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shenmue

(38,506 posts)
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:22 PM Jun 2015

Todd Starnes: ministers who don't perform gay weddings should prepare for hate crimes charges

Right Wing Watch article here

Fox News contributor, author and all-around terrible person Todd Starnes says pastors who don't want to perform LGBT weddings can look forward to being charged with hate crimes.

He could not point to any facts, of course, because he is completely wrong.

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Todd Starnes: ministers who don't perform gay weddings should prepare for hate crimes charges (Original Post) shenmue Jun 2015 OP
Of course he has not facts. This is what HE wants to happen so He can cry religious persecution. jwirr Jun 2015 #1
Like all the Catholic priests who don't marry Protestants jberryhill Jun 2015 #2
Exactly. n/t pnwmom Jun 2015 #21
Protestants, hell. There are CATHOLICs who cannot get married in a Catholic Church. Drahthaardogs Jun 2015 #92
Every single piece of legislation has exempted performance due to religious beliefs underpants Jun 2015 #3
What is so damned difficult about this? hifiguy Jun 2015 #4
It's simply maddening Proud Liberal Dem Jun 2015 #45
His hate crime comments are PRB Jun 2015 #5
Sorry, that's not how it works teenagebambam Jun 2015 #6
Both are citing religious reasons. PRB Jun 2015 #7
Sorry, if a religion chooses not to marry you, find another one ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2015 #13
Why should I do that? PRB Jun 2015 #15
Are you talking about a physical church or religion itself? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2015 #16
What do you mean PRB Jun 2015 #17
Never mind ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jun 2015 #18
I'm just using your standard. PRB Jun 2015 #19
You do realize that the free exercise of religion is a constitutional right (First Amendment) Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #22
A business is not protected by the consitution? PRB Jun 2015 #38
I happen to be an attorney. Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #52
Okay, your position helps. PRB Jun 2015 #89
Nope. jeff47 Jun 2015 #56
The constitution is the law of the land. PRB Jun 2015 #58
And the Constitution says churches and private clubs get to choose their members jeff47 Jun 2015 #62
YOu don't get the part about freedom of religion being a part of the Constitution do you? onenote Jun 2015 #63
That was a simple and clear summation of the case law and legal position, Yo_Mama Jun 2015 #88
Yes, I know how the first amendment reads. PRB Jun 2015 #90
Okay, but common sense should tell you that there's a reason that this dividing line exists. Yo_Mama Jun 2015 #93
I don't mean to be rude either, PRB Jun 2015 #94
It is about time that the Supreme Court recognized marriage equality for all TeddyR Jun 2015 #97
Lol, no jberryhill Jun 2015 #24
Nobody PRB Jun 2015 #37
Makes no difference hack89 Jun 2015 #39
If the are doing it PRB Jun 2015 #40
I think you will find that it makes no difference in the eyes of the law hack89 Jun 2015 #41
The church or religion PRB Jun 2015 #42
The government will never do (nor should they do) what you desire hack89 Jun 2015 #44
What do you mean should? PRB Jun 2015 #50
This is settled case law hack89 Jun 2015 #54
It still doesn't matter jberryhill Jun 2015 #46
I am talking about them already offering this service. PRB Jun 2015 #49
It is 100% legal discrimination. jeff47 Jun 2015 #57
Free to protest? PRB Jun 2015 #60
Protest is your only option. jeff47 Jun 2015 #65
A whites only church? PRB Jun 2015 #77
Yes, it does cover that. jeff47 Jun 2015 #96
They are not abiding by everything in the church, Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #66
Nobody is telling PRB Jun 2015 #67
The tax exempt status is specifically BECAUSE it is a religious entity. Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #69
That was in 1970. PRB Jun 2015 #74
And Brown v. Board of Education was in 1952. Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #81
Brown was 1954. PRB Jun 2015 #83
It's not separate but equal, Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #86
Sorry, I should not have PRB Jun 2015 #95
They are tax exempt because they are non-profit jberryhill Jun 2015 #72
The Catholic Church is non-profit? PRB Jun 2015 #76
Go ahead and file the suit jberryhill Jun 2015 #71
My beliefs? PRB Jun 2015 #82
Taking these in order.. jberryhill Jun 2015 #87
Okay, you're an attorney too. PRB Jun 2015 #91
I dunno.... Julia could make baking a cake an exercise in religious Ecstasy. Raster Jun 2015 #85
Its not a "loophole". former9thward Jun 2015 #73
The first amendment is a single sentence PRB Jun 2015 #75
No there is not. former9thward Jun 2015 #78
There's not more to it? PRB Jun 2015 #84
And yet ministers charge for weddings and funerals... Lars39 Jun 2015 #9
Bakers also charge for their services. PRB Jun 2015 #10
Actaully, most ministers (none that I know of) charge for these services. ladyVet Jun 2015 #29
Hang around some SB preachers. Lars39 Jun 2015 #32
Whoa! NutmegYankee Jun 2015 #27
Someone asked earlier PRB Jun 2015 #36
A magistrate is a totally different thing than a minister. NutmegYankee Jun 2015 #43
If a church has tax exempt status, PRB Jun 2015 #51
Facepalm. NutmegYankee Jun 2015 #55
Ehhhh, actually, seeing as how a minister's job is kinda in the religion biz, Arkana Jun 2015 #47
So the North Carolina magistrates are not in the religious business? PRB Jun 2015 #48
Nope, they aren't. jeff47 Jun 2015 #59
If they're doing the same thing PRB Jun 2015 #61
They aren't doing the same thing as a church. jeff47 Jun 2015 #64
The courts have long given wide latitude to ministers and churches when it comes to determining who LanternWaste Jun 2015 #53
methinks they're feeling a bit guilty for charging for weddings and funerals Lars39 Jun 2015 #8
Speaking as an ordained minister of the Universal Life Church of Modesto, California FrodosPet Jun 2015 #11
the irony is that only one state actually did tell ministers who to marry dsc Jun 2015 #12
That is the law in all states. Ministers cannot break the law, anymore than anyone else can. ladyVet Jun 2015 #30
Correct. In most states the law was not written or interpreted that way, Ms. Toad Jun 2015 #68
Hate Crimes charges? Fuck that noise. MrScorpio Jun 2015 #14
I went to High School in EastTN with a Todd Starnes... wonder if he is the same guy?? I seem to Ghost in the Machine Jun 2015 #20
You mean like the rabbi who made it clear that he would never officiate at our wedding... Hekate Jun 2015 #23
Rubbish. They're all going to be rounded up in Jade Helm 15 and detained in empty Wal-Marts. tanyev Jun 2015 #25
They will be placed in FEMA trailers? Dirty Socialist Jun 2015 #26
Hey! underpants Jun 2015 #28
You are useless as an undercover operative. Report to your cell leader immediately! nt ladyVet Jun 2015 #31
I thought we were using the FEMA camps? nt msanthrope Jun 2015 #34
You're right. The Wal-Marts are for tunnels and food distribution, tanyev Jun 2015 #35
And forced to wear lingerie. Beanies and whips too. randys1 Jun 2015 #79
Just like all those ministers charged for refusing to do inter-racial weddings csziggy Jun 2015 #33
Boy they keep making it up as they go along - LiberalElite Jun 2015 #70
Fox is a terrorist organization, very dangerous, very deadly. randys1 Jun 2015 #80
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
2. Like all the Catholic priests who don't marry Protestants
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:27 PM
Jun 2015

...and Protestants who don't marry Catholics; or Rabbis, Imams, etc., who only perform religious services for adherents of their respective faiths?

What planet does this guy live on? He never noticed that religious officiants have long been perfectly free to determine with whom and for whom they will or will not engage in rituals?

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
92. Protestants, hell. There are CATHOLICs who cannot get married in a Catholic Church.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 08:45 PM
Jun 2015

The Church is a tad bit regressive.

underpants

(183,071 posts)
3. Every single piece of legislation has exempted performance due to religious beliefs
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:28 PM
Jun 2015

And polygamy has also been taken out of consideration. But I have heard both of these on RW radio already.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
4. What is so damned difficult about this?
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:31 PM
Jun 2015

No one HAS to perform any marriage. A rabbi can refuse to officiate for two Catholics, a Catholic priest can refuse to officiate for two protestants getting married.

All this means is that the civil law of marriage now includes EVERYONE, just as it should

.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,464 posts)
45. It's simply maddening
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:26 PM
Jun 2015

If anybody thought that SCOTUS making their ruling the other day would decisively stop all of the right-wing/Republican nonsense about marriage equality, they were sorely mistaken. SCOTUS threw down the gauntlet and told us that what the Constitution says about marriage equality but we need to brace for the wave of right-wing stupidity/hypocrisy/craziness that is just beginning, unfortunately. *sigh*

 

PRB

(139 posts)
5. His hate crime comments are
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 06:38 PM
Jun 2015

just a stunt to get viewers because news is so competitive. But I do think refusing ministers should be sued. It's really no different that the cake bakers. If they want to push their religion, then push the law (now stronger) into their face. They now have no excuse.

teenagebambam

(1,592 posts)
6. Sorry, that's not how it works
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:08 PM
Jun 2015

nor should it. Ministers are free to decline performing a marriage ceremony, as they have always been (thus you probably won't be getting married in the Catholic Church if you're divorced, or by a Rabbi if you're not Jewish.) The reason cake bakers, etc. can be sued is because they serve no ministerial function.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
7. Both are citing religious reasons.
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 07:13 PM
Jun 2015

The church refusal is just a loophole. People get married in churches. Refusal amounts to discrimination based on some fairy tale book that has no relevance today.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
13. Sorry, if a religion chooses not to marry you, find another one
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:47 PM
Jun 2015

Not going down that road. People need to wake up and get away from religion anyway. Why would someone want to get married in a church "based on a fairy tale book" if they don't believe in it?????

 

PRB

(139 posts)
15. Why should I do that?
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:54 PM
Jun 2015

So if a baker decides to insult me for what I am, then I should go somewhere else? I'm supposed to waste my time, not to mention blatant discrimination couched in the exact same religious mumbo jumbo?

What about the boy scouts? The people who challenged that should have not challenged it? I guess they should have went crawling home with their tail between their legs when gays were denied admittance.

I am now replying to your edit. Some people DO want to marry in a church. If they are part of a church or like a church, then why should they be denied? Should somebody go all over town to find a baker? I guess everyone else can join the scouts as long as you're born the right way.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
16. Are you talking about a physical church or religion itself?
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 11:03 PM
Jun 2015

Most churches you can't get married in unless you belong to the congregation and the religion. So you kinda have to believe what said religion teaches. Really don't get what you are going on about or if you are trying to stir shit up and take that next step towards state interference in religion. Not sure why anyone would be a member of a religion that doesn't accept them. "Hey, I'm a Jew but I want to get married in this beautiful Mosque!"

 

PRB

(139 posts)
17. What do you mean
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 12:04 AM
Jun 2015

being a member of a church that does not accept them? People are members of churches. Many eventually get married after they become members. Why should the gay member be denied a service while the straight member is given a service?

And it's not state interference when you are enforcing laws that prohibit discrimination. People go into a bakery that is part of their community. Maybe they've visited that bakery for years. Maybe became friends with the workers. They obviously like the product since they are a repeat customer. Suddenly, things should change because now they just order a friggin cake and the nut case owner cites some nonsense when that gay person's money was good for years? No different than supporting a church for years and then the pastor turning on you because he likes to discriminate.

Hell, maybe they just shop at that bakery because the next one is too far out of the way. It makes no difference. I don't need to justify it. I don't need to test for my beliefs. YOU CAN'T DISCRIMINATE! Stop defending these people.


ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
18. Never mind
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 12:37 AM
Jun 2015

Don't know why I'm arguing with someone who wants an institution based on a "fairy tale book" to be forced to legitimize something. Because that makes sense.

The courts will never force a religion to marry people they don't want to. Sorry. Whether I find that odious or not is irrelevant. Religions will off shoot to accommodate those who have modified their beliefs.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
19. I'm just using your standard.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 12:54 AM
Jun 2015

A kid is in the cub scouts. He's--in your words--accepted. He grows to become a boy scout and maybe an eagle scout. He and his parents believe in scouts. They like everything about them, except when they discriminated. What to do? Throw out the baby with the bathwater? Leave the organization? NO! You call them on discrimination.

There are people who belong to churches. They don't necessarily believe in Leviticus. Not everybody in a church will agree on doctrine or interpretation. You grow up and/or grow in that church, and all the sudden you get shafted because of discrimination. Again, NO! Churches have tax exempt status. That means they are part of society. They can't conveniently exempt themselves from the law of the land.

And you're right. Courts will never make churches marry people. Not, of course, until people demand it. Plessy v Ferguson meant people of color would never sit next to whites in class. UNTIL PEOPLE DEMANDED BETTER. That's what this week's court decision was about. Nothing happened until a majority demanded it. Democracy in action, I say.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
22. You do realize that the free exercise of religion is a constitutional right (First Amendment)
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 03:15 AM
Jun 2015

and that baking cakes is not, right?

That changes the legal analysis. The government many not (as a general rule) interfere with the free exercise of religion, under the first amendment. For purposes of the First Amendment analysis, it is completely irrelevant whether you believe some fairy tale book is valid or not. What matters is whether those whose rights you want to trample on believe it. Any attorney who took a case attempting to force a church to marry a same gender couple should be disbarred.

In contrast, a business you open to the public is not protected by the constitution - and you have to abide by the civil rights laws which prohibit discrimination. Whether a baker would be forced to bake a cake for a marriage he didn't believe in is not yet clear. Homosexuality is still not a protected class. What the court found was a constitutional right to marry - not necessarily a constitutional right to ancillary services. Gays can still be fired just for being gay in most states - I'm not sure it is clear that a baked goods would give LGBT individuals more protection than they have for employment. It is a much closer case because of the absence of a constitutional right to the free exercise of cake baking.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
38. A business is not protected by the consitution?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:08 PM
Jun 2015

The constitution is the law of the land.

And starting your post with "you do realize" is often indicative of someone whose makes such blatantly erroneous statements, but just pretends to know things because it's the internet.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
52. I happen to be an attorney.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:17 PM
Jun 2015

Teaching, among other things, constitutional law.

Religion is an enumerated right in the constitution. Baking cakes is not. Imposing governmental restrictions on cake baking is far easier, from a constitutional perspective, than imposing governmental restrictions on the free exercise of religion.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
89. Okay, your position helps.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 08:01 PM
Jun 2015

I would listen to you; however, you used the term "far easier." So now it seems that it's just a matter of expediency?

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
56. Nope.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:25 PM
Jun 2015

Now, that cake business that does not want to bake cakes for "the gays" could re-create itself as a private club, and charge a "membership fee" in addition to baking a cake. That would let them choose to not make cakes for "the gays".

But when you say you are open to the public, that means you are open to all of the public.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
58. The constitution is the law of the land.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:30 PM
Jun 2015

It applies to everyone. All laws must conform to it.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
62. And the Constitution says churches and private clubs get to choose their members
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:34 PM
Jun 2015

As a result, churches and private clubs can discriminate.

onenote

(42,885 posts)
63. YOu don't get the part about freedom of religion being a part of the Constitution do you?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:36 PM
Jun 2015


Requiring an ordained religious leader to conduct a marriage rite in contravention of the religious leader's faith would impinge on the First Amendment free exercise right. But no religion has a dictate that members of a church cannot provide services or do business with people of a different faith or otherwise discriminate against them in contravention of anti-discrimination laws.

It's not complicated and your attempts to make it so create the impression that this is all just a charade on your part. Not really fooling people.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
88. That was a simple and clear summation of the case law and legal position,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:39 PM
Jun 2015

not someone pretending to know things.

You do not have to like the law, but what the poster wrote IS THE LAW, and it is the law because the same group (SC) that said states may not withhold marriage licenses from same-sex couples says it is - and the reason they say it is derives from the First Amendment:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances.


Note that the document which contains this provision is the same document that created the SC and on which the SC derives the right to interpret the law.

Further, the recent line of court cases about religious schools, etc, have somewhat broadened the scope of the right, because the court has taken the position that those teaching in religious schools may have a ministerial function, and thus may in some cases be immune from certain provisions of anti-discrimination law.

Someone on the internet was just very helpful to you, and responding the way you did is quite rude and utterly unjustified.
 

PRB

(139 posts)
90. Yes, I know how the first amendment reads.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 08:05 PM
Jun 2015

I think I will just listen to Ms. Toad because of their qualifications. I'm sure that user is quite capable of taking my "rude" behavior in stride.

And just because something is the law, does not mean people will like it. Riding on the back of the bus was once the law. People changed that law because they spoke up. They protested. They got enough people to get involved. I'm guessing that is what it will take for gays to have full rights and equality.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
93. Okay, but common sense should tell you that there's a reason that this dividing line exists.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 09:04 PM
Jun 2015

It's your right to advocate your positions, but I don't see any chance of success. It's hard to change the Constitution, as it should be.

I have included some legal stuff below, but common sense should tell you that your position contradicts itself. When states wouldn't issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, various churches were still "marrying" them. The religious RITE is not the civil RIGHT. What makes the marriage civilly valid is the state's issue of the marriage license, and what makes the religious marriage a civil one is not the rite, but some form of subscription and witness by the officiator (A SEPARATE STEP) testifying that the persons involved went through with it.

It would have been a profound violation of the First Amendment for state governments to tell religious bodies that they couldn't perform these marriages before when they weren't civilly legal, and thus it would be a profound violation of the First Amendment for a government to tell religious bodies that they had to perform them now.

Nor is this just a holdover - remember that religious rights were expanded under Clinton after the Scalia-written law which abridged the constitutional scope of religious freedoms. RRFA basically overruled the SC:
https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/42/2000bb-1

The case in question was the denial of unemployment benefits due to a peyote-use firing contested on the grounds that it was religious exercise.

Denying a religious rite or ceremony due to non-qualification under the religious standards is so fundamental a religious act that, were it to be abrogated, it is hard to see how the First Amendment "free exercise" provision or Establishment clause could retain any meaning whatsoever. In essence, the government WOULD be establishing a religion.

You don't want that, even if you think that you do.

I don't write this to be rude, please understand. You may know that the First Amendment exists, but you do not understand it at all.

Consider, for example, Hosanna-Tabor v EEOC, decided 9-0 in 2012:
https://www.law.cornell.edu/supremecourt/text/10-553

 

PRB

(139 posts)
94. I don't mean to be rude either,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 09:43 PM
Jun 2015

but I don't think you understand constitutional history. Plessy v Ferguson was the law of the land for a relatively short time in our history, but it was changed due to people speaking up for their civil rights. Slavery was the law of the land for decades. There are many other cases like this, most, of course, not as well-known.

The constitution does change when people speak up. You can't tell me that you favored slavery or separate but equal just because it was upheld. There is a reason why it's said that the constitution is a living and breathing document. The document is just words, and has no meaning without the interpretation behind it. That interpretation is from the people and when they speak. Just like the 14th amendment.

 

TeddyR

(2,493 posts)
97. It is about time that the Supreme Court recognized marriage equality for all
Tue Jun 30, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jun 2015

And I fully support that decision and will work to protect it. At the same time, I will work to protect the First Amendment and defend churches that do not want to be forced to perform a religious ceremony that clashes with their beliefs, regardless of how much I disapprove of those beliefs. No church, pastor, priest, etc. should be forced to perform any sort of ceremony that is against their beliefs, including a same-sex marriage.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
24. Lol, no
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 07:19 AM
Jun 2015

Baking a cake is not a religious ceremony.

Performing a religious ceremony is not simply an offering of goods or services, and can certainly be limited to members of the applicable faith.

You can't just show up at a synagogue with your 13 year old and say, "I'd like a bar mitzvah", nor can you just show up at a Christian denominated church and say "Hey, I feel like getting baptized today."

If you are not a temple-recommended Mormon, you aren't even getting inside one of their temples.

They are free to practice their religion according to their rules. Running a bakery is not a religion.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
37. Nobody
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:04 PM
Jun 2015

is talking about "just showing up." I'm talking about someone who has been in a church for awhile.

Yes, churches do offer services in the broadest sense of the word.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
39. Makes no difference
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:08 PM
Jun 2015

a church can kick out a long time member when ever they want if they feel that member has violated the tenets of their religion. It is a two way street.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
41. I think you will find that it makes no difference in the eyes of the law
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:14 PM
Jun 2015

the government is never going to referee who can and cannot be members of a particular religion or church.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
42. The church or religion
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:16 PM
Jun 2015

is not the game they are refereeing. Government is overseeing the broader societal institution of marriage. Makes no difference where it takes place. Gays are gays, whether in a church or in front of a magistrate. Government needs to vigorously enforce this in any institution.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
44. The government will never do (nor should they do) what you desire
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:24 PM
Jun 2015

Churches are under no obligation to violate their religious views to accommodate anyone's desire to be married. Their First Amendment rights will (and have) prevail.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
50. What do you mean should?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:06 PM
Jun 2015

That is just your opinion and what you value. I value treating people equally. The decision last week affirmed that.

A church "violating" their religious views is nothing but thinly veiled discrimination. That is slowly changing and will change in the church. Gays can now marry. A church can't discriminate and hide behind what they call their "views."

hack89

(39,171 posts)
54. This is settled case law
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:21 PM
Jun 2015

settled by the Supreme Court. Churches and their leaders have wide latitude when it comes to religion - that is why Muslims and Jews can segregate by sex. Why only men can be Catholic priests. Why divorced Catholics can't have another church wedding. Why infant babies can be circumcised. They can set the limits and requirements of participation within their organization with few limits when it comes to discrimination.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
46. It still doesn't matter
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:29 PM
Jun 2015

A church doesn't have to offer to perform religious services, even at the behest of someone who has been "in a church for a while".

Only a minority of Mormons are allowed to enter Mormon temples.

Most fundie and evangelical churches will require couples to go through some sort of pre-marital counseling with the pastor before they will perform a wedding ceremony, and it's my understanding that many Catholic churches do a similar thing.

It is ENTIRELY within the discretion of a religious official whether they are going to perform a religious ceremony for anyone, full stop.
 

PRB

(139 posts)
49. I am talking about them already offering this service.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:03 PM
Jun 2015

They offer it to thousands of their members over the years without a hitch. A gay couple comes along and the church refuses to marry them. The couple abides by everything in the church. The only thing that separates them is the way they were born. That is discrimination.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
57. It is 100% legal discrimination.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:29 PM
Jun 2015

You are free to protest against this discrimination on public property.

Also, that couple isn't abiding by everything in the church. That church is against "gay marriage" and they want one.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
60. Free to protest?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:33 PM
Jun 2015

No thanks. I will just be active and change the law. Just like last week. You can be passive, OR, you can demand your rights. I'll do the latter.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
65. Protest is your only option.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:39 PM
Jun 2015

Unless you want to remove religious freedom from the Constitution.

Religious freedom also means freedom to be an asshole during the practice of your religion. So the government can not stop a whites-only church. Or a men-only church. Or a no-gay-marriage church.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
96. Yes, it does cover that.
Tue Jun 30, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jun 2015

Churches can use whatever criteria they like for membership in that church. If they want to make their church "whites only", there is nothing the government can do to stop them.

Note that the people are not the government. The people can use their rights to make life difficult for a whites-only church. But the government can't stop them.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
66. They are not abiding by everything in the church,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:39 PM
Jun 2015

if the church limits a marriage to mixed gender couples based on its religious beliefs. Just like many currently require one, or both, to be members of the church, or impose counseling requirements, or prohibit marriage if you have had a divorce because - in their eyes - you are still married.

All of those fall under the very broad first amendment protection for the free exercise of religion. The government does not get to tell people the fundamental tenets of their religion.

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.


Requiring a church to violate its fundamental beliefs and marry a same gender couple is prohibiting their free exercise of religion.

(There are cases where a church has opened itself up, essentially as a rental location for weddings and other events, and then the results are different because that rental is a business venture, not the free exercise of religion - and are thus subject to the public accommodation rules - just as the cake baker is.)
 

PRB

(139 posts)
67. Nobody is telling
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:44 PM
Jun 2015

what the individual members to believe.

We're talking about tax exempt institutions here. They became tax exempt, but now want to have different rules. You can't have it both ways.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
69. The tax exempt status is specifically BECAUSE it is a religious entity.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:56 PM
Jun 2015
Granting tax exemptions to churches necessarily operates to afford an indirect economic benefit, and also gives rise to some, but yet a lesser, involvement than taxing [p675] them. In analyzing either alternative, the questions are whether the involvement is excessive and whether it is a continuing one calling for official and continuing surveillance leading to an impermissible degree of entanglement. Obviously a direct money subsidy would be a relationship pregnant with involvement and, as with most governmental grant programs, could encompass sustained and detailed administrative relationships for enforcement of statutory or administrative standards, but that is not this case. The hazards of churches supporting government are hardly less in their potential than the hazards of government supporting churches; [n3] each relationship carries some involvement, rather than the desired insulation and separation. We cannot ignore the instances in history when church support of government led to the kind of involvement we seek to avoid.

The grant of a tax exemption is not sponsorship, since the government does not transfer part of its revenue to churches, but simply abstains from demanding that the church support the state. No one has ever suggested that tax exemption has converted libraries, art galleries, or hospitals into arms of the state or put employees "on the public payroll." There is no genuine nexus between tax exemption and establishment of religion. As Mr. Justice Holmes commented in a related context, "a page of [p676] history is worth a volume of logic." New York Trust Co. v. Eisner, 256 U.S. 345, 349 (1921). The exemption creates only a minimal and remote involvement between church and state, and far less than taxation of churches. It restricts the fiscal relationship between church and state, and tends to complement and reinforce the desired separation insulating each from the other.


Walz v. Tax Commission of the City of New York, 397 U.S. 664, 674-675 (1970)
 

PRB

(139 posts)
74. That was in 1970.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:15 PM
Jun 2015

The "minimal and remote involvement between church and state" has grown significantly since that time. The most visible is the evangelicals and the Moral Majority, but it's growth is also insidious among all tax exempt churches.

If churches want the benefits of tax exemption, then they need to play by the rules.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
81. And Brown v. Board of Education was in 1952.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:21 PM
Jun 2015

Supreme Court cases don't just stop being valid because they were decided years ago. They become invalid when either the constitution changes, or they are overruled. And the principle of the law doesn't become invalid because some churches are not in compliance.

The solution for churches not playing by the rules is to remove the tax-exempt status of those churches who aren't. Feel free to bring those churches to the attention of the IRS: http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f13909.pdf

 

PRB

(139 posts)
83. Brown was 1954.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:28 PM
Jun 2015

At least when it was decided. It overruled a decades long decision. The arguments for that Plessy decision were slowly and legally recognized as not being valid even before the 1950s. The arguments for that 1970 decision have become invalid. The landscape is changing with last week's decision. It's actually the same separate but equal mentality.

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
86. It's not separate but equal,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:38 PM
Jun 2015

It is a constitutional prohibition on government establishment of religion AND on government interference with the free exercise of religion. That little thing called the first amendment - which is the constitutional basis for making churches tax exempt.

You're right on the Brown year - I don't memorize dates. But 2 years' difference doesn't change the point. Supreme Court decisions don't have an expiration dates. Decisions based in the constitution are invalidated only by a constitutional amendment or by being overruled later in a different case. Neither has happened with respect to taxes.

If a church is misbehaving, go after them. I gave you the link.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
95. Sorry, I should not have
Tue Jun 30, 2015, 02:13 AM
Jun 2015

nitpicked you on Brown. I'm sure you're well aware of that as an attorney (maybe the case even started in 52).

Anyway, the separate but equal is what some were trying to push. They were saying for years that gays had the same equality, but defined it differently when two people were united in matrimony.

And I still see too many parallels between a church that can discriminate and a business (bakery) that can't. Both offer a good or service. Both are open to the public. Yes, a church is open to the public, despite some seeing it as a closed institution. You can pretty much anonymously walk in any church on Sunday, listen (and maybe benefit) from a sermon (at no cost), learn something else, etc. Yes, people might start to interact with you, but you can avoid that by going to a large church or a historic church and standing in the back. I've actually known people who have done that.

Yes, you can go to a church and ask to have a ritual performed without being a member. I actually did that when a family member died and they had no church. Rules and etiquette vary, from a minister expecting/accepting a stipend, to the church more formally asking for a fee. This is a paid service that is really not different from a baker, at least in terms of money exchanged for good/service.

I see things more in terms of nuance. Yes, a bakery is obviously different from a church; however, in the grand scheme of things, both provide a good/service with some compensation expected in return. The church refusing gays on doctrine are really not that much different than a baker declining based on the same doctrine.



 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
72. They are tax exempt because they are non-profit
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 06:57 PM
Jun 2015

Are you saying that Catholics must hire women as priests as well?
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
71. Go ahead and file the suit
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 06:55 PM
Jun 2015

If it is among the beliefs of the church that people of the same sex ought not be married, then it is not true that they "abide by everything the church teaches."

It seems you believe differently. Quite a number of others in this thread have attempted various approaches to explaining how your belief is at odds with the general exception of religious institutions in this area of law.

No, a devout Catholic woman who wants to be a priest, or a lifetime Catholic man who wants to be a nun, will be denied those occupations by their own church. No court will find in their favor.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
82. My beliefs?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:23 PM
Jun 2015

A number of others? What are their legal qualifications? What are your qualifications?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
87. Taking these in order..
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:39 PM
Jun 2015

1. Your belief that the law would require compulsion of performance of religious rituals.

2. Others in this thread.

3. I cannot speak for them all. I believe Ms. Toad is an attorney.

4. I am an attorney, and my specific background in Constitutional law includes an advanced course taught by the current Vice President of the U.S., and several cases in my practice dealing with First Amendment issues.

You are of course entitled to your belief that some court somewhere would have any problem summarily dismissing a suit to compel the performance of religious rituals.
 

PRB

(139 posts)
91. Okay, you're an attorney too.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 08:14 PM
Jun 2015

Then I would also listen to you. Thanks.

I think your last point could change. The law changed from Plessy to Brown because people spoke up. Separate but equal has parallels in last week's decision. Most churches have tax exempt status. That would make their activities more than just religious rituals. Churches have become more involved in politics and government matters. They need to be held to the same standards. Yes, I believe that compulsion will one day come about.



Raster

(20,998 posts)
85. I dunno.... Julia could make baking a cake an exercise in religious Ecstasy.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:36 PM
Jun 2015

I'd fall to my knees... and then lick the chocolate off my fingers.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
84. There's not more to it?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 07:31 PM
Jun 2015

As in court cases, legislation, regulation, interpretation, etc.?

Everybody is for freedom of religion, at least in theory. No one will say otherwise, at least to your face. Dig further, and you will see where churches are doing something else.

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
29. Actaully, most ministers (none that I know of) charge for these services.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 11:09 AM
Jun 2015

They will take a donation for themselves -- though many won't accept, as the minister who presided over my late aunt's funeral did -- and there is often a charge for the use of the facilities, which can also be on a donation basis.

When I was hanging around on the ULC boards, it was the subject of some debate, with many not charging a set fee but rather preferring donations if the couple chose. My sister an I had set fees for weddings and other ministrations, mainly just enough to cover expenses and give us some pocket change.

NutmegYankee

(16,207 posts)
27. Whoa!
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 07:58 AM
Jun 2015

Ministers have never been required to marry anyone. They could even refuse a m/f marriage just because they felt the couple wasn't strong enough in their faith.

Unlike a business, a church is considered a private group and may choose its members. It can exclude people without repercussions. Also, a minister may perform a wedding ceremony, but it means nothing without the state license.

The state license was what was won here Friday.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
36. Someone asked earlier
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:03 PM
Jun 2015

if I was talking about physical churches or religion. There is no distinction. North Carolina magistrates, for example, can legally refuse to perform gay marriages based on their religious beliefs. Seven magistrates in the state have done that so far.
So, the refusal has spread from formal church institutions to government institutions. I say baloney! Magistrates work for the people. Their refusal of gays is loophole discrimination.

NutmegYankee

(16,207 posts)
43. A magistrate is a totally different thing than a minister.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:23 PM
Jun 2015

As a government agent, they must either perform their job or be fired. The same goes for any business - serve everybody equally or be closed. Now some religious nuts are using faith to justify a new era of massive resistance, and that has to be stopped. But a church is neither a government entity nor a business. It's the same status as a private group, and may chose the qualifications of it's members, and inherently, the services it provides to them, like wedding ceremonies. The key here is "within the church".

You are conflating the religious ceremony for weddings that means nothing to the government with the marriage license that bestows all of the benefits of marriage. The ceremony provided by a minster/rabbi/cleric/etc is just for show as far as the government is concerned.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
51. If a church has tax exempt status,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:08 PM
Jun 2015

then they are obligated. If they don't like it, get rid of the status. You can't have it both ways.

NutmegYankee

(16,207 posts)
55. Facepalm.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:22 PM
Jun 2015

That's not how it works. A group/church gets tax exempt status because it is non-profit and non-political. What you suggest is also unconstitutional, as the government would be forcing a religion to take certain actions or be penalized. This would be the classic case where the first Amendment applies.

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
47. Ehhhh, actually, seeing as how a minister's job is kinda in the religion biz,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 03:38 PM
Jun 2015

they have standing to refuse to perform a marriage. Does it suck? Yes, but it's a side effect of religious freedom.

County clerks and businesses, on the other hand, are not religious institutions, so they and their employees have no right to do the same.

 

PRB

(139 posts)
48. So the North Carolina magistrates are not in the religious business?
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:01 PM
Jun 2015

They are in the business of performing marriages. North Carolina magistrates can refuse to marry gays. Seven of them have so far declined.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
64. They aren't doing the same thing as a church.
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:37 PM
Jun 2015

A church is a religious entity. A magistrate is a government functionary. It is an entirely different job.

Also, the employer is vital in the distinction. If you work for the government (a magistrate) then you can not discriminate. If you work for a church (a priest/pastor/rabbi/imam/etc) then you can.

The Constitution blocks a magistrate from discriminating. The Constitution also blocks the government from stopping a church's discrimination.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
53. The courts have long given wide latitude to ministers and churches when it comes to determining who
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:19 PM
Jun 2015

The courts have long given wide latitude to ministers and churches when it comes to determining who they will marry. For instance, the Catholic Church refuses to marry someone who is divorced unless the previous marriage is annulled by the Church. Some ministers of various denominations also refuse to perform weddings for couples who cohabitate before marriage. There also have been scattered cases in recent years of churches that have refused to perform an interracial marriage, citing their religious beliefs.

After the Supreme Court struck down state bans on interracial marriage in Loving v. Virginia in 1967, there was never the suggestion that private religious groups that wouldn’t perform interracial marriages would be shut down, or lose their tax-exempt status.

Of course you want to argue... but if you are also sincere in your questions, there is a plethora of relevant information located on the web, and to that your own time, and vioa, you've done research.

Editorials here for a primer:
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/jurisprudence/2012/12/gay_marriage_churches_synagogues_and_mosques_won_t_be_forced_to_conduct.html

http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/06/26/how-a-supreme-court-decision-for-gay-marriage-would-affect-religious-institutions/

try case precedent studies too avilable in all you finer law libraries and internet sites.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
11. Speaking as an ordained minister of the Universal Life Church of Modesto, California
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 09:53 PM
Jun 2015

I would just like to say Todd Starnes is an idiot. No one is going to jail just because they are a closed minded fool.

My personal criteria for officiating weddings is 1. The two people love each other and 2. well, I guess #1 is sufficient.

http://www.ulc.org/

dsc

(52,175 posts)
12. the irony is that only one state actually did tell ministers who to marry
Sat Jun 27, 2015, 10:46 PM
Jun 2015

and that was NC. NC banned ministers from marrying gays. No really, in NC it was illegal for someone who could perform marriages to perform one for gays (in addition to the gays not being legally married the clergy person was committing an illegal act). It was a lawsuit against that law filled by the UCC that was the case which legalized marriage equality here.

ladyVet

(1,587 posts)
30. That is the law in all states. Ministers cannot break the law, anymore than anyone else can.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 11:18 AM
Jun 2015

In NC, we are not allowed to marry anyone who could not legally obtain a marriage license. Didn't matter what the reason was , under-aged, already married or a same sex couple. We couldn't perform a covenant marriage, nor a polygamous marriage, or a marriage if one of the couple was mentally unable to enter into a binding contract, either.

It was and is illegal to knowingly break the law. Duh. Since same-sex marriage wasn't legal, then no, we couldn't perform them.

We could do commitment ceremonies, which are not legally recognized. There was no license to file, thus no marriage (although I guess if the couple wanted to call it "marriage", they could, but there was no legal basis for it).

Ms. Toad

(34,141 posts)
68. Correct. In most states the law was not written or interpreted that way,
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:48 PM
Jun 2015

But in at least one of the Southern states it was (I couldn't have told you which one - but I would have guessed either South or North Carolina). It generated significant discussion among Quakers who have long married people whose marriages were not recognized by the state (both because our practices don't match the officiant performing the ceremony structure & because many Friends meetings married interracial - and later same gender - couples when the law did not recognize those marriages).

But there was at least one southern state which interpreted its laws to prohibit a faith group from creating a marriage, whether or not it was recognized by the state. It was the act of performing the marriage that was actually illegal - not merely the attempt to/refusal to obtain legal recognition.

Ghost in the Machine

(14,912 posts)
20. I went to High School in EastTN with a Todd Starnes... wonder if he is the same guy?? I seem to
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 01:49 AM
Jun 2015

recall him being the younger brother of a guy who graduated a year before me... his wikipedia bio didn't provide much info, so I might have to a little deeper digging... hmmm, curiosity is my own worst enemy sometimes... I *need* to sleep tonight, so I am going to have to keep my mind distracted from this for now or I'll be up all night wondering/researching!

Peace,

Ghost

Hekate

(91,060 posts)
23. You mean like the rabbi who made it clear that he would never officiate at our wedding...
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 03:38 AM
Jun 2015

....because I'm not Jewish? Or Roman Catholic priests? That's been going on forever. It has always been the Constitutional right of any clergy to decide who they will and will not perform sacred rites for.

I'm so bloody sick and tired of the hateful ignorance of folks who willfully misunderstand how separation of church and state protects them. I think it's past time for the U.S. to make the issuance of marriage licenses and wedding certificates an entirely secular matter the way it's done in other countries, and take that part of it out of the hands of religion. Marriage is a legal contract, so do it at City Hall. If you want a religious blessing and a big ceremony, wonderful -- go to a minister, priest, rabbi, imam, priestess, or whatever and do that as well. But don't let them be the arbiters of who gets to have that legal contract in the first place, because that is not their job.

tanyev

(42,698 posts)
25. Rubbish. They're all going to be rounded up in Jade Helm 15 and detained in empty Wal-Marts.
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 07:46 AM
Jun 2015


Oops, did I say that out loud?

Dirty Socialist

(3,252 posts)
26. They will be placed in FEMA trailers?
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 07:52 AM
Jun 2015

That's what I heard.
That's when Obama comes along and takes all your guns away.

underpants

(183,071 posts)
28. Hey!
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 09:10 AM
Jun 2015

Didn't you get the memo? Don't connect the dots on the marriage decision right on time for Jade Helm 15.

tanyev

(42,698 posts)
35. You're right. The Wal-Marts are for tunnels and food distribution,
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 12:34 PM
Jun 2015

the FEMA camps are for detainees. Darn it, I am a useless undercover operative.

csziggy

(34,141 posts)
33. Just like all those ministers charged for refusing to do inter-racial weddings
Sun Jun 28, 2015, 11:46 AM
Jun 2015

Were charged with hate crimes after Loving v. Virginia!

But - no, they were NOT charged with hate crimes. Who would want a minister to perform their ceremony under duress and with hate in his heart?

These people are idiots - paranoid, disturbed idiots.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
70. Boy they keep making it up as they go along -
Mon Jun 29, 2015, 05:58 PM
Jun 2015

why don't they just go for a side line in writing fiction? or sci-fi?

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