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Pinboy3niners obituary (Original Post) sheshe2 Apr 2017 OP
Thank You LunaSea Apr 2017 #1
What a good man. sheshe2 Apr 2017 #2
Will respond later, but thank You. furtheradu Apr 2017 #3
Countryjake posted this on my thread - pinboy3niner's When I die malaise Apr 2017 #4
Thanks... sheshe2 Apr 2017 #11
We're still a little too sensitive here & now, but I made a gallows humor post in that thread; NBachers Apr 2017 #22
That was a lovely thread - he wasn't even sick then malaise Apr 2017 #25
Thanks for posting this. greatauntoftriplets Apr 2017 #5
I love the picture they posted on the Obituary. sheshe2 Apr 2017 #8
Same here. greatauntoftriplets Apr 2017 #9
Thank you. I will miss him, too. we can do it Apr 2017 #6
Thank you sheshe! smirkymonkey Apr 2017 #7
A man of depth and accomplishment. 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #10
K&R ismnotwasm Apr 2017 #12
I hope the family knows how much affection we had for him. nolabear Apr 2017 #13
.. Historic NY Apr 2017 #14
"and he will be missed by all who knew him." NBachers Apr 2017 #15
K&R brer cat Apr 2017 #16
Read this... sheshe2 Apr 2017 #21
Wasn't that amazing malaise Apr 2017 #28
I think I will cry again.... sheshe2 Apr 2017 #31
See he died on the 6th and we had a shoutout malaise Apr 2017 #42
... brer cat Apr 2017 #38
Yes. sheshe2 Apr 2017 #39
Wow. Warren DeMontague May 2017 #102
Yes. sheshe2 May 2017 #103
A good man mcar Apr 2017 #17
Thanks ma'am DashOneBravo Apr 2017 #18
What an honor it was to know him, even if only in cyberspace. LiberalLoner Apr 2017 #19
Thank you for posting that canetoad Apr 2017 #20
One hell of a man sharp_stick Apr 2017 #23
Safe Travels, Friend. Warren DeMontague Apr 2017 #24
Yours isn't too far behind malaise Apr 2017 #27
thanks. Warren DeMontague Apr 2017 #29
Indeed. progressoid Apr 2017 #46
RIP good man... thanks for posting this sheshe2... I did not know of him until now :-( secondwind Apr 2017 #26
May he rest in peace... chillfactor Apr 2017 #30
Wow. I knew I really liked the guy. This is even more reason. Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2017 #32
RIP and may his memory be a blessing. EllieBC Apr 2017 #33
k and r panader0 Apr 2017 #34
... Aristus Apr 2017 #35
R.I.P Demonaut Apr 2017 #36
Thank you. sl8 Apr 2017 #37
RIP Pinboy3niner . His was good and decent soul . bench scientist Apr 2017 #40
Thank you for posting the link lunasun Apr 2017 #41
He is certainly "missed by all who knew him" here on DU! FailureToCommunicate Apr 2017 #43
. Victor_c3 Apr 2017 #44
And he sure lived and contributed even after his injuries malaise Apr 2017 #45
Beautiful. progressoid Apr 2017 #47
.. Cha Apr 2017 #48
Pinboy/Bob had a life well-lived. I'm glad I knew him here... Hekate Apr 2017 #49
Thank you for posting. Every time we lose someone at DU it's like losing family for me. CaptainTruth Apr 2017 #50
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Apr 2017 #51
... NanceGreggs Apr 2017 #52
Thank you sheshe Docreed2003 Apr 2017 #53
... orleans Apr 2017 #54
I never interacted with him, GP6971 Apr 2017 #55
Oh noooooooooo. love_katz Apr 2017 #56
Very nice obituary...I learned alot about Pinboy LeftInTX Apr 2017 #57
Indeed a very special human being. oasis Apr 2017 #58
This makes me so sad GulfCoast66 Apr 2017 #59
Thank you sheshe... 2naSalit Apr 2017 #60
Thanks for link! burrowowl May 2017 #61
RIP Initech May 2017 #62
Thank you she. BlancheSplanchnik May 2017 #63
Aw. Iggo May 2017 #64
Rest in Peace, fellow Baby Boomer. Ya done good. WinkyDink May 2017 #65
What an accomplished and good man lillypaddle May 2017 #66
A life well lived. no_hypocrisy May 2017 #67
Thank you. cwydro May 2017 #68
RIP Starry Messenger May 2017 #69
I am confident that he would want me to post a pun in tribute Orrex May 2017 #70
... countryjake May 2017 #71
Thank you. redwitch May 2017 #72
A merry gentleman, but alas... malthaussen May 2017 #73
Profound malaise May 2017 #74
Shakespeare, of course. malthaussen May 2017 #76
Yes - he had allies malaise May 2017 #78
I'm on to your plot klook May 2017 #85
I had the privilege of meeting Bob in person at Occupy Los Angeles KingCharlemagne May 2017 #75
RIP underpants May 2017 #77
Wow. What a story. byronius May 2017 #79
. DinahMoeHum May 2017 #80
RIP to a brave and good man. dalton99a May 2017 #81
rest gently, brave and good soul. niyad May 2017 #82
Oh, wow. kimmylavin May 2017 #83
To Bob's Family patriot39 May 2017 #84
Your presence is so much appreciated here... countryjake May 2017 #88
I am so sorry for your loss, patriot39. sheshe2 May 2017 #89
When I put on my seatbelt today malaise May 2017 #94
I can see why Pinboy's family was activism. LeftInTX May 2017 #90
How lovely to see you even during such a sad moment malaise May 2017 #91
Thank you for stopping by. brer cat May 2017 #99
Best to you and your family mcar May 2017 #100
I'm very touched to read this- he was a special guy. bettyellen May 2017 #104
Thank you for getting in touch with us. klook May 2017 #105
A life well lived. RIP. Fla Dem May 2017 #86
RIP MurderMittenLiberal May 2017 #87
The good, they die young Marthe48 May 2017 #92
Great life... Mike Nelson May 2017 #93
Sadly missed orangecrush May 2017 #95
Thank you for posting this, sheshe. calimary May 2017 #96
A Brother in Arms... kentuck May 2017 #97
sonofabitch trof May 2017 #98
He is what makes America great. kairos12 May 2017 #101
RIP to a good person. libtodeath May 2017 #106

malaise

(269,292 posts)
4. Countryjake posted this on my thread - pinboy3niner's When I die
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 09:23 PM
Apr 2017
https://www.democraticunderground.com/10027188806

He got his wish. Duhneece posted a notice about his death and now we have his Obit. I'll miss that lovely man.

NBachers

(17,186 posts)
22. We're still a little too sensitive here & now, but I made a gallows humor post in that thread;
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:07 PM
Apr 2017

it kind of reflects the spirit of the intention of that thread and time.

malaise

(269,292 posts)
25. That was a lovely thread - he wasn't even sick then
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:12 PM
Apr 2017

What hit me rereading it was the last post - it was to himself. That was poignant to me.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
7. Thank you sheshe!
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 09:26 PM
Apr 2017

It was nice to see more about him and his life. What a good, brave person he was! I was especially struck by this:

"He was especially proud that there were no casualties in his platoon until he was wounded."

Rest in peace Pinboy, we will miss you dearly.

3catwoman3

(24,121 posts)
10. A man of depth and accomplishment.
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 09:32 PM
Apr 2017

We are all spiritually richer for having known him, even if it was only in cyberspace.

sheshe2

(84,060 posts)
21. Read this...
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:05 PM
Apr 2017

pinboy3niner (53,339 posts)

15. On a serious note, I hope that an announcement about my death would be posted on DU


I know that I have dear friends here who would post "What happened to pinboy?" threads if I were to be absent for a while. My friends here would deserve an answer and a conclusion.

Whatever happens, you know that I love you all and the admins of the best dem site on the net. If I should change my mind about that, I'll let you know, lol. Until then, you know that you will all have my utmost respect and appreciation and love. And that will be my feeling when I go out.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10027188806#post15

Malaise posted the thread link.

sheshe2

(84,060 posts)
31. I think I will cry again....
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:19 PM
Apr 2017

This one and living alone and no one might know for days. I have thought about that myself.

malaise

(269,292 posts)
42. See he died on the 6th and we had a shoutout
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:41 PM
Apr 2017

on the 14th - he said we'd ask where is pinboy a short while after he died - we did.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,847 posts)
32. Wow. I knew I really liked the guy. This is even more reason.
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:19 PM
Apr 2017

Wish I would have interfaced with him more when I had the chance.
(How often do we say that... ? )

EllieBC

(3,052 posts)
33. RIP and may his memory be a blessing.
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:22 PM
Apr 2017

I didn't know him but he seems well loved. I am sorry you lost someone dear to you, Sheshe.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
44. .
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:43 PM
Apr 2017

Thanks for posting that.

I've said this a lot, but to repeat myself yet again, I looked up to him a lot over the handful of years I've been a member of this forum. I served as an Infantry Platoon Leader - the same job Pinboy held in Vietnam and I always thought I had a lot in common with him. I don't know if I did, but I would like to think I did at least.

He seemed kind and compassionate and at the same time tough as hell.

I don't know Pinboy beyond the keyboard, but I'm convinced that he made the world a better place. He has given me an example to follow. Although I might think so at times, my life didn't end with my combat experiences in Iraq. There is still a lot I can do to make the world a better place.

Hekate

(91,006 posts)
49. Pinboy/Bob had a life well-lived. I'm glad I knew him here...
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 10:58 PM
Apr 2017

Wish I'd known him IRL. Thanks for posting his obit, sheshe.

CaptainTruth

(6,617 posts)
50. Thank you for posting. Every time we lose someone at DU it's like losing family for me.
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 11:02 PM
Apr 2017

I don't post a lot but I read a lot, & I come to appreciate everyone.

RIP Pinboy...

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
59. This makes me so sad
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 11:50 PM
Apr 2017

But he lived a full life and helped others in many ways.

And like so many who faced death at a young age, he seemed to accept his fate with grace and even humor.

I would not be a member of DU had I not read his posts early on.

Yall have a good evening and I wish the best for Pinboy3niners family.

2naSalit

(86,943 posts)
60. Thank you sheshe...
Sun Apr 30, 2017, 11:51 PM
Apr 2017

I am glad to know more about him. He was as admirable as I had imagined him to be, I miss him and his humor here.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
63. Thank you she.
Mon May 1, 2017, 12:55 AM
May 2017

My heart feels so heavy.

I did not know any of this about him. Wow. Just....

All I knew about him is that I could tell he was so kind hearted.

""Bob's compassion and courage were a profound inspiration and comfort to all he encountered, and he will be missed by all who knew him""

I wish I'd joined in on his hilarious threads, I would have gotten to know him a little, but I'm shy sometimes.

That obituary really teared me up. 💔

redwitch

(14,954 posts)
72. Thank you.
Mon May 1, 2017, 08:33 AM
May 2017

Such a good man! I only knew him from DU but I feel like I have lost a friend. Rest in Peace pinboy.

klook

(12,174 posts)
85. I'm on to your plot
Mon May 1, 2017, 02:46 PM
May 2017

I wish Pinboy could have lived to be a centenarian, but unfortunately he's a cemeterian now.

 

KingCharlemagne

(7,908 posts)
75. I had the privilege of meeting Bob in person at Occupy Los Angeles
Mon May 1, 2017, 10:04 AM
May 2017

in 2010. He was as feisty and funny in person as he was in his online persona. I'm brushing away a couple tears now and wondering just how I will tell my wife (who also met him at Occupy).

kimmylavin

(2,284 posts)
83. Oh, wow.
Mon May 1, 2017, 01:19 PM
May 2017

I was tangentially connected to him - I worked with several others who make that wall their mission.
He sounded like such a good man.

patriot39

(3 posts)
84. To Bob's Family
Mon May 1, 2017, 02:13 PM
May 2017

Bob was my brother, but the good people here at DU and his veteran's organizations were Bob's real family. Bob hadn't seen his son in 25 years, and my interactions with him were limited to an occasional dinner at a local restaurant. Sharing condolences among yourselves at DU is most appropriate.

Bob was a very frugal individual; he had a handful of garments in his closet and owned just two pair of shoes. Yet, when it came to helping the homeless or veterans organizations, his generosity knew no bounds. This beneficence was also extended to politicians who fought for the rights of all of us.

Bob was happiest when he was working to effect change, whether it was striking down restrictive voter laws or improving care for our veterans. Whether he was marching in the streets or sending letters to the major newspapers, he had but one goal in mind: to help others. I met an Army Colonel who, while riding the train to his job at the Pentagon, read a letter in the Washington Post which Bob had written in response to a Colman McCarthy column. The Colonel said it brought him to tears. That was Bob's way, to reason with others when possible, and to protest peacefully as a last resort.

I have a new appreciation for these words from Robert Frost's famous "Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening," written nearly a century ago:

But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.


Sleep well, brother, for you have kept the faith.
Your Du brothers and sisters will pass the torch until the victory is complete.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
88. Your presence is so much appreciated here...
Mon May 1, 2017, 03:00 PM
May 2017

as our entire community grieves this loss of the very best of us, our pinboy3niner.

I wish to extend my heartfelt sympathies and condolences, for I could never imagine losing both of my younger brothers, as I do remember how hard it hit Bob when he'd tell us stories about the loss of Jim. Family meant so much to him and I do believe that is one of the reasons that he brought so much joy and laughter to this DU community.

You are so welcome here...peace to you and yours at this sad time.

sheshe2

(84,060 posts)
89. I am so sorry for your loss, patriot39.
Mon May 1, 2017, 03:02 PM
May 2017

Best, to you and your family in this difficult time. The words from Frost seem to sum up Bobs life perfectly.

Peace

LeftInTX

(25,794 posts)
90. I can see why Pinboy's family was activism.
Mon May 1, 2017, 03:32 PM
May 2017

The election of Trump is also channeling many of us into that direction.

Kinda sad about his son, but I totally see how working for the good of others and being involved in activism is a family.
I'm glad that he was able to devote his energies toward helping others.

As you probably know, he was the punster here on DU. He was known for his sense of humor. However, beneath a talented punster usually lies a gifted writer/speaker. The ability to write and speak, I believe is a true talent.

I so often wish I had talent in that area because those talents are a big part of being able to create change in our society.

I'm glad that he had those talents and most importantly, that he used them to help others.

It doesn't surprise me that he was generous, but also frugal. I think many of us here on DU are the same way.

Thank you so much for sharing about your brother. We're so sorry for your loss.

malaise

(269,292 posts)
91. How lovely to see you even during such a sad moment
Mon May 1, 2017, 03:37 PM
May 2017

Please convey our love to the rest of the family and friends

brer cat

(24,654 posts)
99. Thank you for stopping by.
Mon May 1, 2017, 07:14 PM
May 2017

Allowing us to express our love and respect for Bob to his family eases the heartache, and I hope it does for you too.

He will be long remembered with both tears and laughter.

klook

(12,174 posts)
105. Thank you for getting in touch with us.
Tue May 2, 2017, 08:16 AM
May 2017

The loss of Bob, our beloved pinboy3niner, is a great loss for this community. As I noted a week ago, the news came as a punch to the gut. I'll just repeat what I posted then:

I liked pinboy3niner very much, and even had a couple of pleasant PM exchanges with him. He represented the very best of DU. When interactions here got vicious and stupid--as they have been a lot lately--I looked to him as a source of both wisdom and mirth. I sure will miss him.

Pinboy3niner, I salute you!

His example reminds us that the best thing we can do for ourselves is to help others. I'll carry a bit of Bob's spirit with me as I go forward, and hope to make a small positive difference in the world myself.
87. RIP
Mon May 1, 2017, 02:58 PM
May 2017

And thank you for your heroic service to a country you clearly loved. Inspiring to see that you never stopped fighting for it.

trof

(54,256 posts)
98. sonofabitch
Mon May 1, 2017, 06:50 PM
May 2017

I had no idea what an amazing individual I was corresponding with.
Damn.
Now I miss him even more.

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