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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forums3 weeks of no smoking. Yay! Using the Nicorette gum and
regular gum. I had switched to lights a few months ago, and had been steadily cutting down to the point my last pack lasted me into a 5th day. I had already decided to quit, then the docs telling me I need this hernia surgery... the timing just all came together. I know I'll heal faster, and not smoking will also reduce risk of complications during surgery or following. Still haven't heard back from insurance yet, so in limbo and trying to not make my condition worse. Will make another call to the surgeon today... I am a little bit of a squeaky wheel, but if I don't advocate for myself, who will?
(Haven't gained any of my weight back, and lost 5lb more, so keeping my pie hole busy with the gum has worked. )
Midnight Writer
(21,819 posts)Improvements in blood pressure, stamina, no more sore throats and coughing jags, food tastes better, and just an overall feeling of being better.
By the way, my hernia started with a coughing jag. Woke up in the morning, started coughing, and I felt something in my abdomen pop. Felt that area and a little pouch had ballooned out of my...well, you know what they are like.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Since mine has gone whack on me, 8 of my friends and 2 of my clients have also had them and surgery. This will be the 4th on mine. Multiple incisional hernia... Anyway, they will again remove the old mesh repair and put in new mesh. I get a few days in the hospital of just being a bum, which I'm actually looking forward to.
Midnight Writer
(21,819 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)wryter2000
(46,108 posts)I quit 30 years ago. It took a long time, but I honestly lost the urge completely.
Why not keep a log of the money youre saving and buy yourself something?
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Quite again for 5, then started again and have been smoking for 3 years until 3 weeks ago. I got this, and now, I got jaws a steel. Chomp!
MLAA
(17,345 posts)You are well on your way 😊
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)MLAA
(17,345 posts)One day you may say to yourself, damn I was doing great and I just blew it...then thankfully you realize you just woke up and dreamt you were smoking 😉. But for a few seconds you are really mad at yourself. 😬
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)they are so vivid and I could even smell the smoke. I woke up in a panic.
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rurallib
(62,468 posts)I have heard every ex-smoker has it.
I quit 45 years ago and last had that dream about 3 years ago. It never seems to go away, just comes less often.
MLAA
(17,345 posts)mitch96
(13,934 posts)Took about 7 years for me. Cold turkey but the body and mind told me it was time. Years after, the smell was horrible, Could not kiss someone who smoked, big mess all over but I STILL had that urge in the center of my chest for a cig.. Even now sometimes at the right moment and place it just smells "interesting"...
Alcohol was another bugger. Only took a few months but the pull is still there. I guess I have an
addictive persona...
I know ... TMI
M
SWBTATTReg
(22,183 posts)Best wishes to you!!
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)liberaltrucker
(9,130 posts)I quit in March, 2018 and still use nicotine gum occasionally.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)broiles
(1,370 posts)[but I don't smoke and haven't for 30 years.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)When I filled out the paperwork for surgery, it asked about all tobacco products, including Nicorette products. I was surprised to see that.
30 years is awesome.
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MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Gore1FL
(21,160 posts)I had to go cold turkey.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Gore1FL
(21,160 posts)The hypnosis functioned more as a pep-talk, I think. But, in the end I was able to stick it out and used the techniques provided.
I went in choking down what ultimately was my last cigarette. I had no faith going in that it was going to work!
It comes with my highest recommendations:
http://www.hypnosmoke.com/
SCVDem
(5,103 posts)Keep telling yourself how this really stinks.
Good luck!
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)addicted to cigarettes, and was smoking 2-3 packs per day! Quit Dec 7, 1995. Best thing I ever did for myself. And one day in the future youll realize you went a whole day without thinking of cigarettes!
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Wonderful, congrats!
Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)best friend until I realized my best friend was my worst enemy.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Glad you fought the battle and are here with us.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Insurance approval and now just waiting on the call from the hospital to set the schedule!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)Squinch
(51,059 posts)Really, if you are ever tempted to go back, think of all you put into it and how much you don't want to go through that rough part again.
I had dreams for 15 years that I had smoked, and after each of those dreams I woke up crying. But I never actually smoked again. Don't even want to now.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)SCVDem
(5,103 posts)Still have the car and my lungs.
It took a month for the grab reflex to subside.
Smoking STINKS!
Imbed that thought in your head.
I didn't quit 420 though.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)musicman65
(524 posts)need hernia repair and still smoking,,,what is a fool to do
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)after their surgery and the brother was a smoker. I think it's a good idea to switch to a smoking aid or at least cut way back. Best of luck, I hope everything goes well for you.
Ahpook
(2,751 posts)It is tough, but I will say something that kept me going. It may seem small , but it really wasn't.
I started smelling things again such as flowers blooming, food cooking or even weather patterns. That smell of snow coming? It was there! Things I haven't smelled since childhood and memories came rushing back. It felt so good to wake up and smell honeysuckle again
Tastes of food came roaring back as well. It was amazing and made the decision to stop even better. There was no way to go back!
My senses felt bionic within just a few days of quitting You will love it.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)had a sensitivity to secondhand smoke. Itchy watery eyes, runny nose... Now, my allergies are back to just my cats, mold and some flora. I am so glad I never smoked in my home or vehicles.
Ahpook
(2,751 posts)Wonder if that comes from over eating to compensate after quitting smoking?
I didn't gain any. Matter of fact I lost some weight since bike riding was much more efficient.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)will be a big help in keeping the weight off. Plus, I can hop on my Schwinn and pedal around our bike path- super easy access outside our back fence. Really looking forward to spring and putting all my plans for the gardens in motion. I have many flowers up already, and some will bloom this week. I love spring!
Skittles
(153,230 posts)tell us on DU and we will talk you out of it; yes INDEED
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)rurallib
(62,468 posts)weeks will soon be months, then years.
And take a lot of pride in beating one tough drug.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)I'm distracted enough and I'm good for hours. I was out shopping on my first day, and walked by a gal who was smoking in the parking lot. I joked around with her and asked if she minded if I stood by her and took a couple of deep breaths. I didn't, but we both had a giggle, and she wished me good luck.
Tikki
(14,560 posts)and as many, many here will tell you....
We are 5 years, 10 years, 15 years and more smoke-free..you will be, also.
Good luck with the surgery.
Tikki
raccoon
(31,129 posts)lillypaddle
(9,581 posts)after a few false starts. It's been 6 years now. Good for you. Good luck!
Freddie
(9,275 posts)My BIL bought a new car when he quit, figured the $ he saved per month was at least the car payment; also he would NOT smoke in his brand new car.
donkeypoofed
(2,187 posts)The is the only way this former 25 yr smoker put down cigarettes and walked away, without looking back and missing it. So if you find you're "missing" smoking, get this book! It'll make sure you stop , forever.
zanana1
(6,135 posts)It's much better to have love handles than black lungs.
MerryBlooms
(11,773 posts)You guys are the sweetest.
Glorfindel
(9,740 posts)I wanted to see my great-nephew grow up. Now he's 27 years old, a fine young man, and getting married this coming October to a beautiful young woman. Even though I gained some weight, it was most certainly worth it. I never did like to chew gum. The patches worked for me.
Keep up the good work, fellow former smoker!