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Romney: " I joked with Ann about sending her to Betty Ford..." (Original Post) Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 OP
"He ain't got no sensayuma" - Ian Fleming's Live And Let Die. PCIntern Jun 2012 #1
An idiot says that, clearly, elleng Jun 2012 #2
I agree. Whatever Ann rMoney is, or is not, she's clearly passionate about her sport riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #6
However, it gripes the hell out of me the way the pukes made Kerry's CTyankee Jun 2012 #30
it's not even a sport waddirum Jun 2012 #36
Make no mistake, its a sport. The movements are battle techniques for horses riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #41
Yup, +1000000. Agreed on all fronts. nt riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #42
And no one asked John Kerry to send his windsurfer to the Olympics, either... MADem Jun 2012 #54
She isn't even riding in the big competitions. GoCubsGo Jun 2012 #56
True - especially as the thing that limited who might consider windsurfing karynnj Jun 2012 #58
The horses are expensive because of the amount of training needed csziggy Jun 2012 #64
I really don't have an issue with people like you and others who work with horses on dressage. CTyankee Jun 2012 #69
It strikes me that if it was Obama and Michelle, the first thing out of Republican's Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 #23
Of course. They're #1 with negative propaganda. elleng Jun 2012 #28
no, they would jump all over him onethatcares Jun 2012 #39
Actually, you are both correct. GoCubsGo Jun 2012 #47
There is so much of substance to go after Romney for, why fcs Lionessa Jun 2012 #3
Because it displays a profound lack of empathy to those struggling with addiction and disabilities? bluedigger Jun 2012 #5
No it does not, or at least no more or less lack of empathy than he has for any other Lionessa Jun 2012 #8
He said it TODAY on his first major interview with the non FOX media. bluedigger Jun 2012 #14
Today, tomorrow, yesterday, it is trivial, so I'll continue to treat it as such. Lionessa Jun 2012 #17
Typically I don't see such strong opinions from people who didn't even see the interview, but c'est Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 #25
I didn't see the interview. bluedigger Jun 2012 #29
You're exactly right! I think the poster that you responded to is totally missing the point. TheDebbieDee Jun 2012 #9
And says somethings about his 'character,' elleng Jun 2012 #10
Completely agreed. It goes to his character. Or actually the LACK thereof. CakeGrrl Jun 2012 #11
These are the small brush strokes that make up the larger picture. Gidney N Cloyd Jun 2012 #12
I don't disagree with that, just think that they're so small of brush strokes as to be reflective of Lionessa Jun 2012 #18
Go tell the President. Let him be above it all - that's the way it should be demwing Jun 2012 #45
That's what YOU think but others here have a different opinion Raine Jun 2012 #66
Jeez, hit the damn HIDE THREAD option if you don't like it. MADem Jun 2012 #16
My opinion is not a command of behavior, just noticing the hypocrisy, that's all. Lionessa Jun 2012 #20
Hypocrisy? How is it hypocritical to point out behavior that exhibits a character flaw? nt Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 #27
Hypocrisy noted, your job is done. demwing Jun 2012 #46
What hypocrisy? This is a discussion board--we discuss everything here. MADem Jun 2012 #51
Who says that? joeybee12 Jun 2012 #4
Must be a non-stop laugh riot living with that man. tanyev Jun 2012 #7
People who think addictions are humorous, and who cannot recognize their own... MADem Jun 2012 #13
Oh, Mitt, you are such a card! siligut Jun 2012 #15
This is just grasping for straws... when we have full cups of soda to chug. nt Comrade_McKenzie Jun 2012 #19
Thank you, I've tried the more straight line approach, perhaps yours will Lionessa Jun 2012 #22
what a candidate like romney says is a look inside the man. spanone Jun 2012 #32
and you know what is really strange grantcart Jun 2012 #21
Maybe he should try weaning her off with canaries. They are hard to saddle. Tierra_y_Libertad Jun 2012 #24
The Rmoneybot's programming hifiguy Jun 2012 #26
Weird "out of touch" Willard otohara Jun 2012 #31
".... but then who would I have to deal with the servants?" Motown_Johnny Jun 2012 #33
That isn't even funny, since she rides to help her with MS treestar Jun 2012 #34
I hope someone here is compiling a list of these kinds of odd statements. magnifisense Jun 2012 #35
I think the reason it's weird is that he's the one saying it renate Jun 2012 #37
LINK? Faygo Kid Jun 2012 #38
Here ya go, darlin Laura PourMeADrink Jun 2012 #68
A career in standup is calling you, Mitt. n/t zappaman Jun 2012 #40
Might I suggest the stage used in "The Blues Brothers" with the chain link fence ... Bozita Jun 2012 #43
everybody who has a horsewoman or horseman in the family says that magical thyme Jun 2012 #44
Yeah, reminds me of the bumper sticker I saw a few years ago. GoCubsGo Jun 2012 #50
Guess I'm missing something SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2012 #48
Who did you say it to? Her? Her and family and friends? karynnj Jun 2012 #60
I said it to her, she said it to me SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2012 #62
The boy ain't right in the head. Arugula Latte Jun 2012 #49
Seriously he isn't, there is something Raine Jun 2012 #67
I was in one of the *areas* that Ship of Fools Jun 2012 #52
Once again Romney shows that he has a glorious lack of empathy. Initech Jun 2012 #53
Or maybe he showed that he and his wife joke with each other about their respective pastimes SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2012 #55
True, but I appreciate that my husband would NOT say something like this karynnj Jun 2012 #57
You think it's a big deal and indicates a huge character flaw and I don't SickOfTheOnePct Jun 2012 #59
He is basically making light of a treatment center for people who are suffering. CTyankee Jun 2012 #61
Kinda creepy thing to say about one's spouse The Second Stone Jun 2012 #63
I joke that for me horses are like having an abusive relationship csziggy Jun 2012 #65
 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
6. I agree. Whatever Ann rMoney is, or is not, she's clearly passionate about her sport
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:08 PM
Jun 2012

I don't see that as a bad thing and if its helping her health, that's a double good thing.

CTyankee

(63,935 posts)
30. However, it gripes the hell out of me the way the pukes made Kerry's
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:42 PM
Jun 2012

windsurfing a bad, elitist thing. Well, dressage is even more elitist (in the sense that the horses are extremely expensive -- I know that you can actually ride dressage and not be rich).

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
41. Make no mistake, its a sport. The movements are battle techniques for horses
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:12 PM
Jun 2012

from way back when. Its damn difficult to do and as much of a sport as fencing (another ancient battle skill).

MADem

(135,425 posts)
54. And no one asked John Kerry to send his windsurfer to the Olympics, either...
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:49 PM
Jun 2012

They say that the RMoneys strapped that poor horse to the roof of the boat....!!!!

GoCubsGo

(32,103 posts)
56. She isn't even riding in the big competitions.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:53 PM
Jun 2012

This horse, Rafalca, that we've been hearing about, is being ridden by someone else, not Ann. It's no different than owners of race horses hiring jockeys to ride their horses. And, that is even more "elitist" than doing dressage oneself.

Yes, I do realize she rides, too. But, business of buying horses and paying someone else to ride them in competition goes beyond "riding as therapy". For that reason, it gripes the hell out of me, too.

karynnj

(59,512 posts)
58. True - especially as the thing that limited who might consider windsurfing
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 05:09 PM
Jun 2012

was that it requires physical fitness and athleticism. There have been many places that I have vacationed where all you need to windsurf was for rent along the beach. The truth was that if it would have been Bush, who liked to windsurf up in Maine at the family compound, he would have been hailed for his skill and being the most physically fit Presidents in decades.

In this sports obsessed country, sports have always been a plus. However, in 2004, the media tried to hide that the candidate who played 4 sports in high school and college was the Democrat. Imagine if the high school cheerleader had been the Democrat. We all know where that would have gone. The fact that none of this had anything to do with who should be President does not mean that it was innocent that the media allowed the Republicans to get away with making windsurfing look like it required no effort or skill - just floating in the wind.

csziggy

(34,141 posts)
64. The horses are expensive because of the amount of training needed
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 06:30 PM
Jun 2012

To get them to the top levels.

I've bred and raised horses that went to top dressage levels - not while I had them but after I sold them. I did not get a lot of money for the horses but once the buyers put years of work into them, the horses were worth a lot. And those horses were not professionally trained - the best one I ever sold was trained by her owner who was in college at the time she bought the horse from me. ten years after I sold the horse (as a weanling) the young woman was was competing successfully against Olympic caliber riders. It took ten years of training, riding nearly every day, to get that horse to that level.

Some people will pay a lot for a horse that is already well started with its training, but I respect the riders who take their horses along the way themselves.

CTyankee

(63,935 posts)
69. I really don't have an issue with people like you and others who work with horses on dressage.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 08:08 PM
Jun 2012

That is not a problem for me at all.

My issue is with Romney and his ilk (and I understand that it IS him and his ilk that support the dressage riders). I do not want to hear about his sermon for the common man or woman and how out of touch Obama is.

I mean, really...

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
23. It strikes me that if it was Obama and Michelle, the first thing out of Republican's
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:12 PM
Jun 2012

mouths would be "He's politicizing her illness"

elleng

(131,462 posts)
28. Of course. They're #1 with negative propaganda.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:31 PM
Jun 2012

And as Dems don't do that sort of thing, largely, Dems won't mention it. (I will, tho, as I'm not a professional Dem!)

onethatcares

(16,217 posts)
39. no, they would jump all over him
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 03:43 PM
Jun 2012

about the amount of money it takes to do this dressage stuff seriously.

there would be an outragious outcry about how America is suffering and this must not go on.

GoCubsGo

(32,103 posts)
47. Actually, you are both correct.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jun 2012

They'd not only claim that he's politicizing her illness, and that they're "elitist" and spending all that money while "America is suffering", they would make up all sorts of other shit, too.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
3. There is so much of substance to go after Romney for, why fcs
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 11:59 AM
Jun 2012

are you, like the MSM, bringing up this sort of one sentence, completely unrelated to president-ing, and entirely un-important bullshit?

Honestly how can any DU Dem complain anymore about the shallow coverage of MSM with this exactly same BS on here?

bluedigger

(17,091 posts)
5. Because it displays a profound lack of empathy to those struggling with addiction and disabilities?
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:05 PM
Jun 2012
 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
8. No it does not, or at least no more or less lack of empathy than he has for any other
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:15 PM
Jun 2012

group that's not in the 1%.

It's just a small and really insignificant remark compared to his plans for his presidency. I repeat what I typed above. Focus on what matters and quit being like the MSM going after normal snark as though it's some meaningful representation.

bluedigger

(17,091 posts)
14. He said it TODAY on his first major interview with the non FOX media.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:32 PM
Jun 2012

To ignore or dismiss it is to condone it. I doubt very much it will be discussed as the election approaches, but TODAY, it is "news". Let's not trivialize it.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
17. Today, tomorrow, yesterday, it is trivial, so I'll continue to treat it as such.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:36 PM
Jun 2012

And be ashamed of the hypocrisy of DUers who are outraged at the shallow MSM while being exactly the same.

It was a snark, a bad snark, but a snark. Ridiculous to blow it out of proportion when there are so many substantive, not snarky things to jump on.

I don't watch tv so I didn't see it, but let me ask this. If this comment was the only one you could glom onto, I fear that the interview must've gone pretty well and he didn't make any substantive mistakes. That sucks.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
25. Typically I don't see such strong opinions from people who didn't even see the interview, but c'est
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:19 PM
Jun 2012

Last edited Sun Jun 17, 2012, 02:03 PM - Edit history (1)

la vie.

This comment, singularly, could be dismissed as a faux pas. Treating something serious a joke. It
is the bigger picture, one brick in the wall. It, along with many many other comments paint a bigger
picture of this man. No compassion or empathy - in my opinion.

bluedigger

(17,091 posts)
29. I didn't see the interview.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:41 PM
Jun 2012

Character matters and is not trivial to most people. I happen to think it is the most important quality, but obviously you disagree. Be careful swinging that axe of poutrage at the media and the public's response. I think it is double bitted.

CakeGrrl

(10,611 posts)
11. Completely agreed. It goes to his character. Or actually the LACK thereof.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:19 PM
Jun 2012

And if people can't see that empathy and character matter when it comes to making decisions to cut programs that could benefit the less fortunate, well...

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
18. I don't disagree with that, just think that they're so small of brush strokes as to be reflective of
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:38 PM
Jun 2012

a level of desperation to be picked upon. I don't think Dems need to respond desperately on such small strokes.

 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
45. Go tell the President. Let him be above it all - that's the way it should be
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:22 PM
Jun 2012

I'm damned fine with a little pig wrestling.

Raine

(30,548 posts)
66. That's what YOU think but others here have a different opinion
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 06:48 PM
Jun 2012

that they are expressing and shouldn't be belittled for it.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
16. Jeez, hit the damn HIDE THREAD option if you don't like it.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:35 PM
Jun 2012

Stop telling people what they are "allowed" to be interested in.

I say this comment GOES DIRECTLY TO CHARACTER. If you can't see that, well, whoop-dee-doo! I say you are the one with the big blind spot.

Use the HIDE THREAD option and stop scolding people. This is a DISCUSSION board for everyone, and all their views, serious to silly, and not a policy wonk web meeting.

Feh. Meh. And all those other expressions of exasperation and disdain...

 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
46. Hypocrisy noted, your job is done.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:24 PM
Jun 2012

tyvm.

Now back to that stupid, insensitive thing Romney said...

MADem

(135,425 posts)
51. What hypocrisy? This is a discussion board--we discuss everything here.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:45 PM
Jun 2012

This isn't MEET THE PRESS or FACE THE NATION and good thing, too.

tanyev

(42,693 posts)
7. Must be a non-stop laugh riot living with that man.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:11 PM
Jun 2012

I wonder if his family really thinks he's funny or if they figured out that it ends faster if they humor him?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
13. People who think addictions are humorous, and who cannot recognize their own...
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 12:31 PM
Jun 2012

...to money, to power, to control, to bullying and putting down!

Be nice if he had an addiction to losing elections--he might be able to buy his next thrill...

spanone

(135,960 posts)
32. what a candidate like romney says is a look inside the man.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 01:49 PM
Jun 2012

if Obama had said this it would be a 'gaffe' because he 'joked' about the serious disease of addiction.

magnifisense

(285 posts)
35. I hope someone here is compiling a list of these kinds of odd statements.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 02:49 PM
Jun 2012

He's made so many.

He is so out of touch.

Very creepy.

renate

(13,776 posts)
37. I think the reason it's weird is that he's the one saying it
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 03:07 PM
Jun 2012

If someone less stilted and robotic said it, like a next-door neighbor or other normal person, it'd be seen as humor. With him and the staccato way he talks, it sounds like his programming had a line saying "Insert attempt at humor here."

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
68. Here ya go, darlin
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 08:03 PM
Jun 2012
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-3460_162-57454827/face-the-nation-transcripts-june-17-2012-gov-romney-senator-graham-gov-dean/?pageNum=5&tag=contentMain;contentBody

MITT ROMNEY: --and for-- and for her training. Yes, it's the sport of dressage, not many people are familiar with it. But something for which she has a passion and frankly, her getting back on a horse after she was diagnosed with MS, was able-- she is convinced to help her regenerate her strength and renew that-- that vigor. And so she cares very deeply about-- about this sport and about-- and about horses. She's-- she's a real-- I-- I joke that I'm going to have to send her to Betty Ford for addiction to horses.

Bozita

(26,955 posts)
43. Might I suggest the stage used in "The Blues Brothers" with the chain link fence ...
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:18 PM
Jun 2012

... to negate the beer bottle assault from the audience.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
44. everybody who has a horsewoman or horseman in the family says that
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:20 PM
Jun 2012

It's like a lifelong virus. Most people recover fully, but like some viruses, occasionally someone becomes a carrier. Once it's in your blood, it is there to stay.

What was more important in the interview was the dodging and not giving straight answers to questions, from what I've read of it (don't get CBS, can't stand rMoney so wouldn't watch if I did).

GoCubsGo

(32,103 posts)
50. Yeah, reminds me of the bumper sticker I saw a few years ago.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:44 PM
Jun 2012

It said "Poverty is owning a horse." I live in a very right-wing area of the state that is full of wealthy horse owners, who play polo, do dressage, and the like. The owner of the car was almost certainly someone who would vote for Romney this fall. Her car? Why, a BMW, of course. I wish I was that poor.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
48. Guess I'm missing something
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:38 PM
Jun 2012

My ex was a huge bingo fan...she didn't have a gambling problem, but she loved to play bingo with her friends. I used to joke all the time that I was going to have her committed for her bingo habit, or tease her about having to get her bingo fix. She did the same with me about golf. Married couples say this kind of stuff all the time, joking and teasing each other.

There is plenty of real stuff to go after him about, this isn't one of them, IMO.

karynnj

(59,512 posts)
60. Who did you say it to? Her? Her and family and friends?
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jun 2012

There, you can argue that it is a dumb joke, but something said and then immediately forgotten.

Would you have said this at some larger community event - where there are possibly people who have dealt with alcoholism, drug abuse, depression or an eating disorder. For any of those things, it is a very serious step for the family to take the step of someone getting the help needed - it is intensely emotional and very expensive. Romney would not joke of anyone having a chronic physical disorder or disease.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
62. I said it to her, she said it to me
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 05:34 PM
Jun 2012

Around friends and family and at social gatherings. Neither of us were in the position of speaking to large groups of people in a formal setting, nor did we give media interviews. But in all honesty, I wouldn't have thought twice about it - it was a joke between spouses, and that's how we took it.

Sorry, I don't think that indicates that she or I have a huge character flaw, nor does it indicate that we don't care about people with real addiction problems.

Ship of Fools

(1,453 posts)
52. I was in one of the *areas* that
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:46 PM
Jun 2012

discontinued FTN right after the Rmoney interview (eastern Kansas).
The next thing I saw was a the beginning of a one-half hour
promo for "Prosvent" or some such thing to treat enlarged prostates.
Older white men were being interviewed with their wives
sitting silently beside them...WEIRD.

Did anyone else in other areas of the country have a similar segue?
I'm rather curious.

Thanks.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
55. Or maybe he showed that he and his wife joke with each other about their respective pastimes
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:50 PM
Jun 2012

Just like many other married couples do.

karynnj

(59,512 posts)
57. True, but I appreciate that my husband would NOT say something like this
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 04:59 PM
Jun 2012

about my "addiction" to DU, cooking magazines, etc.

Not to mention, for people who have needed places like that, it is NOT a joke or something that should be used as a joke. They and the people who love them, not Ann Romney, are the people who should be unhappy with this comment. It is incredibly insensitive to their very real problems that are being cavalierly dismissed.

This again falls in the category of Romney not being able to connect to people who have problems that he personally never had to deal with.

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
59. You think it's a big deal and indicates a huge character flaw and I don't
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 05:15 PM
Jun 2012

We'll just agree to disagree.

CTyankee

(63,935 posts)
61. He is basically making light of a treatment center for people who are suffering.
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 05:24 PM
Jun 2012

Named for a First Lady who made her struggle with addiction known in order to help others with the same addictions.

The difference between the Fords and the Romneys is stunning...

 

The Second Stone

(2,900 posts)
63. Kinda creepy thing to say about one's spouse
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 06:05 PM
Jun 2012

I don't mind her having an expensive hobby if she is helping keep an ancient tradition alive. Good for her.

csziggy

(34,141 posts)
65. I joke that for me horses are like having an abusive relationship
Sun Jun 17, 2012, 06:33 PM
Jun 2012

They beat me up, I keep going back because I love them so much. For me, having horses is an addiction. Even now, when I can't even lead a horse down the barn aisle, I can't imagine living without at least one.

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