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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,719 posts)
Mon Jun 1, 2015, 08:53 AM Jun 2015

Why are all the colloquialisms associated with being strong male oriented?

I was reading this book about Red Auerbach, legendary coach and general manager of the Boston Celtics, who passed away in 2006. He was a liberal, a Democrat, and a man ahead of his time when it came to race. He was the first NBA coach to start five black players in 1964 and the first to hire a head black coach when he hired Bill Russell in 1966...

He was friends of Democratic presidents from Kennedy to Clinton. He even did some work for Al Gore in 00 because of their shared St. Albans ties.

He passed away in 2006.

Any way...He was giving a speech to Secret Service Agents and he said "it takes balls to do what you do." The assistant director of the Secret Service who was female turned to the author of the book, John Fierstein, and said "now I know what I want for Christmas."

Which gets me to my point. These are the colloquialisms or euphemisms bandied about for strong;

Balls
Brass ones
A set
Cojones

Women are strong too!!!


We need some cool colloquialisms for them.

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Why are all the colloquialisms associated with being strong male oriented? (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth Jun 2015 OP
Why not a Steel Backbone meow2u3 Jun 2015 #1
I use intestinal fortitude mythology Jun 2015 #2
This goes deeper than that - but it would be a good start el_bryanto Jun 2015 #3
Just don't use those words upaloopa Jun 2015 #4
But as Betty White said... CurtEastPoint Jun 2015 #5

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
3. This goes deeper than that - but it would be a good start
Mon Jun 1, 2015, 09:20 AM
Jun 2015

It's how positive traits and negative traits are gendered - consider a strong woman - a woman who acts like a man with brass ones will often be described completely differently (often with a nasty word starting with b).

It's the way language teaches us to accept people in the roles we have assigned them. It's pretty lousy when you stop to think about it.

Bryant

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