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maxrandb

(15,345 posts)
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 10:28 PM Apr 17

Saw this and OMG! This is the most righteous description of how I feel

(Bold and italics are mine)

"No, Bidens rallies weren’t bigger. No, you didn’t see any Biden flags on houses or Biden bumper stickers on cars. No, you don’t know a single person on your street or at your church who supports Biden. But guess what? We’re here.

Bidens rallies were small because people who live in reality don’t want to expose themselves to the virus you continue to downplay or deny. We don’t fly Biden flags because we don’t want our houses burned down. We don’t put Biden bumper stickers on our cars because we want to avoid becoming targets for road rage.

We don’t trust you. We decided to minimize our interactions with people who cannot be reasoned with. This is for our own safety.

In private groups – where your not invited – we share our bewilderment of your descent into madness.

We all have stories about how we’ve cut ties with you, our family and former friends, because we don’t want your hatred poisoning our social media streams. We can’t stand to listen to you vomiting the lies of your cult, day after day.

You used to be different. We liked you. But now that we know what was inside your heart all along, we’ve decided you don’t deserve to know about our lives. We’ll skip family reunions, even after we get the vaccine. We’ll make up some excuse just to be polite. But in reality, we just don’t feel like sitting around eating potato salad and making small talk with people who have such monstrous beliefs.

To all the brothers and aunts and cousins and dads and neighbors out there who just can’t wrap their heads around what this means going forward, know that these scars aren’t going away anytime soon. We won’t be reaching out, and we won’t be mending fences. Its not up to us to apologize for the wounds you have gleefully inflicted upon us and our friends.

You poured the gasoline, you lit the match. You burned this to the ground. So if we seem different from now on, I guess we are. We’ve seen your truth laid bare, and we’re horrified. I hope Trump was worth it.

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Saw this and OMG! This is the most righteous description of how I feel (Original Post) maxrandb Apr 17 OP
Damn. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. Baitball Blogger Apr 17 #1
Rec. onecaliberal Apr 17 #2
Thank You for posting this. Kick and Rec. Think. Again. Apr 17 #3
Perfectly stated. K&R AmBlue Apr 17 #4
Where did you see it exactly? littlemissmartypants Apr 17 #5
I think it was a letter to the editor maxrandb Apr 17 #7
I googled it. It's from Villages-News in that retirement community in Florida, December 27, 2020. Link: highplainsdem Apr 18 #24
Thanks for the source. nt sl8 Apr 18 #30
It was rather delicious to read it again, at the source. calimary Apr 18 #31
WOW ! Conjuay Apr 18 #36
I thought everyone in The Villages were Trumpists? Poiuyt Apr 18 #54
Damn Near So... GB_RN Apr 18 #60
Also where 5 residents have been charged with using their dead spouses louis-t Apr 18 #58
Got A Link For This... GB_RN Apr 18 #62
I'll look. It was 3, then I heard 5. louis-t Apr 19 #63
Here it is. louis-t Apr 19 #64
THIS. YES. Silver Gaia Apr 17 #6
If only we hadn't elected that Black guy with the funny name. progressoid Apr 17 #8
And ain't THAT a shame........ MyOwnPeace Apr 17 #14
Kick and Rec and Wow Hekate Apr 17 #9
Yes, it captures my feeling. ampm Apr 17 #10
I think this has made the rounds before. imaginary girl Apr 17 #11
👍🏼...K&R...👍🏼 spanone Apr 17 #12
I got my Biden-Harris stickers tonight and they're going on my car tomorrow. lindysalsagal Apr 17 #13
Who remembers "The Silent Majority"? usonian Apr 17 #15
I forget how many of the TRAITOR** flotilla capsIzed on Lake Travis? niyad Apr 17 #18
The ultimate sneaker wave. Sky Jewels Apr 18 #27
Matches My Families Sentiments! Sane1 Apr 17 #16
KNR (again). This, or something similar was around during the niyad Apr 17 #17
This was published in 2020. See my reply 24. highplainsdem Apr 18 #25
I could not agree more. Well thought out and stated. chicoescuela Apr 18 #19
A compromise between democracy and fascism is unacceptable. Piss on 'em. Hermit-The-Prog Apr 18 #20
Agreed! Hikerchick57 Apr 18 #21
It speaks very well for my view. Big K&R here. yonder Apr 18 #22
Truth be told. In abundance. oasis Apr 18 #23
What DO these sick people get out of their endless love for this despicable ahole? mwb970 Apr 18 #26
That's THE Question of This Era. calimary Apr 18 #32
I simply cannot understand it. mwb970 Apr 18 #38
I feel exactly this way too.nt Trueblue Texan Apr 18 #28
Blue wave build DoBW Apr 18 #29
So well said--completely agree. Timeflyer Apr 18 #33
This is from right after the 2020 election; we're in a different world now. LeftinOH Apr 18 #34
Well said! PatSeg Apr 18 #35
Perfectly said, and... birdographer Apr 18 #37
It's funny, cuz it's the contrary: libs own MAGA, living rent free in their heads. n/t Beartracks Apr 18 #40
The wounds have been gleefully inflicted upon American democracy as well. Beartracks Apr 18 #39
KnR! n/t iluvtennis Apr 18 #41
What a drag it is to see you. world wide wally Apr 18 #42
Gratitude Jean Genie Apr 18 #43
Excellent I'm waiting for the right time to post this on Facebook kimbutgar Apr 18 #44
Amen. Joinfortmill Apr 18 #45
Exactly this! Thanks for sharing. nt LittleGirl Apr 18 #46
Beware the Fury of a Patient Man CarolinaNC Apr 18 #47
Agreed with everything except one thing. greatauntoftriplets Apr 18 #48
Insightful and well-written Seinan Sensei Apr 18 #49
321th Rec! Niagara Apr 18 #50
322. Biden did more events than Trump in 2020 underpants Apr 18 #51
I love you, underpants! Strictly platonically of course. Niagara Apr 18 #52
❤️ underpants Apr 18 #56
Biden/Trump flags keithbvadu2 Apr 18 #53
I feel the same way as the OP / author Leith Apr 18 #55
such a good point about the safety issue ecstatic Apr 18 #57
Very well said. GoodRaisin Apr 18 #59
I do have one point of disagreement, though. soldierant Apr 18 #61

Baitball Blogger

(46,753 posts)
1. Damn. I thought I was the only one who felt this way.
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 10:36 PM
Apr 17

We have to live like we're dead just to make sure we don't set them off.

AmBlue

(3,112 posts)
4. Perfectly stated. K&R
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 10:45 PM
Apr 17

My feelings exactly. This should be an anonymous letter to editors... everywhere!!

calimary

(81,421 posts)
31. It was rather delicious to read it again, at the source.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 08:38 AM
Apr 18

We know that feeling at our house. If someone’s pro-trump, he or she is lost.

Conjuay

(1,396 posts)
36. WOW !
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 09:11 AM
Apr 18

She put her name to it and everything! …I wonder where she is living now, that brave soul!
For those of you who don’t know about The Villages, it is a large (I mean LARGE - over 170K residents), 98.5 %white, probably 98.5% republican. About 3% non native born.
The only news we hear about them is when a democratic resident attempts something like this.
During the last national election, one brave soul decorated his golf cart ( there are more golf carts than cars in the community) with all sorts of democratic slogans and signs.
That was unusual enough for news crews to go out and film him.

GB_RN

(2,371 posts)
60. Damn Near So...
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 07:10 PM
Apr 18

Mostly retired, white and Republican. All the screaming from clowns like them about voter fraud and there were, IIRC, two or three assholes from The Villages who were arrested for voter fraud. I’ll have to dig up the story.

AHA! Found it. Was more than three! Their convictions/guilty pleas didn’t come until this past December, from what it looks like.

GB_RN

(2,371 posts)
62. Got A Link For This...
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 07:18 PM
Apr 18

In my post just above; #60. At the time of the news posting, 4 had either been convicted or pled guilty.

MyOwnPeace

(16,937 posts)
14. And ain't THAT a shame........
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 11:12 PM
Apr 17

one of the greatest, most brilliant presidents ever - and we have to 'hide' because we elected him.

FUCK OFF, ASSHOLES!!!!!!

HE WAS THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ampm

(301 posts)
10. Yes, it captures my feeling.
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 10:55 PM
Apr 17

This was said so right, I have done these things and I'm not sorry they ruined my trust so I safeguard my vote, and will vote with my one vote in Nov.

lindysalsagal

(20,718 posts)
13. I got my Biden-Harris stickers tonight and they're going on my car tomorrow.
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 11:05 PM
Apr 17

I'd rather declare the car broken and collect and buy a new one, anyway.

usonian

(9,849 posts)
15. Who remembers "The Silent Majority"?
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 11:21 PM
Apr 17

Well, you never see the BLUE tsunami that sends your shi* to the bottom.



ship

Sane1

(96 posts)
16. Matches My Families Sentiments!
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 11:44 PM
Apr 17

Well stated. All the BS the maga’s spewed about Covid/vaccines ended up costing this country thousands of lives. I will stay off social media (Facebook) and avoid the people I used to have conversations with in my own family and circle of acquaintances due to the toxicity you described better than I could.

niyad

(113,513 posts)
17. KNR (again). This, or something similar was around during the
Wed Apr 17, 2024, 11:50 PM
Apr 17

pandemic, but is, alas, still pertinent. Would that it were not so.

Hikerchick57

(118 posts)
21. Agreed!
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 12:35 AM
Apr 18

I’ve lost respect for friends and family who support maggots, their values are not values I can respect or forget!

mwb970

(11,364 posts)
38. I simply cannot understand it.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 09:49 AM
Apr 18

He mocks them, he insults them, he ignores them, and they keep on sucking and licking him as if he just gave them a million bucks. Then they send him their money.

LeftinOH

(5,357 posts)
34. This is from right after the 2020 election; we're in a different world now.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 08:56 AM
Apr 18

After the 2020 election, we thought that the Trump/MAGA cult was finished - and that most of the cultists would finally get a clue.

But here we are, dealing with it AGAIN for the 3rd election in a row.

birdographer

(1,337 posts)
37. Perfectly said, and...
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 09:35 AM
Apr 18

Any MAGAt reading it would be oblivious to the message, and only take away "We did it! We own the libs!" They are lost forever.

Beartracks

(12,821 posts)
39. The wounds have been gleefully inflicted upon American democracy as well.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 10:00 AM
Apr 18

And we know, even if Republicans don't, that Trump has NOT been worth it.

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Jean Genie

(277 posts)
43. Gratitude
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 11:30 AM
Apr 18

Thanks for posting! MANY, MANY of us "out here" feel this way. We've had to become suspicious of our family, friends, and neighbors out of distrust and fear. We're concerned that our political leanings will cause us to be not only criticized, but attacked. We fear the Maga-Madness that has invaded our society. We can't put pro-choice, pro-Biden, pro-LGBTQ flags, banners, stickers on our windows, on our cars, in our yards. without fearing right-wing retribution.
We watch our fellow Americans daily swallowing b.s. about the state of our country while simultaneous seeing things improve, gasoline prices going down or remaining stable, the economy generally picking up.
And worst of all, we endlessly witness far too many "good Americans," who like the "good Germans" of the 1940's, worshiping, revering, praising, and financing a felonious criminal who appears to be hell bent on destroying Democracy, by denigrating, and demeaning those who still believe in liberty and justice for all.
To borrow, and somewhat mangle, a quote: Is this the way the world ends; not with a bang but a whimper?"

kimbutgar

(21,174 posts)
44. Excellent I'm waiting for the right time to post this on Facebook
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 01:28 PM
Apr 18

I know so many people including myself who has lost friends.Most of my family are Democrats but I have some in-law relatives in Arizona who are maga and one sister in law who is married to a maga and she is a liberal like her brother who I am married to. I wonder how she survives in that marriage! When I go there we just don’t talk politics so as not to cause fights. One ex brother in law used to called us the looney liberals from California. I’m sure he’s a major magaloon now!

greatauntoftriplets

(175,748 posts)
48. Agreed with everything except one thing.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 03:05 PM
Apr 18

I never liked him. Back in the early 1980s when I first started hearing and reading about him, he creeped me out. Maybe it was the godawful taste, the smug grin, the ego, or a combination of all that and more.

He had an ick factor that has only worsened. YMMV.

Seinan Sensei

(366 posts)
49. Insightful and well-written
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 03:44 PM
Apr 18

Been there and done that.
Am there. Doing that.
MAGAts are the real Losers and Suckers.

underpants

(182,863 posts)
51. 322. Biden did more events than Trump in 2020
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 03:52 PM
Apr 18

and not “from his basement” either.

Who’s sleepy now?

Leith

(7,813 posts)
55. I feel the same way as the OP / author
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 04:42 PM
Apr 18

Except I'm not quite as charitable in my descriptions.

"because we don't want our houses burned down."
Uhh... make that "because we don't want you or your fellow maniacs burning our houses burned down because we "insulted" your orange monster god.

"We don't trust you."
Better: because you're a proven violent lunatic.

"We won’t be reaching out, and we won’t be mending fences. Its not up to us to apologize for the wounds you have gleefully inflicted upon us and our friends."
Truth: you're dead to me and I don't want you back in my life.


Yeah, I sound harsh. Good! Trust me on this: I use much more explicit language irl. I toned it down because some people seem to think that some good, old-fashioned, 4 letter words are worse than describing that thing accurately. I don't agree, but I can refrain from inflicting words on other people.

ecstatic

(32,727 posts)
57. such a good point about the safety issue
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 04:59 PM
Apr 18

Magats are dangerous bullies. It's not safe to openly show support and it's not necessarily because they outnumber us. All it takes is one unhinged (and armed) magat to cause an issue.

soldierant

(6,905 posts)
61. I do have one point of disagreement, though.
Thu Apr 18, 2024, 07:17 PM
Apr 18

I do not hope "Trump** was worth it." Instead, I hope tsf manages to destroy them.

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