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XemaSab

(60,212 posts)
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 04:02 AM Jun 2012

S.F. couple kill daughter's alleged pimp, cops say

A San Francisco couple whose teenage daughter was allegedly being pimped by a Southern California man tracked him around the state, failing at one attempt to kill him before shooting him to death near Candlestick Park, authorities said Wednesday.

Attorneys for the couple say that they tried everything to rescue their daughter from Calvin Sneed, a 22-year-old alleged gang member from Compton (Los Angeles County), but that they didn't kill him.

Prosecutors, however, say that when Barry Gilton and his longtime girlfriend, Lupe Mercado, couldn't get their 17-year-old daughter back through legitimate means, they turned to premeditated murder.

Gilton, 38, and Mercado, 37, appeared in court Wednesday on murder and other charges for allegedly shooting Sneed in the Bayview neighborhood in the early hours of June 4.

The couple have been together since middle school and live with their three other children in San Francisco. Their daughter disappeared some time ago and after searching for her, Gilton and Mercado discovered that she was turning tricks and that Sneed was her pimp, their attorneys said.



Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2012/06/13/BAF01P1GIH.DTL#ixzz1xkj2JYE7

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S.F. couple kill daughter's alleged pimp, cops say (Original Post) XemaSab Jun 2012 OP
k&r Shampoobra Jun 2012 #1
How can killing a pimp Turbineguy Jun 2012 #2
It's not "murder". It's murder. Iggo Jun 2012 #13
+1000. closeupready Jun 2012 #19
The DA needs to drop it. LuvNewcastle Jun 2012 #3
Well, we have a few rules in this country about "innocent until proven guilty," Chorophyll Jun 2012 #32
This guy wasn't "mistaken" for a pimp. LuvNewcastle Jun 2012 #34
After all, the parents were just "standing their ground" MNBrewer Jun 2012 #38
Go to a cop christx30 Jun 2012 #40
If they had just shot the pimp in the leg Capt. Obvious Jun 2012 #4
It's hard out here, with a limp. Brickbat Jun 2012 #10
Why don't pimps get into writing? Capt. Obvious Jun 2012 #18
He'd be a gimpy pimp with a limp. Comrade Grumpy Jun 2012 #33
I remember walking through the French Quarter revolution breeze Jun 2012 #5
You boss was a good guy and that's a great story. whathehell Jun 2012 #9
It happened in San Francisco, California so it's OK. slackmaster Jun 2012 #6
They may yet appear Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #8
Really? christx30 Jun 2012 #11
The overwhelming majority of the responses are as you described Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #20
A father christx30 Jun 2012 #28
I agree Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #30
I'm glad I didn't see any of those posts. (I'm already on enough ignore lists!) 11 Bravo Jun 2012 #37
We don't even know what happened yet. EFerrari Jun 2012 #14
If acquitted, are they going to hunt down and kill all the johns next? Blue_Tires Jun 2012 #7
That's not an excuse for pimping Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #21
Much as they have an obligation to not murder people. Iggo Jun 2012 #22
I wasn't excusing the pimping Blue_Tires Jun 2012 #23
I'm a self defense advocate but nothing in this story shows Nuclear Unicorn Jun 2012 #25
Celebration of Vigilante Justice on Liberal Message Boards Amazes Me NeedleCast Jun 2012 #12
Liberal Message Boards made up of mostly anonymous posters? NNN0LHI Jun 2012 #15
Expectations Are Too High I Guess NeedleCast Jun 2012 #16
They would understand if I were ever sitting on their jury for an act of vigilante justice NNN0LHI Jun 2012 #17
It saddens me. bahrbearian Jun 2012 #24
Yeah. Wonderful, ain't it? Iggo Jun 2012 #26
What a sad story. Still, you can't solve problems with murder in a civilized world. n/t cigsandcoffee Jun 2012 #27
Terror couple kill Colonel. Fire Walk With Me Jun 2012 #29
Seems like it would be easy to make a shooting near the stick look random. LeftyMom Jun 2012 #31
Yeah... I often wonder about people who get caught doing stupid things. OneTenthofOnePercent Jun 2012 #35
But then you'd have to Rule #2: Kill your accomplice alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #39
Similar to the great, but disturbing movie "Hardcore" by Paul Schrader nt. winstars Jun 2012 #36

Shampoobra

(423 posts)
1. k&r
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 05:14 AM
Jun 2012

This story fascinates me because my neighbor's stereo often interferes with my ability to think rationally. No telling how I would react if an adult was pimping my 17-year-old.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
32. Well, we have a few rules in this country about "innocent until proven guilty,"
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:42 PM
Jun 2012

and about not taking the law into our own hands.

It's not always convenient, but if you ever get mistaken for a pimp, or if you're out walking in a hoodie or something, you might appreciate it.

LuvNewcastle

(16,869 posts)
34. This guy wasn't "mistaken" for a pimp.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 02:54 PM
Jun 2012

Pimps are up there at the top of the low-life list along with slave traders, snuff film makers, and Dick Cheney. They're good for alligator food and that's about it. The only injustice in this case would be to make these people do time in prison for whacking that piece of shit.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
40. Go to a cop
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:12 AM
Jun 2012

and tell him that your underage daughter is being used as a sex slave. Have him shrug his shoulder and tell you to piss off. What alternative do you have? If the state doesn't give a crap about you, or the sex crimes that are being perpetrated against your child, what do you do? "Sorry sweetie. we tried. Good luck with that AIDS that you're probably going to end up with in 6 months."
The parents tried to do the right thing. They were rebuffed.
If the state and the cops couldn't be bothered to investigate sex crimes against a minor, what indications did anyone have that they would care about the murder of a gang member/pimp?
The only thing I think the parents did wrong was let it be known that they did it.

edited to add, from the LA Times:

The couple tried to persuade the teenager to break ties with 22-year-old Calvin Sneed. They sought help from law enforcement — to no avail — and later added the girl to several missing and exploited children registries, according to their lawyers. And that, their lawyers said, was where they left it.


So again I ask: If there is a problem, and the government refuses to deal with it, or help you, what do you do? Just sit there with your thumb up your butt? Or do you take care of it yourself?
If the cops had done their job, Sneed would be in jail, but alive. But it's easier and safer for them to go after two people painted into a corner than it is to go after gang members, I guess. It's no wonder why people don't trust cops.

revolution breeze

(879 posts)
5. I remember walking through the French Quarter
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:02 AM
Jun 2012

late one afternoon with my boss and co-workers. It was a weekday, not many tourists, and this pimp was telling this young girl she needed to work harder or it was going to be a long night for her. They were standing right on the sidewalk across from Jackson Square. My boss, a very kind hearted gentleman told us to walk ahead and turned to the the pimp and said "how much?" He quoted a figure, boss reached in his wallet and pulled out cash. They joined us, we walked back to the lot where we had parked and he gave the his business card (he is an attorney) and offered her a ride to the police station or a woman's shelter. He told us to leave as the pimp had followed but he stayed with the girl. Whatever happened that day we do not know because he never mentioned it again. I like to think that he saved her life that night.....

whathehell

(29,115 posts)
9. You boss was a good guy and that's a great story.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:41 AM
Jun 2012

I wish more were interested in the lives of these young victim.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
6. It happened in San Francisco, California so it's OK.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:05 AM
Jun 2012

Last edited Thu Jun 14, 2012, 10:40 AM - Edit history (1)

If it happened in Dallas the thread would be filled with voices screaming about Stand Your Ground laws, easy access to guns, and vigilante justice.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
8. They may yet appear
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:21 AM
Jun 2012

In the case of the father punching the rapist of his 4 year old daughter to death I understand some folks wanted to have the father's side of the story verified but then so many -- too many -- piled-on to paint the father as a crazed vigilante killer.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
11. Really?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:03 AM
Jun 2012

Everything I've seen about that story has people saying either "Not guilty" or "the father deserves a metal, not prosecution" or "the rapist's skull caved itself in. And if I were a juror, that's what I would say."

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
20. The overwhelming majority of the responses are as you described
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:48 AM
Jun 2012

but there are several instances where the incident, as described in the news, was assumed true for argument's sake yet the father was upbraided for taking the law into his own hands.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
28. A father
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:31 PM
Jun 2012

has the right and the duty to protect his daughter. I would become a savage fucking bastard if I saw someone hurting my daughter. The law wasn't there to protect her. It failed her.
Besides... Cops aren't the end-all-be-all of justice. That pedophile RAPIST would have spent maybe 10 years in a cell (if we're lucky) then gotten out and probably done it again. Maybe killed the kid next time.
But thanks to dad, he actually got justice. He will NEVER hurt another kid again.
Dad is not guilty as far as I am concerned. Nothing about what he did was a crime.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
30. I agree
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:37 PM
Jun 2012

Still, my original point -- in agreement to the poster I responded to -- was that some posts I saw described the father's actions as vigilante in nature or "taking the law into his own hands." That was rather troubling for me.

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
14. We don't even know what happened yet.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:11 AM
Jun 2012

i tend to think the parents were picked up because it was easy for the cops.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
7. If acquitted, are they going to hunt down and kill all the johns next?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 09:17 AM
Jun 2012

pimps wouldn't be in business if there wasn't a market...

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
21. That's not an excuse for pimping
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:50 AM
Jun 2012

I won't excuse Johns but the presence of Johns doesn't rationalize the presence of pimps. People have an obligation to not become pimps.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
23. I wasn't excusing the pimping
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:17 PM
Jun 2012

just a quick 'where-does-it-end' point in the ongoing debate over vigilantism...

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
25. I'm a self defense advocate but nothing in this story shows
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:22 PM
Jun 2012

an immediate, reasonable threat of death or serious injury. I'm curious if the parents attempted contacting the police of social services. If they did then the government has some serious explaining to do.

I won't badger the point about you earlier post. I replied based on what I thought it meant. I accept your explanation. Sorry for any confusion.

NeedleCast

(8,827 posts)
12. Celebration of Vigilante Justice on Liberal Message Boards Amazes Me
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:09 AM
Jun 2012

I guess it shouldn't, but it continues to do so.

NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
15. Liberal Message Boards made up of mostly anonymous posters?
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:14 AM
Jun 2012

Lets just say it doesn't amaze me at all.

Don

NeedleCast

(8,827 posts)
16. Expectations Are Too High I Guess
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 11:21 AM
Jun 2012

I'd expect liberals to be able to understand why the application of vigilante justice to people we don't like/agree with is still a very bad thing, but the knee-jerk reactions are hard to overcome.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
31. Seems like it would be easy to make a shooting near the stick look random.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 01:39 PM
Jun 2012

Gotta wonder about people who get caught shooting somebody nobody will miss in a neighborhood where the cops are spread thin.

 

OneTenthofOnePercent

(6,268 posts)
35. Yeah... I often wonder about people who get caught doing stupid things.
Thu Jun 14, 2012, 03:17 PM
Jun 2012

Rule #1: Leave your cell phone at home. Phone companies can use cell phone data records to trangulate cell phone position. Might be a good idea to have a friend sit at your house with a cell phone (and his) and make a few calls or texts out to other buddies/family throughout the night as an alabi.

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