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Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:07 PM Nov 2017

Why do Democrats always allow Republicans to control the narrative?

Instead of sitting back and allowing Al Franken to get railroaded and be used to deflect away from a pedohile running for the Senate, there should be millions of people marching on Washington right now demanding for a full investigation into Trump's well documented sexual assault allegations.

I hear people on the right demanding an investigation into Al Franken, but nobody is calling for an investigation into Trump's well documented sexual assault allegations.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Trump_sexual_misconduct_allegations#Public_allegations_in_2016_of_unwanted_physical_contact

I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone, people who fight for women's rights are being forced to apologize for jokes to people who were in on the joke by people like Trump and Roy Moore, and the media plays along with this dysfunctional shitshow, while everyone just accepts it.

I expect women to be paraded out by right wing political operatives every single day making random baseless accusations against random Democrats until the Alabama election in over, because the media is more than happy to accommodate them without ever asking for any proof to back up the claims.

This insanity will not end until people fight back against lowlife dirtbags like Roger Stone and Sean Hannity controlling the narrative behind the scenes.

I'm really wouldn't be surprised if in six months the lead story on the news isn't about Hillary Clinton's emails and the 12,754th investigation in Benghazi

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Why do Democrats always allow Republicans to control the narrative? (Original Post) Snake Plissken Nov 2017 OP
Good question. smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #1
Since youre so outraged, when will the March be held? brooklynite Nov 2017 #2
Thanks, you answered my question Snake Plissken Nov 2017 #3
Yep Alice11111 Nov 2017 #9
Precisely! We need to fight back with equal fervor & demand that standards be consistently applied. InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2017 #10
Some here don't like Democrats and they have a history of posting articles that attack Democrats... Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #4
I noticed that, a lot, actually. Eliot Rosewater Nov 2017 #6
Franken is doing what we seem to all think is the right thing to do in these cases maxrandb Nov 2017 #14
So, we're going with: "She's lying" ? oberliner Nov 2017 #17
Based on what she said in the CNN interview, Yes sounds a reasonable approach. OnDoutside Nov 2017 #23
We need to fight for him ...we allowed the Hillary to be attacked for years...and of course...some Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #19
The usual folks are here again attacking our Democrats. Eliot Rosewater Nov 2017 #21
There is a rule...but sometimes we don't alert on longtime DU'ers unless it is over the top and most Demsrule86 Nov 2017 #30
Dunno why haven't learned from Prof. Lakoff. elleng Nov 2017 #5
You have that correct. One reason, Dems hold back to verify Alice11111 Nov 2017 #7
Yep, I will wait until Al Franken says he does NOT remember grabbing her butt Eliot Rosewater Nov 2017 #22
I'm not usually one to question victims, but there are so Alice11111 Nov 2017 #25
Been that way for a while now awesomerwb1 Nov 2017 #8
I agree that Republicans usually "control the narrative" pandr32 Nov 2017 #11
Because Democrats arent ideologues. J_William_Ryan Nov 2017 #12
Dems should be running ads against the tax bill w Mnuchin Alice11111 Nov 2017 #13
There's no point to marching if all the Democratic politicians don't actively join procon Nov 2017 #15
i attribute it to a general lack of reliable leadership 0rganism Nov 2017 #16
The pattern is always the same vi5 Nov 2017 #18
There are many possibilities.. disillusioned73 Nov 2017 #20
The Dem party motto has always been: "Don't rock the boat". Binkie The Clown Nov 2017 #24
Snake saidsimplesimon Nov 2017 #26
It isn't the Democrats, it's the f**king media to create sensationalism whether a story is true or still_one Nov 2017 #27
Because they always follow the path that requires no critical thinking nt doc03 Nov 2017 #28
Because R's as a whole are plotting, scheming KPN Nov 2017 #29

Demsrule86

(68,861 posts)
4. Some here don't like Democrats and they have a history of posting articles that attack Democrats...
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:11 PM
Nov 2017

it is better than it used to be with the new rules...but...

Eliot Rosewater

(31,152 posts)
6. I noticed that, a lot, actually.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:17 PM
Nov 2017

I have been trying to say about Franken that this is NOT he said she said.

This is "guy known for telling the truth, being faithful to his wife, being an all around GREAT guy said, people connected to the worst and most vile rightwing filth on the planet said"

If Franken grabbed this new allegation like she says, he will admit it and apologize. I am pretty sure he will not admit it because it didnt happen.

But it wont matter, the media will take him down along with the party (GOP) that is allowed to abuse women and so on.

maxrandb

(15,405 posts)
14. Franken is doing what we seem to all think is the right thing to do in these cases
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:40 PM
Nov 2017

He doesn't admit grabbing the woman's ass, but he also does not "attack" the woman, or accuse her of lying.

He's basically saying; I don't remember this, but if I in any way made you feel uncomfortable, I apologize.

It's really fucked-up when you think about it.

For years and years, we've been excoriated to "not blame the victim", "don't claim they have an agenda", "don't look into their background", because "that's why so many claims of sexual harassment, or misconduct are dismissed".

Either purposefully, or accidentally, we've created a "No-Win, Damned if you do, Damned if you don't" soup-sandwich.

- Deny it and attack the woman's agenda or affiliation, and you get murdered for "Attacking, not believing the woman, or worse..."Slut Shaming" her.

- Be a gentleman about it and allow the accuser to present their side or the story, and express regret if your action, innocent as it may be, caused them distress, and your lumped in with a pedophile.

I'd like to think you could count on the Media, but CNN's "investigative" journalism apparently went something like this:

CNN: "may I help you?"

Woman: "Yes, Al Franken grabbed by butt during a photo at the State Fair in 2010"

CNN: "Do you have a copy of the picture"?

Woman: "Yes, but only from the waste up, and I'm smiling an clearly not distressed in the photo"

CNN: "You can't see his hand"?

Woman: "No, you can't see his hand, but I told my husband about it when it happened"

CNN: "Is your husband there"?

Woman: "Yes he's right here"

CNN to husband: "did your wife tell you about this in 2010"?

Husband of Woman: "yes she did, and I think she told her mom also"


CNN BREAKING NEWS: SENATOR AL FRANKEN GRABBED WOMAN'S BUTT DURING PHOTO IN 2010
-Husband corroborates story.


Demsrule86

(68,861 posts)
19. We need to fight for him ...we allowed the Hillary to be attacked for years...and of course...some
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:01 PM
Nov 2017

here believe the rightwing shit...

Demsrule86

(68,861 posts)
30. There is a rule...but sometimes we don't alert on longtime DU'ers unless it is over the top and most
Tue Nov 21, 2017, 09:20 AM
Nov 2017

know how to play the game...but you have to wonder when the same folks come out time and time again to pile on Democrats...what motivates them?

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
7. You have that correct. One reason, Dems hold back to verify
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:17 PM
Nov 2017

the facts. Dems are more likely to understate, especially until something is certain. Academics often argue our points, while Sean Hannitys scream and demigod Repubs.
Repubs grab anything they can and loudly proclaim it as TRUTH, over and over, pounding it in.
These are obvious generalizations, but I observe it often.
CNN, after contributing to Hillary's loss, has done an about face, and often questions Repub assertions.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,152 posts)
22. Yep, I will wait until Al Franken says he does NOT remember grabbing her butt
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:43 PM
Nov 2017

to mean he didnt, and then I will believe him.

This isnt over, more liars are coming. And not just after Al.

They see how easy this is, make an accusation, have no proof, and the idiots and the media are off to the races.

Works every time .

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
25. I'm not usually one to question victims, but there are so
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 05:31 PM
Nov 2017

many holes in the accusations against Al that I wish I had them on the witness stand for cross examination. I would LOVE that.

awesomerwb1

(4,270 posts)
8. Been that way for a while now
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:18 PM
Nov 2017

Dems should've been ahead of the curve about analytics, etc. But...

In general, the dems have a lot of catching up to do when it comes to having a unified message, talking points etc.

It's disappointing and inexcusable.

pandr32

(11,646 posts)
11. I agree that Republicans usually "control the narrative"
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:22 PM
Nov 2017

And we need to end that, but even the smallest towns and their skimpiest basic cable systems will carry Fox News and right-wing radio is always accessible as well. That is by design.
I have been paying close attention to those calling for a Senate Ethics investigation into Sen. Franken mostly know what they are doing. They (most anyway) seem to know that the political hit job won't survive an inquiry and that is why they are asking. It is actually pretty savvy. This applies to both Democrats and Republicans who have called for one. It is the best way to end false allegations and to sort out who has credibility and who does not.
I hope a giant spotlight winds up exposing the scurrying cockroaches: Stone, Hannity, Bannon and their ilk.

J_William_Ryan

(1,763 posts)
12. Because Democrats arent ideologues.
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:24 PM
Nov 2017

Democrats care about the facts and the truth, examining an issue to determine what is factual and indeed true, not adhering blindly to sanctioned political doctrine and dogma.

Republicans don’t care about facts and the truth – they adhere blindly to their political doctrine and dogma.

They’ve become masters of rushing to judgment, of contriving lies and misinformation and quickly propagating those lies and misinformation in the hope that both are perceived to be ‘true.’

A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.

Republicans’ propensity for lying and contriving misinformation given them the advantage to control the narrative – even though that narrative is a lie.

Alice11111

(5,730 posts)
13. Dems should be running ads against the tax bill w Mnuchin
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:25 PM
Nov 2017

and wife holding up money prints. Also, they should show her naming the cost of her clothing and her Marie Antoinette tweets in front of US aircraft.

We don't take up the fight until it looks like the Repubs are winning, and it is often too late, IMO. We are careful not to come down harder than the Repubs, so we undershoot.
As Anna Navarro (R), but liberalish, said once, "mushy
words."

procon

(15,805 posts)
15. There's no point to marching if all the Democratic politicians don't actively join
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:47 PM
Nov 2017

the fight and vociferously challenging every damn thing Republicans say or do. Letting Rs slide by with scarcely more than some pro forma hand wringing only gives them a free pass to normalise their crazy, mad schemes.

Democratic leaders accomplish nothing when they go silent, when they stand aside and let Republicans trash progressive policies and glorify their own bizarro ideas to transfer wealth from the poor to the rich. Until every Democrat in Congress is queueing up for daily interviews to point out the insane differences between the two parties, nothing will change, there will be no progressive movement going forward because the public cannot hear our message if no one in the Democratic Party is speaking.

0rganism

(23,995 posts)
16. i attribute it to a general lack of reliable leadership
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 02:48 PM
Nov 2017

the current Democratic party has a real problem and it's not just being a minority party -- that's more of a symptom.

we need someone to step up like Sen. Obama did in 2006, with an sterling record of achievement and no "shady business" from the past to taint their record. the GOP is intent on destroying Sen. Franken because he could have performed at least some of the duties while we wait for the next real leader to emerge. now he's thoroughly discredited - wouldn't be surprised if he bows out in the next MN senate election, and the Democrats lost another strong personality to scandal.

don't get me wrong - even the best Democratic leader is open to various forms of attack, but the right person will only be open to obviously specious calumny: President Obama withstood the "birtherism" bullshit because it was obviously and transparently weak, not because the rw didn't push it as hard as they could.

and no, this isn't a job anyone can do. needs to be a person with exceptional organizing skills and charisma, to go along with their unimpeachable background.

this points to a rarified subset of people, but we have millions of members, and thousands of elected office holders, so there are at least a handful who could step up to run point. we don't know who they are yet, maybe they don't know yet. but i'm pretty sure they exist. if we are to survive as a nation, some of them must activate very soon and provide a unifying center for resistance efforts.

 

vi5

(13,305 posts)
18. The pattern is always the same
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 03:00 PM
Nov 2017

Something happens or is impending.
People complain about Dem leadership not leading.
Dem leadership and their boosters say "You don't understand. Let us/them handle things. We/they got this!"
Failure or loss of narrative occurs.
Dem leadership and their boosters respond "Well why didn't YOU do something to help?"

Rinse, dry, repeat.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
24. The Dem party motto has always been: "Don't rock the boat".
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 04:45 PM
Nov 2017

How many times have we been literally (not figuratively) told that we shouldn't do this or that because it might rock the boat? I've lost count.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
26. Snake
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 05:44 PM
Nov 2017

I have shared this several times. One trick pony, me perhaps?

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still_one

(92,535 posts)
27. It isn't the Democrats, it's the f**king media to create sensationalism whether a story is true or
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 06:06 PM
Nov 2017

not is secondary

KPN

(15,680 posts)
29. Because R's as a whole are plotting, scheming
Mon Nov 20, 2017, 07:00 PM
Nov 2017

, Machiavellian assholes who go through life thinking 10 steps ahead "how ca I get what the fuck I want out of this?" while D's live divided between the moment and long term vision about "how can I/we make this world a better place for everyone?"

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