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DanM

(341 posts)
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 07:42 AM Jun 2015

Is narcissism also one of Rachel Dolezal's problems?

I mean, doesn't her performing in blackface scream "Me, me, look at me!"

Also, the selfies . . . all the selfies. Girl couldn't get enough of taking pictures of herself in the different sister hairdo's.

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Is narcissism also one of Rachel Dolezal's problems? (Original Post) DanM Jun 2015 OP
"sister hairdo's" RandiFan1290 Jun 2015 #1
I'm using the term Rachel probably would. It's called sarcasm. Which she deserves. n/t DanM Jun 2015 #3
More racist bullshit RandiFan1290 Jun 2015 #4
Yes, apart from any good work she did, there is some racial BS going on with her behavior. DanM Jun 2015 #6
I agree completely. NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #8
What was your first clue? NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #2
There's been plenty of discussion about this being a case of . . . DanM Jun 2015 #5
There's no doubt about it in my opinion. NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #7
Wow, good point about her resignation letter illuminating her narcissism! DanM Jun 2015 #9
And you get bonus points for using "epistle" in a sentence! :) DanM Jun 2015 #10
LOL...yeah, they don't use that one much anymore. NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #12
I get the feeling there's some bad family dynamics sufrommich Jun 2015 #11
In that area, she does seem to want to be seen as a martyr. Which is a form of narcissism. n/t DanM Jun 2015 #14
Narcissism is often fed by family dynamics in different ways. NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #17
I'm not going to play internet psychiatrist. Nor am I going to heap abuse on her- KittyWampus Jun 2015 #13
There are reports that contradict claims of family dysfunction, but even if true, . . . DanM Jun 2015 #15
Stop. Duppers Jun 2015 #16
Seems like she's also a pathological liar. The_Commonist Jun 2015 #18
Whoa! NaturalHigh Jun 2015 #19
Pathological lying definitely seems to go hand-in-hand with narcissism. DanM Jun 2015 #20
 

DanM

(341 posts)
6. Yes, apart from any good work she did, there is some racial BS going on with her behavior.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:12 AM
Jun 2015

But this thread is about her narcissism.

 

DanM

(341 posts)
5. There's been plenty of discussion about this being a case of . . .
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:08 AM
Jun 2015

. . . her intentional or pathological wrong racial identification. But none of her probable narcissism, that I've seen.

This thread facilitates a forum for anyone who thought about that also and wants to express an opinion.

Thanks for your warmth and receptiveness to that!

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
7. There's no doubt about it in my opinion.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:12 AM
Jun 2015

I read one of the articles on CNN. She asked her brother not to out her for being white. Her resignation letter was basically an epistle about all the good work she's done and what a good person she is.

Yes, she's a narcissist.

 

DanM

(341 posts)
9. Wow, good point about her resignation letter illuminating her narcissism!
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:18 AM
Jun 2015

I hadn't thought of that point, just some of her behaviors and statements before. I guess that's why I started the thread. People like you making good points I haven't even thought about.
Thanks!

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
11. I get the feeling there's some bad family dynamics
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:22 AM
Jun 2015

going on with her and her family,something is going unspoken here. I don't know if it's narcissism,but there is some mental health issues.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
13. I'm not going to play internet psychiatrist. Nor am I going to heap abuse on her-
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:30 AM
Jun 2015

there is something very wrong going on in that family.

One of her black siblings went to live with her to get away from whatever was happening in her parent's house.

 

DanM

(341 posts)
15. There are reports that contradict claims of family dysfunction, but even if true, . . .
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 08:41 AM
Jun 2015

. . . that may produce narcissistic individuals (among other issues). The family dysfunction angle would be an interesting thread, but I was just focused on Rachel's narcissism with my OP. Thanks for your post.

The_Commonist

(2,518 posts)
18. Seems like she's also a pathological liar.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:02 AM
Jun 2015

I have a relative who is a pathological liar, and some of her behavior seems quite similar to his. And I think the narcissism and lying are tied together. Playing victim is something she and my relative also have in common.

This makes for a fascinating read:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rachel_Dolezal

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
19. Whoa!
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:16 AM
Jun 2015

"This occurred following Dolezal's reports to police and local news outlets that allegedly she had been the victim of nine hate crimes."

Okay, I'm going to add nut job to the pathological liar and narcissist labels.

 

DanM

(341 posts)
20. Pathological lying definitely seems to go hand-in-hand with narcissism.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 09:45 AM
Jun 2015

At least in lying to yourself about how wonderful you are, or how you're such a martyr, or other self-aggrandizing fantasy that the narcissism rests on.

Good point.

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