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I was reading this book about Red Auerbach, legendary coach and general manager of the Boston Celtics, who passed away in 2006. He was a liberal, a Democrat, and a man ahead of his time when it came to race. He was the first NBA coach to start five black players in 1964 and the first to hire a head black coach when he hired Bill Russell in 1966...
He was friends of Democratic presidents from Kennedy to Clinton. He even did some work for Al Gore in 00 because of their shared St. Albans ties.
He passed away in 2006.
Any way...He was giving a speech to Secret Service Agents and he said "it takes balls to do what you do." The assistant director of the Secret Service who was female turned to the author of the book, John Fierstein, and said "now I know what I want for Christmas."
Which gets me to my point. These are the colloquialisms or euphemisms bandied about for strong;
Balls
Brass ones
A set
Cojones
Women are strong too!!!
We need some cool colloquialisms for them.
meow2u3
(24,776 posts)to describe courage?
Gender neutral? Check.
mythology
(9,527 posts)el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)It's how positive traits and negative traits are gendered - consider a strong woman - a woman who acts like a man with brass ones will often be described completely differently (often with a nasty word starting with b).
It's the way language teaches us to accept people in the roles we have assigned them. It's pretty lousy when you stop to think about it.
Bryant
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)As more women fill traditional male positions they will fade away.