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jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 11:08 AM Nov 2017

Nov 8th 2016 we went to the polls with big smug smiles on our DEM faces, expecting a landslide...

Nov 8th last year we went to the polls with big smug smiles on our DEM faces. We had been assured HRC would win by 90% or 89% or 70%....it would be a landslide. Our Feingold and Julie would sweep along with the President. I said we will never have to see that pig's face on tv again...he will buy an island and go dangle his feet in the water and sulk.

We were so PRE happy. I didn't even stay up to watch. AT 3AM turned the TV back on and it felt like a completely different world overnight. And it was.

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Nov 8th 2016 we went to the polls with big smug smiles on our DEM faces, expecting a landslide... (Original Post) jodymarie aimee Nov 2017 OP
And you felt the need to post this after a great day for Democrats exactly why? Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #1
amen secondwind Nov 2017 #2
Because I am a thoughtful person and have been around a long time jodymarie aimee Nov 2017 #7
Oh please...the GOP gerrymandered...and yesterday, we proved that we can break a gerrymander...the Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #9
You keep using the word smug. What the fuck? This is a lot of things, but thoughtful isn't one of Squinch Nov 2017 #30
I'm in NJ JustAnotherGen Nov 2017 #39
I think you are making an overall good point. NCTraveler Nov 2017 #45
This would have come across a lot better if you'd included ANYTHING positive in the original post. Mayberry Machiavelli Nov 2017 #56
Some ARE unhappy, to the point of not being able to hide it. Hortensis Nov 2017 #8
Right you are. I donated to them and worked with them during the Obama presidential runs...not a Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #11
Far more who started hopefully with them left than stayed. Hortensis Nov 2017 #17
FUD and negativity? NurseJackie Nov 2017 #23
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #34
In time, the nightmare will fade Freddie Nov 2017 #3
Hmmmm... Mrs. Overall Nov 2017 #4
Yes they do Mrs Overall, I know exactly what youre thinking............ Old Vet Nov 2017 #52
And today, it's payback time. lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #5
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2017 #10
Are you aware we may have dramatically flipped the House of Delegates? lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #15
Doesn't matter Orrex Nov 2017 #18
Peculiar posts, aren't they? lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #19
And sadly predictable Orrex Nov 2017 #21
Oh, adding to the fun is fine, but "what about - (Trump's wonderful ties)" is creepy lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #22
LOL. Yes! (nt) Orrex Nov 2017 #24
Lol. cwydro Nov 2017 #41
We are coming off of two terms of Christie JustAnotherGen Nov 2017 #40
When I saw the title of the OP I expected NastyRiffraff Nov 2017 #14
Yeah, very peculiar post. lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #16
The OP needs to go over to Discussionist and celebrate with the Deplorables who dominate that board. beaglelover Nov 2017 #37
Yes indeed! cwydro Nov 2017 #26
I shut the TV off at 8:45 eastern time titaniumsalute Nov 2017 #6
I gave up maybe 20 minutes earlier than that Awsi Dooger Nov 2017 #27
I watched and watched and watched that night. Hoping something would change. cwydro Nov 2017 #42
Me neither Freddie Nov 2017 #55
I didnt cry. I was freaking angry. cwydro Nov 2017 #57
I like this year better...I am sure you do too...deep down. Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #12
I went to the polls with dread in my heart. maxsolomon Nov 2017 #13
Optimistic, not smug. YMMV I guess, n/t seaglass Nov 2017 #20
I didn't. ellie Nov 2017 #25
So did you vote for Stein, trump, or not at all? LuvLoogie Nov 2017 #28
Were you smug? That's an unpleasant characterization. Why would you use it, and why Squinch Nov 2017 #29
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2017 #31
Who cares. It was a year ago. Time to move on. Dems are motivated now to kick R ass!!! beaglelover Nov 2017 #32
I sure as hell wasnt smug; I was nervous. cwydro Nov 2017 #33
WTF!?!?!?!?! Get this trash out of here! moda253 Nov 2017 #35
Who is this we? Yonnie3 Nov 2017 #36
"New voters from the hills" LeftInTX Nov 2017 #62
I didn't see any Tuesday. Yonnie3 Nov 2017 #63
Maybe you did. I was scared to death. dawg Nov 2017 #38
Well again....SHE WON the election. That BS Electorial College has got to go,it's BS Bengus81 Nov 2017 #43
Are you projecting? Please speak for yourself. spooky3 Nov 2017 #44
Last year there were warning signs sarisataka Nov 2017 #46
Almost no one thougt it would be a landslide by election day standingtall Nov 2017 #47
Wrong romana Nov 2017 #48
DU WAS HACKED ON ELECTION DAY! What on earth was there to be Pathwalker Nov 2017 #49
I was anxious and worried LeftInTX Nov 2017 #50
Recommended. This is one step on a long road. guillaumeb Nov 2017 #51
I just went to bed MFM008 Nov 2017 #53
It's a new day for the Democratic Party NastyRiffraff Nov 2017 #54
No FBI kneecapping or Russian trolls beachbum bob Nov 2017 #58
I knew Hillary would lose...I said it here and on dailykos over and over - WE HAVE 2018 adigal Nov 2017 #59
I don't know about anybody else but I wasn't feeling smug on 11/8/16 book_worm Nov 2017 #60
I wasn't smug, I was scared to death Blue_Tires Nov 2017 #61

Demsrule86

(68,800 posts)
1. And you felt the need to post this after a great day for Democrats exactly why?
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 11:09 AM
Nov 2017

So not needed today...try enjoying what happened yesterday is my advice.

 

jodymarie aimee

(3,975 posts)
7. Because I am a thoughtful person and have been around a long time
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 11:50 AM
Nov 2017

We have tons of work to do to regain the 1200 seats we have lost....and we cannot get smug about one good nite. And it is an anniversary....I was pointing our where our heads were that day....I do not wish to spat with you...we are on the SAME side.

Demsrule86

(68,800 posts)
9. Oh please...the GOP gerrymandered...and yesterday, we proved that we can break a gerrymander...the
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:44 PM
Nov 2017

work needed is to find the right candidates for the states both at state level races and house, legislature races. This is not a spat...we see a winning formula in VA...but instead of embracing it you pounce on the negative...don't get it...it is a we are doomed kind of attitude...but I am too happy today to worry about it.

Squinch

(51,087 posts)
30. You keep using the word smug. What the fuck? This is a lot of things, but thoughtful isn't one of
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:16 PM
Nov 2017

them.

JustAnotherGen

(32,035 posts)
39. I'm in NJ
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:26 PM
Nov 2017

I've been in hell with Crispy.

Let us have our day, count our blessings - and PRAISE indivisible because we started on this in JANUARY of THIS year.

So - when is your next Indivisible or local Democratic or County meeting?
Who are your candidates? My district has 4 solid primary opponents - and they started in March of this year.

You have a lot of work to do - we've done the hard work, have a blue print, and know how to win. We just did it.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
45. I think you are making an overall good point.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:40 PM
Nov 2017

I think there is a fine line between smug and celebratory. Sometimes one even appears to be the other. Celebrating builds energy and enthusiasm among all.

Mayberry Machiavelli

(21,096 posts)
56. This would have come across a lot better if you'd included ANYTHING positive in the original post.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 07:27 PM
Nov 2017

Instead the OP is just a rehashing of a very bad night without any particular insight or reflection on how it relates to this night one year later.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
8. Some ARE unhappy, to the point of not being able to hide it.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 11:55 AM
Nov 2017

We need to accept that every election requires us to fight off attacks from both right and farther left.

Personally, I prefer them to expose themselves. Far too many good Democrats don't recognize attacks for what they are from the "we rule or we ruin" types claiming to care about the party.

Howard Dean had to dissociate himself from a group he himself founded because it drew a whole crowd of so-called "democrats" who were trying to bring down not just Hillary but other Democratic candidates. And they tried the same thing this election.

Demsrule86

(68,800 posts)
11. Right you are. I donated to them and worked with them during the Obama presidential runs...not a
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:46 PM
Nov 2017

dime for them...Democracy for America.

Response to Demsrule86 (Reply #1)

Response to lagomorph777 (Reply #5)

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
15. Are you aware we may have dramatically flipped the House of Delegates?
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:53 PM
Nov 2017

Your story sounds exactly like Boris Epshteyn, and RNC Chair Ronna McDaniel.

"Democrats won two seats they were supposed to win. "

http://wjla.com/news/bottom-line/opinion-tuesdays-election-results-are-a-message-to-republicans-to-get-things-done

"McDaniel downplayed the victory for Democrats, saying that Virginia - and New Jersey - are blue states they were supposed to win."

https://www.newsmax.com/politics/mcdaniel-rnc-trump-gillespie/2017/11/08/id/824928/

Orrex

(63,270 posts)
18. Doesn't matter
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:57 PM
Nov 2017

The important thing is to focus on the negative, because how can the Democrats be The Party Of Hope if we actually win once in a while?

No, the proper thing to do is to beat ourselves up because we had elections stolen from us a year ago. Pay no attention the current bright spot. We must obsess over how badly we were fucked over.

Concentrate on that, so that our suffocating sense of defeatism can help to cement a few more decades of Republican tyranny!

Orrex

(63,270 posts)
21. And sadly predictable
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:04 PM
Nov 2017

If you post a list of, say, top ten insulting nicknames for Trump, it's very likely that one of the first replies will be "you forgot..."

JustAnotherGen

(32,035 posts)
40. We are coming off of two terms of Christie
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:29 PM
Nov 2017

What are you getting on about? That's purple and my district is bright red . . . but we flipped two seats on the 'county seat' council last night.

Praise us.

Ask us how it's done.

Because if we have learned anything in NJ and VA - leave nothing to chance.

Pound on those doors.

Are ONLY failure 'might' have been the low turn out last night but . . . we think in our state legislative district (Assembly) we have an extremely HIGH turn out for Democratics. We did the best we could when the Republicants are the majority here.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
14. When I saw the title of the OP I expected
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:50 PM
Nov 2017

it to end in what you said. Instead it was a deliberate downer meant to throw shit at a day of joy.

We're not buying what the OP is selling.

titaniumsalute

(4,742 posts)
6. I shut the TV off at 8:45 eastern time
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 11:16 AM
Nov 2017

When I saw Ohio, PA, and Michigan go Trump I was done. I knew it was over. I went to bed, woke up at about 2am and checked social media. The first post on FB was a friend of mine who said she can't stop crying. I then shut the phone off and rolled over back to sleep. I was numb for more than a week.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
27. I gave up maybe 20 minutes earlier than that
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:10 PM
Nov 2017

Once I saw an online breakdown of the Michigan vote.

It was over. Rural whites were ruining all the pivotal states.

Steve Schale's series of devastating tweets out of Florida were the indicator. He tweeted that Trump was pulling higher percentages in 47 different Florida counties than any Republican from 2000 forth. That it not going to be isolated to one state.

I expected Hillary to win narrowly but given all the polls indicating independents favored Trump I don't see how anyone thought Hillary would win in a rout. Lopsided margins are available in some states now because independents have reversed and favor our side. Not exactly complicated, although we'll be happy to pretend it's turnout or paper ballots or whatever.

We can't commend those independents. That's too vague and unsatisfying.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
42. I watched and watched and watched that night. Hoping something would change.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:32 PM
Nov 2017

I really need nor want memories of that day.

Freddie

(9,281 posts)
55. Me neither
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 07:24 PM
Nov 2017

Stayed up til 2 hoping something would change. Cried most of the next day. Last night helped restore my faith in this country.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
57. I didnt cry. I was freaking angry.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 07:49 PM
Nov 2017

I’m a runner, so I just went running for over an hour when I woke up. Ran and ran until I was too tired to think about it.

But the reality was still there. Yuck. This OP brought back bad memories.

maxsolomon

(33,461 posts)
13. I went to the polls with dread in my heart.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 03:49 PM
Nov 2017

I went to an Election Party feeling sick to my stomach.

I went home depressed.

Squinch

(51,087 posts)
29. Were you smug? That's an unpleasant characterization. Why would you use it, and why
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:14 PM
Nov 2017

would you need to post this today?

I must have missed your recounting of the horror on 9/11.

What's the point of this?

Response to jodymarie aimee (Original post)

beaglelover

(3,504 posts)
32. Who cares. It was a year ago. Time to move on. Dems are motivated now to kick R ass!!!
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:17 PM
Nov 2017

Don't dwell on the past, look towards a bright Dem future!!!

Yonnie3

(17,516 posts)
36. Who is this we?
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:18 PM
Nov 2017

Certainly not me. I was anxious in 2016 because the polls were very close in the rust belt and I also saw new voters from the hills at my polling place. I didn't express my thoughts much on DU as I watched others shouted down as concern trolls.

I approached this election in Virginia with much more confidence and hope than I did 1016.

LeftInTX

(25,796 posts)
62. "New voters from the hills"
Thu Nov 9, 2017, 12:23 PM
Nov 2017

Thanks for sharing.

i hope they go back to not voting.....

ETA: I was also concerned about the polls and didn't want to be called a concern troll.

Yonnie3

(17,516 posts)
63. I didn't see any Tuesday.
Thu Nov 9, 2017, 12:34 PM
Nov 2017

The ones I know have names like squirrel, rabbit, and snake. They live a mile behind me in trailers down a dirt lane. They don't drive. Their first vote ever was for 45. I was really startled to see them at the polls. I think they are done for now.

dawg

(10,626 posts)
38. Maybe you did. I was scared to death.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:20 PM
Nov 2017

The Comey letter was devastating, and even though he had been forced to walk it back and admit there was no "there" there, many voters still hadn't heard the news.

The Young Turks and others had bashed our candidate non-stop for months. Idiots on the left were defecting to Stein (and even "crazy" Gary Johnson).

Nate Silver was inching up Trump's chances of victory nearly every day.

I still thought we had slightly better than even chances of winning. But I certainly wasn't smug.

Bengus81

(6,938 posts)
43. Well again....SHE WON the election. That BS Electorial College has got to go,it's BS
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:32 PM
Nov 2017

And that makes two lost elections over it since 2000. All that should matter is who has the MOST votes. A damn vote is a vote,people in LA don't get 1.5 votes vs someone in far western Kansas.

Let's FIGHT to end this voting BS and rigged elections.

spooky3

(34,527 posts)
44. Are you projecting? Please speak for yourself.
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:36 PM
Nov 2017

A year ago I was very concerned about the tightening of the polls, voter suppression, and Comey’s unethical behavior days before the election.

sarisataka

(18,913 posts)
46. Last year there were warning signs
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:44 PM
Nov 2017

That many did not see. Others saw but felt the signs were not significant or overstated. Others urged caution but we're generally discounted.

That was then.

I believe a British statesman's words put yesterday's victory in perspective:

This is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning.

standingtall

(2,787 posts)
47. Almost no one thougt it would be a landslide by election day
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:47 PM
Nov 2017

especially after what Comey did. Yes most thought she would win and the odds were in her favor win she did win the popular vote by 3 million. Trump lost the popular vote by 6 times the margin Bush did in 2000. Call it sour grapes i you want to to,but it is evident repukes cheated to steal the electorial college for Trump which came down to about 80,000 votes between 3 states.

romana

(765 posts)
48. Wrong
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 04:49 PM
Nov 2017

I was full of joy, excitement, and optimism as I headed to the polls in my suffragette white to cast my vote for the first female president. There was nothing smug about it.

Pathwalker

(6,600 posts)
49. DU WAS HACKED ON ELECTION DAY! What on earth was there to be
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 05:39 PM
Nov 2017

smug about, unless it was someone who had a hand in that???? Frankly, I think most DUers were frantic, and more than a bit freaked out. I know I wasn't smug - I had a heart attack 3 days later.
Frankly, I find your post very insulting.

LeftInTX

(25,796 posts)
50. I was anxious and worried
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 06:01 PM
Nov 2017

I had voted in October.

Polls were all over the place.
Nate Silver's probability forecast only gave her a slight edge and it was trending down.
The odds were only 6 out of 10. No one was ever predicting Hillary would get 60% of the vote.

I'm a former mathematician.

The only thing that was keeping me sane was hope that millions of people would come to their senses and pick Hillary.

Exiting polling showed that Americans were mad and they wanted change.
I did not feel good when I heard the exit polls. This was in the late afternoon.

I also did not want to be considered a concern troll on DU, so I kept my thoughts to myself.

MFM008

(19,834 posts)
53. I just went to bed
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 06:35 PM
Nov 2017

expecting the worse and getting it.
Our family didnt speak hardly at all for days.
Shock.
Shock turned to anger.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
54. It's a new day for the Democratic Party
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 06:57 PM
Nov 2017

Something turned last night...something great and full of hope. Let's build on that. COME ON 2018!

If Virginia has a great shot of taking the House Of Delegates--something NOBODY saw coming--we can take (at least) the U.S. Senate and dare I say it?--maybe the House.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
59. I knew Hillary would lose...I said it here and on dailykos over and over - WE HAVE 2018
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 08:05 PM
Nov 2017

We are going to get 80 seats minimum in the House.

book_worm

(15,951 posts)
60. I don't know about anybody else but I wasn't feeling smug on 11/8/16
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 08:22 PM
Nov 2017

Sure, I thought that HRC would probably win (and in terms of popular vote she did), but the Comey thing had me worried as I could feel the momentum deflating as the media pounded on that day after day up to the election.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
61. I wasn't smug, I was scared to death
Wed Nov 8, 2017, 08:30 PM
Nov 2017

because I knew what the stakes were and too many supposedly liberal pundits had been openly hating on Hillary for months and discouraging their own voters...

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