One set of parents were from NY and the other Alabama mitch96 Jan 2020 #39
One of my grandfathers was born in Charleston, South Carolina DFW Jan 2020 #42
Mocking any accent is immature. cwydro Jan 2020 #47
It is also a mocking of an American attorney general. A vulgar trashing of the presidency. ancianita Jan 2020 #48
Exactly. Thank you. uppityperson Jan 2020 #65
What leads you to believe that? LanternWaste Jan 2020 #76
I'm Insecure In No Way, Shape or Form ProfessorGAC Jan 2020 #83
I love my southern accent. I know that people are listening to me when they ask Blue_true Jan 2020 #50
50 states, 50 accents jayschool2013 Jan 2020 #55
none of the people in this video have very strong accents. drray23 Jan 2020 #62
I think I have lost my Louisiana/Arkansas accent. Until I leave the south. GulfCoast66 Jan 2020 #57
+1 Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #70
Many infomercials use British accents to use the same commercial over the whole of America. keithbvadu2 Jan 2020 #59
it's just that southern accents are the easiest to make fun of Skittles Jan 2020 #67
It began with a simple typo in the Chicago Tribune about 100 years ago DFW Jan 2020 #71
Why? treestar Jan 2020 #79
The 'president' is a dick. Nothing more. spanone Jan 2020 #86
You want to hear a cool, downright sexy southern accent? not_the_one Jan 2020 #90
 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
3. Have lived in North and South. And it is totally
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:22 PM
Jan 2020

True that people up north make fun of southern accents. And it's really not as much the accent as it is what syllable is accented. Like NAYto. Or PRESident. Or INsurance. There are really only a handful of of them. If I was in public life, I would try to pronounce them like the rest of the English speaking world.

Aristus

(66,478 posts)
5. An interesting case of the opposite is when, after living in Washington State for a few years,
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:24 PM
Jan 2020

I lived in Texas again for just one (before heading back to the Pacific Northwest), and people made fun of my newly-acquired Northwest accent all the time.

Aristus

(66,478 posts)
12. Well, based on their mockery of me, it's very nasal and high-pitched.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:37 PM
Jan 2020

It's that old "I don't have an accent; YOU have an accent" thing.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
51. I have met a lot of people from that region because of my profession.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:59 PM
Jan 2020

Just imagine an upscale "deliverance" accent that pronounce words mostly properly.

LisaM

(27,843 posts)
54. Hmm, I live in the Pacific Northwest (not from here originally).
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 07:08 PM
Jan 2020

I don't think people have "deliverance" accents. It used to be that some pockets of Seattle had a trace element of Scandinavian accents, and I suppose like any manufacturing area, there was an influx of factory workers from the South that formed some pocket communities (Darrington, e.g.) that have traces of Southern accents.

Kind of hard to tell since most people here don't like to engage in conversation, though. Which puts a real crimp in trying to identify any accents.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
58. I am from the South. What I hear is upscale deliverance, more so the farther from
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 07:55 PM
Jan 2020

Seattle or Portland.

Progressive Jones

(6,011 posts)
63. Unless you've been to Chicago,
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:09 PM
Jan 2020

you have no idea how spot on those guys from the old SNL "Super Fans" sketch
nailed the "Chicahgah" accent. Lived here my whole life. I know. LOL


[link:https://www.google.com/search?q=SNL+Super+Fans&oq=SNL+Super+Fans&aqs=chrome..69i57.6039j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8|

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
64. Unfortunately all that I know about Chicago is the airport.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:37 PM
Jan 2020

It is not a big hitech hub, so I have never been outside the terminals of O'Hare.

Aristus

(66,478 posts)
16. I LOVE German-accented English.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:49 PM
Jan 2020

When I was stationed in Germany, I had a German girlfriend whom I used to love listening to, just for the accent.

gopiscrap

(23,765 posts)
17. I hated it I was teased mercilessly in school
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:52 PM
Jan 2020

luckily because of all the singing I had done to this point, I was able to get rid of it quickly. Now I wouldn't care

Aristus

(66,478 posts)
18. When I was in elementary school (it was a Department of Defense school)
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:55 PM
Jan 2020

we had a classmates newly arrived from Germany. Her name was Bettina, and she spoke almost no English. She was very shy as a result. One day, one of the lunch ladies heard about her, and came over to the lunch table and engaged Bettina in fluent German. Bettina perked right up and smiled from ear to ear.

I was always thankful for that kind, compassionate lunch lady.

mitch96

(13,929 posts)
38. My friends Mom is from Germany
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:06 PM
Jan 2020

She is 89 and came here at 19...war bride.. To me she always had a slight accent. Not much but you could tell "she weren't from around here"....
Her children??? they never thought she had an accent. I guess when you live with someone forever you don't hear it... "Accent? what accent"....
Then again they all have a NY/Long Island accent you could cut with a knife...
m

DFW

(54,448 posts)
41. An old (she will be 92 this year) friend of mine turned her German accent into a huge trademark
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:46 PM
Jan 2020

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And there's someone else VERY close to me whose German accent doesn't bother me at all (mainly because for 45 years, we have ALWAYS spoken German together)
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Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
46. Nice! It must be the year of 45..
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:31 PM
Jan 2020

The dip's the 45th, your marriage for 45, his daily approval at 45 ( please NO higher)

DFW

(54,448 posts)
49. Well, marriage at 45 only in the real world
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:47 PM
Jan 2020

We were together for 8 years before my brother invited us to our wedding (no typos). On paper, we will have been married 38 years this April.

ChazInAz

(2,573 posts)
80. Magyar, in my case!
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 03:56 PM
Jan 2020

We came from Budapest in November of 1956, when I was six. Since we lived in an Eastern European neighborhood in Springfield, Illinois known as The Cabbage Patch, it took me a long time to lose my accent. After all, everybody around us had one! When I started my theatrical training, I learned what's called "The Mid-Atlantic Voice". As a result, I sound something like Vincent Price.
Except when I'm tired or angry...then it's full-on Bela Lugosi!

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
84. Cool. You know who is irritating is John Kasek..too
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 06:44 PM
Jan 2020

much Ohio cow in his voice.

That's interesting in the Mid-Atlantic voice. (Biden). It also reminds me that I read a politician needs to be Episcopalian...100% non-offensive religion. Lol

Wow... Budapest to Springfield What a culture shock that must have been.

ChazInAz

(2,573 posts)
85. Not entirely.
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 09:19 PM
Jan 2020

I was young and flexible.
And Central Illinois has huge Hungarian population. It's a lot like the plains outside of
Budapest across the Danube: flat farmlands!

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
56. Us Northwesters sound just right and don't you forget it. The other people talk ugly and wrong.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 07:11 PM
Jan 2020

For god’s sake, the say things like ‘I’m going on I-5’ instead of ‘I’m going on theI-5’. They say ‘he graduated high school’ instead of ‘from high school. ‘ Geeze.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
88. Not because I am from there, but have to say that
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 11:57 PM
Jan 2020

supposedly, CT has the most perfect English.

Although my husband corrected me tonight. I say for-choon. It it for-chun. Per Merriam Webster.

GumboYaYa

(5,954 posts)
43. I have worked hard to get rid of my southern accent and have been largely successful at that
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:13 PM
Jan 2020

but occasionally a word just slips out and it is pure Southern talk. My wife loves to tease me over this. There are a few words that are particularly hard for me like cement and anything that has the oil sound in it. And if I could get myself to stop saying "might could" it would be a giant victory.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
45. Oh ya, forgot CEEment. Lived in Birmingham a while
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:28 PM
Jan 2020

and heard that a lot. My son actually got in trouble in school for correcting the teacher who said "Bats in the belFRY". Lol.

Here in Texas now where they say, I seen. Instead of I have seen.

Not the end of world of course. But think people should realize it does create an impression. In politics, think it's very important. No one will hear your great ideas if you have an annoying voice. Invest in speech lessons!!!

mercuryblues

(14,547 posts)
61. I know that
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:20 PM
Jan 2020

1 of my kids flunked her spelling test every fucking week. I was in tears, my kid was in tears. She studied, I tested at home. She knew how to spell every word. I figured it out when she misspelled help - healp. The teachers southern accent and phonics didn't mix.

Aristus

(66,478 posts)
66. I will say 'y'all' until the day I die.
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 12:51 AM
Jan 2020

I used to say 'howdy' until a now-ex girlfriend made fun of it. I don't say it anymore, and she ain't my girlfriend anymore!

Every once in a while, I'll slip into my Texas just for fun. I especially enjoy composing sentences conjugating 'bring, brang, brung'.

DFW

(54,448 posts)
72. That's OK. You should hear what we say about Noo Yawk or Baaston accents
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 01:46 AM
Jan 2020

For that matter, much of the English-speaking world goes to the loo instead of to the toilet, puts stuff in the boot of the car instead of in the trunk, and transports stuff in a lorry instead of in a truck. It's enough to drive you 'round the twist.

The best take-off on this was in National Lampoon's European Vacation, when the Griswold family arrives at their hotel in London and Clark Griswold takes out his translator to figure out what the Cockney receptionist is saying. His son exasperatedly says, "Dad, he's speaking English!"

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
77. I've lived in the North all my life, but have been accused of being from the South...
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 03:08 PM
Jan 2020

since I was 16. Everyone that does so says my English has a southern ring to it, but I sure can't tell what that is. Certainly not intentional.

Mersky

(4,986 posts)
13. Lol, in my neck of the woods it'd be hippahcreeyat
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:39 PM
Jan 2020

Last edited Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:57 PM - Edit history (1)

Roughly speaking.

I go in and out of my drawl all the time. How else could I survive living in the south all mah life?!

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
4. We have been in Oklahoma for 20 years now.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:22 PM
Jan 2020

My sister imitates what she calls my "southern belle okie accent" all the time. I don't take offense. I still sound more northern than southern, but it slips in there quite a bit anymore .

Polly Hennessey

(6,812 posts)
6. Trust me, we make fun of
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:26 PM
Jan 2020

New York/Brooklyn accents, too. I’m from California and pretty sure I get mocked often.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
15. What is a California accent? I can't imagine mocking it? Don't all Californians...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:46 PM
Jan 2020

..sound like movie stars or cable news anchors?

hunter

(38,337 posts)
21. My California accent was mocked mercilessly when I was a kid living in the U.K.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:29 PM
Jan 2020

Apparently we all sound like Dennis Weaver.

There's a bit of a twang to it.



Three of my grandparents were Wild West and one was San Francisco. They all moved to Southern California as young adults. I was born in Southern California.

My wife and one of my kids are accent chameleons. So is my mom. They quickly and unconsciously adopt the accent of the community they are immersed in. My wife does this in two languages, English and Spanish. People insist they know which part of Mexico her family comes from even though she's never been there -- she's simply blended the accents of the community she works with.


csziggy

(34,139 posts)
32. At least most Californians do not sound like Valley Girls any more
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:32 PM
Jan 2020

Though that affectation still has an influence in younger Americans, it has faded a lot.

I think the Midwest accents introduced in news announcers in the 1960s and seventies has flattened out a lot of the regional accents in the US. Some of the announcers were from Canada but used a generic US accent in their broadcasting. No one notices now, but when I was a kid, the distinction between the local news broadcasters and the national news announcers was very apparent.

Traveling across the UK, from Scotland to Wales and the extreme Southwest of the UK, showed me how deep regional accents can be. Sometimes it took my husband and me a few days to adjust to the local accents, but for the most part we could understand the people and vice versa. Going from the north (the Orkneys) to the South (Land's End) gave us an appreciation of the variations possible in English. One thing that was constant, though, were the "educated" English - those who probably attended the upper class schools - who are all over the British Isles and who 'must' be understood by the "lower class" across the land. I put those in quotes since the distinctions between classes are less than in past centuries, but are still there.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
34. I have a friend from England who says that since TV dropped
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:42 PM
Jan 2020

<can't think of the term 'preferred?' 'proper???' 'BBC???'> accents and started mixing in regional accents, she can't understand what they're saying either!

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
35. Yes, BBC had their own version of the US Midwest accent
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:52 PM
Jan 2020

And now there are more regional voices on the air, from what I saw though we didn't watch much news.

On the British made shows, the accents can be broad. I watch Vera, a mystery show set in Northumbria and have grown used to the local accents. My husband will walk into the room and have no idea what is being said so I have to translate. He did get fond of it while we were in the UK and can now understand the people better, but he still has problems.

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
40. LOL! WE used to have more problems
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:38 PM
Jan 2020

But after you spend twenty minutes having a conversation with an old Scotsman who had lived out in the back country for his seventy or eighties years of life, you learn to interpret it. And that was just our first day in the UK.

The biggest problem was that we never stayed any where longer than four days. By the time we'd adjusted to the local accent we were moving on to a new locale.

Hekate

(90,867 posts)
73. I think it was the "received" British accent, although I've never heard what it was received from...
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 02:15 AM
Jan 2020

I just remember the "received whatever" phrase floating in and out of Lord Peter Wimsey conversations. Kind of an ironical Church of England ecclesiastical reference?

A HERETIC I AM

(24,380 posts)
81. I had never seen any of those clips. HOLY SHIT!
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 03:59 PM
Jan 2020

LMAO! Too funny.

I lived in SoCal from late ‘01 through ‘04 and it’s amazing how many people seemed to force their pronunciations like the people in that sketch.

I mean, yeah, like, no, you know, fer shure the Moon Zappa “Valley Girl” affectation is not all that common, but I heard people start sentences like I just did ALL THE TIME!

I was hauling cars at the time and delivered all over the LA basin, down to San Diego, all along the coast up to the Bay Area, as far north as Redding and all down the Central Valley.

The range of accents in just the one state is remarkable, but with the most severe mangling, like found in the SNL Vid (I understand they are over the top of course, but not too far from real truth) always found south of the San Bernardino mountain range.

hlthe2b

(102,419 posts)
7. These idiots taking on Rick Wilson may as well have had a frontal lobotomy
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:28 PM
Jan 2020

for all their success trying to call him out.

He's never going to be more than a "Never Trumper"--certainly never a Democrat, but I'll never underestimate his quick wit and intelligence.

EleanorR

(2,395 posts)
8. Republicans have been pullling the "we're just regular folk" scam for quite some time
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:31 PM
Jan 2020

Look at shrub and his fake ranch hand persona. It's just another tool to divide.

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
11. I grew up in the South and the mocking went the other way, too
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:34 PM
Jan 2020

The early sixties was when a LOT of northerners began moving to South Florida, and we'd mock their accents. When JFK ran for President, many of the Floridians and Alabamians I knew complained about his accent and how they couldn't understand him.

In the mid-60s my family went to the New York World's Fair and being in New York was like a different country. They couldn't understand us and we couldn't understand them. Fortunately, my Dad went to Midshipman's School at Columbia during the war and he could translate for us kids. But when in private, we'd make fun of the NY accents.

Not long after that a college friend of my Dad's was transferred from Michigan to Central Florida and his daughter, who was my age, had a horrible time understanding the teachers and the other kids. She'd mock us and was not popular at all so many of the kids would mock her. It got so bad the teachers had to intervene and tell us all to cut it out.

Since my Dad's relatives were from Upper Peninsula Michigan and his mother's sister had taught for decades in Ohio, I'd grown up hearing those accents so I could understand them better. Later a teacher asked if I was from the Midwest since my accent was very mixed, and it still is to this day.

Mersky

(4,986 posts)
19. I have a similar set of experiences of in and out of different accents
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:02 PM
Jan 2020

As a young child I lived in a rural south Texas town with all of my extended family living in small town central Texas. I was steeped in thick Texas drawl, and I didn’t know anything differnt’.

Fast forward to my father getting a job in Houston and us moving there not far from NASA. I landed on another planet that year. It was tough, but spiked with all the fun of new things. I was bullied for my accent and homemade clothes (which were totally cute in my memory). Kids can just be cruel, ya know. I settled-in and all that teasing calmed down. Nbd.

Now my country cousins*? They ripped on me for being a city slicker and talking all fancy as my drawl went away and shifted to a cosmopolitan, almost east coast quality. I know this because I was asked more than a few times whether I was from the east coast.

But the drawl always came back if I’d get on the phone with Pa, Granny, Aunt Barbara, etc.

And that back and forth continues to this day. Teasing about accents can actually be rather endearing and is pretty superficial in the grand scheme of things.


* Which is hilarious, because I was rather present/shared in their lives a lot, lol


...
Eta: I moved the parenthetical phrase about my cousins down to a footnote. I added that comment in my previous edit, because I think it’s funny complexity in my relationships with them. They’re a good, mostly open-minded lot these days. Reads better now, and I think I’m done fidgeting with this post. Ty for your indulgence.

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
24. Yes, within groups, teasing about acents can be fun
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:58 PM
Jan 2020

But too often it is meant to be demeaning and that is what we should not support.

I know what you mean about accents changing depending on who you're talking to. When talking to academics I have much less of an accent, legacy of my great aunt's Ohio academic social group, many of whom often spent part of the winter at my grandmother's Central Florida lake home.

When I talk horses with my North Florida/South Georgia friends, I have a pronounced Southern accent.

In general, many people think my accent is Midwest but when we were in the UK a lot of people, even those used to US tourists, couldn't guess where my husband and I are from. He grew up in North Florida but his parents and their families were from Minneapolis so he also has a mixed Southern/Midwest accent. His cousin kid him and he gives him a good response for it. And it gets more complicated - one set of cousins were born in Hawaii and their accents are completely different from the rest of the family, too.

Mersky

(4,986 posts)
28. I agree, somewhat
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:14 PM
Jan 2020

Especially when stereotypes are unfairly waged in the mocking. With southerners, the stereotype is that they sound like they’re summarily stupid. I know from personal experience that is quite far from reality.

When I heard Wilson’s off-the-cuff remarks, I heard an expression of the insidious resentment towards the more educated. I think he made a genuine glance at that, and good golly, those scoffing at education deserve some ribbing on that front.

I appreciate your turn, and for bringing this discussion down to hearing the nuance in such as Wilson’s moment, and knowing the difference. His comments aren’t a cue for blanket insensitivity.

Alliepoo

(2,229 posts)
23. I was raised in the north by parents from the south.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:46 PM
Jan 2020

Most of my people/kin/relatives live(ed) in the south. A southern accent to me is like a lovely, soft comforting hug that wraps all around my heart and my memories. I get made fun of for saying things like “CE- ment” and “I reckon” “See-gar” cigar and “Pineys” Peonies etc. I just laugh right along with them!!

25. Raised in the South ...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:03 PM
Jan 2020

I was born and raised in Texas, but urban Texas (Houston, mostly) and was the first in my family from the state. My mother was from Tennessee, yet for some reason has little to no accent. And my father was an Army brat who grew up in the NE and Midwest.

I never really picked up the drawl. I even had folk ask if I was from England on occasion. I went to school for broadcasting and got more of a trained speech pattern then moved to London. Interestingly, while my tendency to pick up and mimic British accents improved while I was in the UK, my true American accent became more fixed. I think it was a subconscious affirmation of my identity.

Since then i have lived mostly in the North and Midwest. The only artifacts of my Texas upbringing are "y'all" (a necessary distinct second person plural which formal English lacks) and some double modals (Might should ...). And the propensity to address any female over 20 as "ma'am". I actually got called on the carpet about that when working at a place in Connecticut. Darned regional discrimination.

Y'all does get me laughed at by colleagues and students but it ain't never gonna change.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
69. I swear, telling the world, there is nothing in the
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 01:21 AM
Jan 2020

world worse than someone calling a woman ma'am. Absolutely nothing.

74. Why?
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 10:54 AM
Jan 2020

I will admit I do not understand that?

Is it age related? Even in Texas I was told "Don't call me Ma'am." by a 23-27 year old woman. I assumed it made her feel older than she was. Perhaps it is something to do with the derivation of the word, though I am ignorant of any negative origin.

I assume the male equivalent is "Sir", which i have never had a problem either using or being called (though the latter is less common).

Apparently this is a personal blind spot.

ProfessorGAC

(65,248 posts)
82. I've Been Called Sir By Both Genders...
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 04:07 PM
Jan 2020

...in various circumstances since I was 24 or 25. I'm 63. Your point is escaping me.
How does a term of respect demean anybody?

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
87. Yes..it makes people feel old!!!! Simple as that. And this
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 11:47 PM
Jan 2020

meme where people say that they were taught to say that is like ancient history. It makes whoever says it look very simple minded.

MaryMagdaline

(6,856 posts)
26. Unless you're Donald Trump and the Attorney General is Jeff Sessions
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:06 PM
Jan 2020

He ruthlessly mocked his own handpicked AG.

iamateacher

(1,089 posts)
27. Also grew up in the southeast.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:11 PM
Jan 2020

Similar experiences. People from the northeast states were especially made fun of about their "accent".

0rganism

(23,975 posts)
29. isn't this on the list of things Vonkers doesn't like?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:17 PM
Jan 2020

"The arrogance, mocking accents and smug ridicule of this nation’s ‘Real Elites’ is disgusting." - recent Vonkers tweet

seems like it might be grounds for a family feud

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100212919456

nolabear

(41,999 posts)
31. I have one and live in the PNW. I don't get mocked. I get complimented.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:22 PM
Jan 2020

They’re mocking redneck, ignorance, assholery USING the accent because it’s an easy thing to hang a handle on.

I hate stereotypes but this one is slippery. Southern accents when used to say intelligent, beautiful things are soothing and mellifluous. I know. I take absolutely indecent advantage of it whenever I can. 😘

panader0

(25,816 posts)
33. My sweety is from the Texas panhandle.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:39 PM
Jan 2020

She's been in Az for 25 years or so, but when we travel back to visit her folks,
she starts twangin' around Albuquerque and it just gets stronger until we get
there. I tease her about it but she just can't help it.
I was raised on AFBases all over and to my mind I have no accent, but I love
all accents. My ex-drummer was from Boston and had a wicked bad accent.
Vive la difference. Variety is the spice of life.

mitch96

(13,929 posts)
39. I knew two kids from Miami Beach.. One set of parents were from NY and the other Alabama
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:16 PM
Jan 2020

Both kids were raised on Miami Beach. The one with the NY parents had a NY accent and the one with Alabama parents had a southern accent.. weird, huh..
It's pretty easy to pick out a southern accent but how about WHAT PART of the south are they from... Tx? Alabama? O'l Miss? Tennessee? Sometimes Oklahoma sounds more southern than the Georgia Mountains!!
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DFW

(54,448 posts)
42. One of my grandfathers was born in Charleston, South Carolina
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:48 PM
Jan 2020

The other was born in Noo Yawk City.

I was born and grew up in the south (minus one year in the northeast of Spain).

Y'all got a problem with that, it's your problem, not mine!

ancianita

(36,160 posts)
48. It is also a mocking of an American attorney general. A vulgar trashing of the presidency.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:38 PM
Jan 2020

Americans' government is mocked. Our history of law is mocked.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
76. What leads you to believe that?
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 03:07 PM
Jan 2020

And is there a relevant or specific difference between mocking accents and mocking people (e.g., a comedian making fun of Reagan), or is all mocking immature?

ProfessorGAC

(65,248 posts)
83. I'm Insecure In No Way, Shape or Form
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 04:09 PM
Jan 2020

This whole thread is ridiculous. Your post is contributing to the the knee-jerk ridiculousness.

drray23

(7,638 posts)
62. none of the people in this video have very strong accents.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 10:33 PM
Jan 2020

Especially southern accents. Listen to Jeff Session or Senator Kennedy (the republican) for example, they have a much stronger one.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
57. I think I have lost my Louisiana/Arkansas accent. Until I leave the south.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 07:16 PM
Jan 2020

Several years ago I gave a talk at a convention in Toronto. At the casual, alcohol fed after party I found myself the center of several young ladies asking me questions about my job and other things. To the point I was feeling kind of odd. I’m an slightly overweight, middle aged happily married guy. Even in my most ego fed moment I can’t kid myself these young ladies were interested in me! So I asked them, what’s with all the questions? They grinned and one of them said “we love listening to the way you talk!”

I wish I had more of my accent, but my Southern father born in the early 30’s was a journalism major and did not encourage it. Southern accents were professionally harmful back then.

I think most Americans like proper southern accents. Think President Clinton. But too often that accent is loaded with poor grammar, bigotry and other symptoms of no education. I hate the term “ain’t” with a white hot passion. Unless used in an Ironic way which I occasionally do.



keithbvadu2

(36,962 posts)
59. Many infomercials use British accents to use the same commercial over the whole of America.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 08:49 PM
Jan 2020

Many infomercials use British accents to use the same commercial over the whole of America.

Skittles

(153,226 posts)
67. it's just that southern accents are the easiest to make fun of
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 01:01 AM
Jan 2020

heck, I am a native of Illinois but I find Chicago accents jarring - the over-emphasis of the A vowel

DFW

(54,448 posts)
71. It began with a simple typo in the Chicago Tribune about 100 years ago
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 01:39 AM
Jan 2020

Didn't you know thaaat?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
79. Why?
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 03:30 PM
Jan 2020

Are they snowflakes? Any accent can be mocked. Why do they feel inferior! No one can make them feel that way without their consent.

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
90. You want to hear a cool, downright sexy southern accent?
Thu Jan 30, 2020, 12:24 AM
Jan 2020

Listen to The Liberal Redneck. (Trae Crowder)

His attitude and philosophy are what makes him sexy. The accent is the icing on the cake.

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