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MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:39 PM Jan 2020

3 weeks of no smoking. Yay! Using the Nicorette gum and

regular gum. I had switched to lights a few months ago, and had been steadily cutting down to the point my last pack lasted me into a 5th day. I had already decided to quit, then the docs telling me I need this hernia surgery... the timing just all came together. I know I'll heal faster, and not smoking will also reduce risk of complications during surgery or following. Still haven't heard back from insurance yet, so in limbo and trying to not make my condition worse. Will make another call to the surgeon today... I am a little bit of a squeaky wheel, but if I don't advocate for myself, who will?

(Haven't gained any of my weight back, and lost 5lb more, so keeping my pie hole busy with the gum has worked. )

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3 weeks of no smoking. Yay! Using the Nicorette gum and (Original Post) MerryBlooms Jan 2020 OP
Stick with it. It's worth it. I was amazed how much better I feel after quitting. Midnight Writer Jan 2020 #1
I am surprised by how common hernias are. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #5
Good luck. My first repair failed, but my second is 15 years old and holding fine. Midnight Writer Jan 2020 #9
This last one has held 13 years, so that's pretty good compared to the others. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #11
You can do it wryter2000 Jan 2020 #2
I quit once for 10 years, then started again when my husband died. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #6
Well done! MLAA Jan 2020 #3
For sure! MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #7
Here a warning from when I quit 15 years ago... MLAA Jan 2020 #10
I had a couple of those when I quit before MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author RandiFan1290 Jan 2020 #17
That dream is something else - it slowly goes away rurallib Jan 2020 #42
Right, I haven't had one in about 12 years 🙂 MLAA Jan 2020 #45
- it slowly goes away mitch96 Jan 2020 #54
Congrats! Keep up the good work, and before you know it, you'll be free of this scourge... SWBTATTReg Jan 2020 #4
Thanks! MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #8
Good for you! liberaltrucker Jan 2020 #12
Congrats! MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #14
On Nicorette for 30 years now broiles Jan 2020 #15
I'm tapering off. Down to 4 pieces a day and regular gum in between. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author RandiFan1290 Jan 2020 #16
Congrats! MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #22
Congratulations. Gore1FL Jan 2020 #18
I went cold turkey before, no picnic. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #23
What made it work for me was a 4-hour session that included 1 hour of hypnosis. Gore1FL Jan 2020 #38
18 years quit. SCVDem Jan 2020 #19
Yep, from a mile away. Thanks! MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #24
That's wonderful! Congratulations! A huge achievement. I know, because I was terribly Cousin Dupree Jan 2020 #20
2-3 packs! omgosh, you must have felt so much better within a very short time. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #25
Physically I felt better pretty quickly, but mentally it was difficult. I felt like it had lost my Cousin Dupree Jan 2020 #43
Yeah, I can totally see that perspective. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #46
WooHoo! Just got the call from the surgeon- MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #26
Congrats jberryhill Jan 2020 #27
Thanks MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #32
You rule! Best thing you could ever do for yourself! And you are past the hard part! Squinch Jan 2020 #28
The detoxing is the worst. Thanks. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #33
I bought a BMW Roadster SCVDem Jan 2020 #29
Congrats! I was never into weed, so no worries there. Carry on. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #34
Congrats, I have done it twice, I know how hard it can be. dewsgirl Jan 2020 #30
I have the same dilema musicman65 Jan 2020 #31
I had a client tell me their brother had one heckuva time healing MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #35
Sounds great Ahpook Jan 2020 #36
That's a very big deal! Something crazy, I've always MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #37
And don't worry with the weight gain Ahpook Jan 2020 #39
I'll be healed up by spring and be back in my gardens, so that MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #40
if you are tempted to light up Skittles Jan 2020 #41
I will. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #47
Take @ 10 very deep breathes if you are ever tempted - keep it up! rurallib Jan 2020 #44
I lose myself in reading the news whatever, and within minutes, MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #48
MerryBlooms...3 weeks turns into 3 months and 6 months and then a year.... Tikki Jan 2020 #49
Best to you! Nt raccoon Jan 2020 #50
I finally had success with the nicotine gum lillypaddle Jan 2020 #51
Congrats!! Freddie Jan 2020 #52
The Easy Way to Stop Smoking book! donkeypoofed Jan 2020 #53
Don't worry about the weight gain. zanana1 Jan 2020 #55
Thanks for all your encouragement and support. MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #56
Good for you, MerryBlooms! I quit almost 28 years ago... Glorfindel Jan 2020 #57

Midnight Writer

(21,819 posts)
1. Stick with it. It's worth it. I was amazed how much better I feel after quitting.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:47 PM
Jan 2020

Improvements in blood pressure, stamina, no more sore throats and coughing jags, food tastes better, and just an overall feeling of being better.

By the way, my hernia started with a coughing jag. Woke up in the morning, started coughing, and I felt something in my abdomen pop. Felt that area and a little pouch had ballooned out of my...well, you know what they are like.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
5. I am surprised by how common hernias are.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:54 PM
Jan 2020

Since mine has gone whack on me, 8 of my friends and 2 of my clients have also had them and surgery. This will be the 4th on mine. Multiple incisional hernia... Anyway, they will again remove the old mesh repair and put in new mesh. I get a few days in the hospital of just being a bum, which I'm actually looking forward to.

wryter2000

(46,108 posts)
2. You can do it
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:51 PM
Jan 2020

I quit 30 years ago. It took a long time, but I honestly lost the urge completely.

Why not keep a log of the money you’re saving and buy yourself something?

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
6. I quit once for 10 years, then started again when my husband died.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:57 PM
Jan 2020

Quite again for 5, then started again and have been smoking for 3 years until 3 weeks ago. I got this, and now, I got jaws a steel. Chomp!

MLAA

(17,345 posts)
10. Here a warning from when I quit 15 years ago...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:00 PM
Jan 2020

One day you may say to yourself, damn I was doing great and I just blew it...then thankfully you realize you just woke up and dreamt you were smoking 😉. But for a few seconds you are really mad at yourself. 😬

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
13. I had a couple of those when I quit before
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:26 PM
Jan 2020

they are so vivid and I could even smell the smoke. I woke up in a panic.

Response to MLAA (Reply #10)

rurallib

(62,468 posts)
42. That dream is something else - it slowly goes away
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 10:22 PM
Jan 2020

I have heard every ex-smoker has it.
I quit 45 years ago and last had that dream about 3 years ago. It never seems to go away, just comes less often.

mitch96

(13,934 posts)
54. - it slowly goes away
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 11:24 AM
Jan 2020

Took about 7 years for me. Cold turkey but the body and mind told me it was time. Years after, the smell was horrible, Could not kiss someone who smoked, big mess all over but I STILL had that urge in the center of my chest for a cig.. Even now sometimes at the right moment and place it just smells "interesting"...
Alcohol was another bugger. Only took a few months but the pull is still there. I guess I have an
addictive persona...
I know ... TMI
M

SWBTATTReg

(22,183 posts)
4. Congrats! Keep up the good work, and before you know it, you'll be free of this scourge...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:52 PM
Jan 2020

Best wishes to you!!

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
21. I'm tapering off. Down to 4 pieces a day and regular gum in between.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:39 PM
Jan 2020

When I filled out the paperwork for surgery, it asked about all tobacco products, including Nicorette products. I was surprised to see that.

30 years is awesome.

Response to MerryBlooms (Original post)

Gore1FL

(21,160 posts)
38. What made it work for me was a 4-hour session that included 1 hour of hypnosis.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:30 PM
Jan 2020

The hypnosis functioned more as a pep-talk, I think. But, in the end I was able to stick it out and used the techniques provided.

I went in choking down what ultimately was my last cigarette. I had no faith going in that it was going to work!

It comes with my highest recommendations:
http://www.hypnosmoke.com/

Cousin Dupree

(1,866 posts)
20. That's wonderful! Congratulations! A huge achievement. I know, because I was terribly
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:39 PM
Jan 2020

addicted to cigarettes, and was smoking 2-3 packs per day! Quit Dec 7, 1995. Best thing I ever did for myself. And one day in the future you’ll realize you went a whole day without thinking of cigarettes!

Cousin Dupree

(1,866 posts)
43. Physically I felt better pretty quickly, but mentally it was difficult. I felt like it had lost my
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 10:23 PM
Jan 2020

best friend until I realized my best friend was my worst enemy.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
26. WooHoo! Just got the call from the surgeon-
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:45 PM
Jan 2020

Insurance approval and now just waiting on the call from the hospital to set the schedule!

Squinch

(51,059 posts)
28. You rule! Best thing you could ever do for yourself! And you are past the hard part!
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:49 PM
Jan 2020

Really, if you are ever tempted to go back, think of all you put into it and how much you don't want to go through that rough part again.

I had dreams for 15 years that I had smoked, and after each of those dreams I woke up crying. But I never actually smoked again. Don't even want to now.

 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
29. I bought a BMW Roadster
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:50 PM
Jan 2020

Still have the car and my lungs.

It took a month for the grab reflex to subside.

Smoking STINKS!

Imbed that thought in your head.

I didn't quit 420 though.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
35. I had a client tell me their brother had one heckuva time healing
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:11 PM
Jan 2020

after their surgery and the brother was a smoker. I think it's a good idea to switch to a smoking aid or at least cut way back. Best of luck, I hope everything goes well for you.

Ahpook

(2,751 posts)
36. Sounds great
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:16 PM
Jan 2020

It is tough, but I will say something that kept me going. It may seem small , but it really wasn't.

I started smelling things again such as flowers blooming, food cooking or even weather patterns. That smell of snow coming? It was there! Things I haven't smelled since childhood and memories came rushing back. It felt so good to wake up and smell honeysuckle again

Tastes of food came roaring back as well. It was amazing and made the decision to stop even better. There was no way to go back!

My senses felt bionic within just a few days of quitting You will love it.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
37. That's a very big deal! Something crazy, I've always
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:21 PM
Jan 2020

had a sensitivity to secondhand smoke. Itchy watery eyes, runny nose... Now, my allergies are back to just my cats, mold and some flora. I am so glad I never smoked in my home or vehicles.

Ahpook

(2,751 posts)
39. And don't worry with the weight gain
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:32 PM
Jan 2020

Wonder if that comes from over eating to compensate after quitting smoking?

I didn't gain any. Matter of fact I lost some weight since bike riding was much more efficient.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
40. I'll be healed up by spring and be back in my gardens, so that
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 09:40 PM
Jan 2020

will be a big help in keeping the weight off. Plus, I can hop on my Schwinn and pedal around our bike path- super easy access outside our back fence. Really looking forward to spring and putting all my plans for the gardens in motion. I have many flowers up already, and some will bloom this week. I love spring!

rurallib

(62,468 posts)
44. Take @ 10 very deep breathes if you are ever tempted - keep it up!
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 10:24 PM
Jan 2020

weeks will soon be months, then years.

And take a lot of pride in beating one tough drug.

MerryBlooms

(11,773 posts)
48. I lose myself in reading the news whatever, and within minutes,
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 10:51 PM
Jan 2020

I'm distracted enough and I'm good for hours. I was out shopping on my first day, and walked by a gal who was smoking in the parking lot. I joked around with her and asked if she minded if I stood by her and took a couple of deep breaths. I didn't, but we both had a giggle, and she wished me good luck.

Tikki

(14,560 posts)
49. MerryBlooms...3 weeks turns into 3 months and 6 months and then a year....
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 01:22 AM
Jan 2020

and as many, many here will tell you....

We are 5 years, 10 years, 15 years and more smoke-free..you will be, also.

Good luck with the surgery.

Tikki

lillypaddle

(9,581 posts)
51. I finally had success with the nicotine gum
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 07:09 AM
Jan 2020

after a few false starts. It's been 6 years now. Good for you. Good luck!

Freddie

(9,275 posts)
52. Congrats!!
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 07:44 AM
Jan 2020

My BIL bought a new car when he quit, figured the $ he saved per month was at least the car payment; also he would NOT smoke in his brand new car.

donkeypoofed

(2,187 posts)
53. The Easy Way to Stop Smoking book!
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 09:43 AM
Jan 2020

The is the only way this former 25 yr smoker put down cigarettes and walked away, without looking back and missing it. So if you find you're "missing" smoking, get this book! It'll make sure you stop , forever.

Glorfindel

(9,740 posts)
57. Good for you, MerryBlooms! I quit almost 28 years ago...
Wed Jan 29, 2020, 11:32 PM
Jan 2020

I wanted to see my great-nephew grow up. Now he's 27 years old, a fine young man, and getting married this coming October to a beautiful young woman. Even though I gained some weight, it was most certainly worth it. I never did like to chew gum. The patches worked for me.
Keep up the good work, fellow former smoker!

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