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With sadness and a heavy heart -- AlienGirl has passed away. (Original Post) auntAgonist Feb 2012 OP
RIP AlienGirl ProSense Feb 2012 #1
Oh, that's sad. Morning Dew Feb 2012 #2
. seabeyond Feb 2012 #3
Words are always so inadequate... Fumesucker Feb 2012 #4
At rest lpbk2713 Feb 2012 #5
Oh, gosh. yewberry Feb 2012 #6
... Greybnk48 Feb 2012 #7
Oh no. RIP AlienGirl. May we meet in another place. geckosfeet Feb 2012 #8
Her eloquence on DU about her fear, her hopes, her future... she didn't leave without touching us riderinthestorm Feb 2012 #9
Tears are making it difficult to post... AlienGirl I can only hope you are at peace. hlthe2b Feb 2012 #10
I am so sorry to hear this :-( NC_Nurse Feb 2012 #11
:( :::::: WillyT Feb 2012 #12
Thank you for letting us know auntAgonist Tsiyu Feb 2012 #13
OH NO!!! RIP, Tucker!!! Odin2005 Feb 2012 #14
Hers was a powerful and profound presence. Zenlitened Feb 2012 #15
only 38 hfojvt Feb 2012 #16
Really, only 38 years old? Lasher Feb 2012 #35
takesus away too hfojvt Feb 2012 #57
Now don't hang on Lasher Feb 2012 #59
You probably won't find an obituary yet. Her parents are with her in FL but auntAgonist Feb 2012 #49
Thank you for this. Hissyspit Feb 2012 #62
RIP AlienGirl cherokeeprogressive Feb 2012 #17
Rest in peace. Broderick Feb 2012 #18
Heartbreaking news. abq e streeter Feb 2012 #19
Oh no no no ... Arugula Latte Feb 2012 #20
. stevedeshazer Feb 2012 #21
So very sad. RIP emilyg Feb 2012 #22
RIP AlienGirl BlueToTheBone Feb 2012 #23
I'm so sorry to hear this Th1onein Feb 2012 #24
July to February. boppers Feb 2012 #47
RIP Alien Girl... one_voice Feb 2012 #25
RIP and condolences KansDem Feb 2012 #26
How sad to hear. MineralMan Feb 2012 #27
OHHHHHHH! Howler Feb 2012 #28
She was so strong, facing her passing as yet another part of her life.... WCGreen Feb 2012 #29
:( laundry_queen Feb 2012 #30
Sympathy to all who knew and loved AlienGirl livetohike Feb 2012 #31
Very sad. RIP. n/t greytdemocrat Feb 2012 #32
kick to keep this visible. auntAgonist Feb 2012 #33
Rest in peace sis malaise Feb 2012 #34
RIP pmorlan1 Feb 2012 #36
I am so sad to hear this renate Feb 2012 #37
........... glinda Feb 2012 #38
. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #39
My deepest condolences solara Feb 2012 #40
Very sad. Peace to her family and friends. nt sufrommich Feb 2012 #41
requiescat in pacem niyad Feb 2012 #42
safe passage, alien girl shanti Feb 2012 #43
only the good die young... nradisic Feb 2012 #44
Safe journey Alien Girl, you made DU a better place. condoleses to family & friends mulsh Feb 2012 #45
oh no JCMach1 Feb 2012 #46
K&R for Tucker JitterbugPerfume Feb 2012 #48
I am sorry to hear of her passing Nikia Feb 2012 #50
Kick with a prayer. hedgehog Feb 2012 #51
Like so many here, her voice rang out FailureToCommunicate Feb 2012 #52
:cry: jpak Feb 2012 #53
You will not be forgotten. mmonk Feb 2012 #54
VERY sad news Raine Feb 2012 #55
So so sad. Peace to you, AlienGirl... countryjake Feb 2012 #56
My condolences to her family and all who knew and loved her Dystopian Feb 2012 #58
May she rest in peace. nt. Terra Alta Feb 2012 #60
I'm really sorry Leopolds Ghost Feb 2012 #61
She makes the journey home lovuian Feb 2012 #63
That is sad news. aikoaiko Feb 2012 #64
RIP Kingofalldems Feb 2012 #65
I never met her DonCoquixote Feb 2012 #66
So sad. Farewell, AlienGirl. FourScore Feb 2012 #67
RIP dear sister AlienGirl nt librechik Feb 2012 #68
Holy... Rhiannon12866 Feb 2012 #69
Rest in peace, you will be missed. n/t MadHound Feb 2012 #70
RIP AlienGirl Catherine Vincent Feb 2012 #71
RIP Initech Feb 2012 #72
RIP. nt DesertFlower Feb 2012 #73
Sad to hear this Art_from_Ark Feb 2012 #74
RIP colorado_ufo Feb 2012 #75
Safe Passage, Tucker enigmatic Feb 2012 #76
Alien Girl's picture from her journal bobmorr1 Feb 2012 #77
I remember that journal entry. Beacool Feb 2012 #82
Condolences to all who knew and loved her. cordelia Feb 2012 #78
That's so sad. Darth_Kitten Feb 2012 #79
RIP, dear girl. yellerpup Feb 2012 #80
So very sorry to read this. She answered me when I had my cancer a couple of sinkingfeeling Feb 2012 #81
ALIENGIRL LoisB Feb 2012 #83
This is indeed sad news. Beacool Feb 2012 #84
Rest in peace, Tucker. highplainsdem Feb 2012 #85
Hasta siempre, Hermana. Octafish Feb 2012 #86
RIP AlienGirl PADemD Feb 2012 #87
Safe Journey AlienGirl Smilo Feb 2012 #88
RIP AlienGirl....RIP.... opihimoimoi Feb 2012 #89
So sorry to hear that... joeybee12 Feb 2012 #90
RIP Taverner Feb 2012 #91
Oh no. I am so, so sorry. Withywindle Feb 2012 #92
today is AlienGirl's birthday. Please keep her family in your thoughts. n/t auntAgonist Feb 2012 #93
Damn. WilliamPitt Feb 2012 #94
Sorry to hear this--may she rest in peace. TwilightGardener Feb 2012 #95
 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
9. Her eloquence on DU about her fear, her hopes, her future... she didn't leave without touching us
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 02:25 PM
Feb 2012

Thanks for letting us know....

Lasher

(27,675 posts)
35. Really, only 38 years old?
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 05:29 PM
Feb 2012

Time is a cruel thing. It makes us feeble and takes our friends from us.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
57. takesus away too
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 07:33 PM
Feb 2012

We generally expect to live past 38. In fact, all of my cousins but two has. That's 33 out of 35, but there are really no guarantees for any of us.

Lasher

(27,675 posts)
59. Now don't hang on
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 09:12 PM
Feb 2012

Nothin' lasts forever but the earth and sky
It slips away
And all your money won't another minute buy

auntAgonist

(17,252 posts)
49. You probably won't find an obituary yet. Her parents are with her in FL but
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 06:46 PM
Feb 2012

the memorial will be in MI.

I will post IF and when it's appropriate to do so with her family's permission.

aA
kesha

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
17. RIP AlienGirl
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 02:40 PM
Feb 2012

GrandFather Sky:

May your songs of the winds and clouds sweep the pain and sadness out of my friends' hearts; as they hear those songs, let them know the spirits who are with those songs are at peace.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
28. OHHHHHHH!
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 03:43 PM
Feb 2012

Way to soon to have to say goodbye!
Alien Girl will be sorely missed.
Sending love to all her family and friends in this hour of great loss.

WCGreen

(45,558 posts)
29. She was so strong, facing her passing as yet another part of her life....
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 03:45 PM
Feb 2012

Over the years I got to know her and I am sorry that she has passed but am also relieved that she is free from the pain...

livetohike

(22,172 posts)
31. Sympathy to all who knew and loved AlienGirl
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 03:50 PM
Feb 2012
She was such a great addition to our DU family....may she rest in peace.

renate

(13,776 posts)
37. I am so sad to hear this
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 05:31 PM
Feb 2012

I'm glad her suffering is over, and the need for bravery (she was so brave), but I am so sorry about her loss. She was so inspiring, still so passionately concerned for others despite what she was going through.

In Th1onein's post earlier there was a link to the thread from last year in which AlienGirl had just been diagnosed with the recurrence, and described her worries about death; I hope she was pleasantly surprised by what she now knows what comes next.

solara

(3,836 posts)
40. My deepest condolences
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 05:55 PM
Feb 2012

So sad.. Such a loss


My Prayers go with family and friends

and with AlienGirl of course

Of Course

Nikia

(11,411 posts)
50. I am sorry to hear of her passing
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 06:49 PM
Feb 2012

I am glad that she was part of this community and was able to participate publically in politics as well. My condolences to her family.

mmonk

(52,589 posts)
54. You will not be forgotten.
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 07:06 PM
Feb 2012

This is one fear you didn't have to worry about. My condolences to the family.

Raine

(30,547 posts)
55. VERY sad news
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 07:07 PM
Feb 2012

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope the end was painless and that she's at peace now. R-I-P Tucker

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
56. So so sad. Peace to you, AlienGirl...
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 07:13 PM
Feb 2012

you will forever occupy our hearts, here, and your spirit will never be forgotten.

So sad to hear this.

Dystopian

(6,421 posts)
58. My condolences to her family and all who knew and loved her
Sun Feb 12, 2012, 09:10 PM
Feb 2012

Tucker touched my heart ... our hearts.

May she rest in peace~

Beacool

(30,254 posts)
82. I remember that journal entry.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 12:07 PM
Feb 2012

Tucker fought as hard as she could, but the cancer won out in the end.

May she rest in peace.

sinkingfeeling

(51,498 posts)
81. So very sorry to read this. She answered me when I had my cancer a couple of
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 11:28 AM
Feb 2012

years ago. She will be missed.

Beacool

(30,254 posts)
84. This is indeed sad news.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 12:15 PM
Feb 2012

Tucker went through a long and hard battle to combat her illness. She kept going as long as she could. Unfortunately, the cancer won out.

My thoughts and prayers are with her family and loved ones.

A terrible loss for them and for our internet community.

Rest in peace.

highplainsdem

(49,125 posts)
85. Rest in peace, Tucker.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 12:24 PM
Feb 2012

You fought so bravely, and inspired so many with your courage and commitment. My condolences to your family and all who love and miss you.

Smilo

(1,944 posts)
88. Safe Journey AlienGirl
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 02:12 PM
Feb 2012

I am standing by the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze
and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength,
and I stand and watch
until at last she hangs like a peck of white cloud
just where the sun and sky come down to mingle with each other.

Then someone at my side says, 'There she goes!
Gone where? Gone from my sight - that is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull and spar
as she was when she left my side
and just as able to bear her load of living freight
to the places of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.

And just at the moment when someone at my side says,
'There she goes! ' ,
there are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices ready to take up the glad shout :
'Here she comes!'

Henry Van Dyke - 1852 - 1933

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
90. So sorry to hear that...
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 03:45 PM
Feb 2012

She let us know the inevitable was coming, but this is still a shock. Safe passage.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
92. Oh no. I am so, so sorry.
Mon Feb 13, 2012, 04:31 PM
Feb 2012

She wrote so eloquently about her struggle - I really hoped she'd beat it, or at least stay a little longer.

But she's no longer suffering and I know she's at peace. Condolences to her family and all her friends everywhere.

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