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qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 09:34 PM Mar 11

Oh My Gosh!!! I'm Going to Get PAID to Blog!!!!!

This is, hands down, the most exciting thing that has happened to me since the book came out.

Even if I don't get a penny, at least I'll have put my best foot forward.

I've written a women's healthcare post that I am so completely proud of.

I've written a book that talks about the history of black children's books.

I'm working on a piece about black women mayors.


I'M SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Oh My Gosh!!! I'm Going to Get PAID to Blog!!!!! (Original Post) qwlauren35 Mar 11 OP
Tell us where to find you - cilla4progress Mar 11 #1
The Blog is linked to my facebook page. qwlauren35 Mar 11 #6
OK, i found it and went to it via your FB Eliot Rosewater Mar 12 #74
Fantastic! Yes, tell us where! Eliot Rosewater Mar 11 #2
Here ya go! qwlauren35 Mar 11 #7
On your page, where is the blog link? Eliot Rosewater Mar 11 #19
You're right - I should put it there. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #32
Specifically qwlauren35 Mar 12 #70
WUNNERFUL!!! elleng Mar 11 #3
Thanks, Ellen! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #35
Excited to follow. Let us know. cachukis Mar 11 #4
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #36
Congratulations Lauren! MN2theMax Mar 11 #5
Really appreciate you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #37
Congrats! Rizen Mar 11 #8
Oh the stories I could tell about self-publishing. qwlauren35 Mar 11 #9
Thanks! Rizen Mar 11 #20
BTW qwlauren35 Mar 12 #38
Congratulations, qwlauren. sheshe2 Mar 11 #10
thank you so much. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #39
That is so kind of you to say. sheshe2 Mar 12 #41
That is so exciting PatSeg Mar 11 #11
GOOD ADVICE!!! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #33
I can't begin to tell you PatSeg Mar 12 #40
Yes qwlauren35 Mar 12 #69
Thanks, life does go on PatSeg Mar 12 #72
Were you at least able to copy/paste them? qwlauren35 Mar 12 #78
That really sums it up PatSeg Mar 12 #84
I understand qwlauren35 Mar 12 #85
Thank you PatSeg Mar 12 #90
I was one of those who lost a personal account due to a hacker. Different Drummer Mar 12 #44
GOOD ADVICE!!! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #45
That is terrific ! bagimin Mar 11 #12
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #46
Congratulations! I know you've worked hard for this and now it's paying off! Very excited for you! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Mar 11 #13
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #47
Congrats! ancianita Mar 11 #14
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #48
How delightful! 3catwoman3 Mar 11 #15
Wonderful news! Very exciting for you to get your place in the sun. brer cat Mar 11 #16
Thanks, Brer Cat. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #49
Congratulations! I am so very happy for this most-deserved news. We niyad Mar 11 #17
Many, many thanks. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #50
Congrats! peggysue2 Mar 11 #18
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #52
Congratulations! LoisB Mar 11 #21
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #53
That is wonderful! Tom Yossarian Joad Mar 12 #22
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #54
That's awesome! denvine Mar 12 #23
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #55
Makes me think of HUD Sec'y Fudge BaronChocula Mar 12 #24
I will have to look her up. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #56
Bravo! Congratulations. scarletlib Mar 12 #25
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #57
congrats!!!!! Thats wonderful! samnsara Mar 12 #26
And I need to put away the dishes. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #58
We share your excitement. gibraltar72 Mar 12 #27
Congratulations! Will follow you on Facebook. livetohike Mar 12 #28
Much, much, much appreciated. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #59
Congratulations! That does sound very exciting. nt avebury Mar 12 #29
Thanks! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #60
Congratulations, now Go Knock Them Out.... Mr. Mustard 2023 Mar 12 #30
Thank you so much. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #61
im late to the party but most eggscllent. AllaN01Bear Mar 12 #31
Much appearciated. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #62
Fantastic! MLAA Mar 12 #34
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #63
Congrats! Deep State Witch Mar 12 #42
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #64
I'm in Laurel! Deep State Witch Mar 12 #73
Happy to get together. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #79
Congratulations, a whole bunch. Good for you! Hekate Mar 12 #43
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #65
Congrats! Different Drummer Mar 12 #51
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #66
Congratulations! Bluethroughu Mar 12 #67
Congratuations to you! people Mar 12 #68
There's just one. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #75
I'm so excited for you! JustAnotherGen Mar 12 #71
Thank you so much. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #77
I'm excited for you! redwitch Mar 12 #76
Wonderful!!! PCIntern Mar 12 #80
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #83
Congratulations! Well done, you obviously impressed a lot of people. Fla Dem Mar 12 #81
Thank you. qwlauren35 Mar 12 #82
Congratulations! Alliepoo Mar 12 #86
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #89
I'm excited for you! Trueblue Texan Mar 12 #87
Thank you! qwlauren35 Mar 12 #88
That link didn't work... Trueblue Texan Mar 13 #91
Thanks for catching that. qwlauren35 Mar 13 #92

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
32. You're right - I should put it there.
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 09:41 AM
Mar 12

Here's the blog link:

www.afrobougieblues.com/blogs/

I only get paid if people go through Facebook, BUT!!!! I am happy to have people read it at all!

So feel free to go straight to the link. I usually post Thursday morning, but it's definitely up by Friday.

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
70. Specifically
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 12:55 PM
Mar 12

The link to the blog on the Facebook page is on the left hand side of my page under the banner in the Intro section.

MN2theMax

(1,431 posts)
5. Congratulations Lauren!
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 09:40 PM
Mar 11

Can’t wait to read some of these pieces. I always enjoy your writing.
Good that it is being noticed.

Rizen

(725 posts)
8. Congrats!
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 10:00 PM
Mar 11

I wrote a sci-fi book that I'm working on self publishing. I'm setting up my own website. So I'm hopefully in the same boat.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
9. Oh the stories I could tell about self-publishing.
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 10:07 PM
Mar 11

1.) If you have the time, do as much as you can yourself. BUT!
2.) Get a professional to design your cover.
3.) Hunt around for a critical editor, and whatever they say to fix, do it.
4.) Have an advertising budget and don't go over it.
5.) Identify 10 people who will read/review your book for free, and be very, very nice to them. Have them read the final draft and if they spot anything, fix it.
6.) Plan to pay for one professional review.
7.) Consider doing cons like Readercon - I know a woman who makes most of her money going to cons.

8.) DON'T GET SUCKERED. Anyone who guarantees book sales is lying. Anyone who guarantees major reviews is lying.

Wishing you all the best!

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
38. BTW
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 10:09 AM
Mar 12

When it comes to professional reviews, Kirkus is the most well known. I think they run about $600. I found a few other less well known companies for $300.
- BookViral
-ManyBooks
- Reedsy (free)

What's annoying about professional reviews is that they take up to 2 months. So if it's possible to get them an advanced book copy, do it.

Expect them to find something "imperfect". If they pan it for some reason, take the comments seriously and consider making edits.

PatSeg

(47,649 posts)
11. That is so exciting
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 10:22 PM
Mar 11

One piece of advice. Be sure you have two step ID verification set up through Facebook. My personal account of 15 years got hacked and I lost access to my business page where I had just started getting paid for activity on the page. Now I have to start from scratch all over again and it had taken me years to get the following that I had.

Facebook doesn't appear to have any real human customer service anymore and a lot of people have lost personal and business accounts due to hackers.

PatSeg

(47,649 posts)
40. I can't begin to tell you
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 10:49 AM
Mar 12

how frustrating and devastating it was. In the process of trying to retrieve my account, I found out I was not alone and even people with long established business accounts lost everything. It appears that even lawyers won't help. They say there are no people left at Facebook that can or will help. Everything is automated now and often it just sends you around in endless circles.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
69. Yes
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 12:41 PM
Mar 12

In general I find trying to get things resolved with Facebook to be extremely frustrating.

Losing the account would sadden me, and I would would have to rebuild my following, but it's not a business, so I could recover. For a real business, it must be beyond devastating. I am so sorry that it happened to you.

PatSeg

(47,649 posts)
72. Thanks, life does go on
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 01:19 PM
Mar 12

Mine wasn't a regular business account as well. I posted restored and colorized vintage photos and Facebook paid me (not a lot) for certain activity on that page. I started a new page, but it will take quite awhile to get things going again. Meanwhile, my photos on the original page are still there, but I have no control over them anymore.

My personal page of course is completely gone. You think you'll remember most of your "friends", but apparently not. Facebook has certainly changed and not for the better, but in the meantime, there is nowhere else that I can get the traffic I got for my vintage photos.

P.S. I "liked" your page! So interesting.

Edit to add: I went to Amazon to check out your book and realized that I'd already read it last year! Great read.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
78. Were you at least able to copy/paste them?
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 03:56 PM
Mar 12

Oh no, your personal page!!!!! I have a personal group and not only would it devastate me to lose it, but I would really worry about the sensitive things on it.

"Don't trust Facebook" says my husband.

But there's nothing like it in the world.

PatSeg

(47,649 posts)
84. That really sums it up
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 06:01 PM
Mar 12

We certainly cannot trust Facebook, but for now, there definitely is nothing like it.

I didn't lose any of my restored vintage photos, as I have them all on my computer, but I have no control over the ones that I posted to my first "Vintage Photos in Color". So that page is an orphan floating around in Meta world. I was in the process of redoing some of the older ones and reposting them. There were quite a few that I wanted to delete.

I've really fallen behind on the new Vintage Photos in Color page as I've been sick. I still have a ton of photos I can post.

A few of my original Facebook friends and family have since passed away, but their pages were still there as a memorial that I could visit on birthdays or holidays. Well, obviously I cannot friend request those people now.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
85. I understand
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 07:05 PM
Mar 12

I have 5-10 Facebook friends who have passed away and I don't want to delete them.

Be well.

Different Drummer

(7,652 posts)
44. I was one of those who lost a personal account due to a hacker.
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 11:46 AM
Mar 12

Fifteen years down the drain and Facebook does absolutely nothing to help in those situations.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
45. GOOD ADVICE!!!
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 11:48 AM
Mar 12

I looked into how to do it - I may already have it. I probably ought to memorize my password...

niyad

(113,628 posts)
17. Congratulations! I am so very happy for this most-deserved news. We
Mon Mar 11, 2024, 10:52 PM
Mar 11

know how hard you have worked/are working. We are so proud of you!

BaronChocula

(1,607 posts)
24. Makes me think of HUD Sec'y Fudge
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 01:29 AM
Mar 12

And how she would be proud.

I didn't know until today that she had been a mayor.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
56. I will have to look her up.
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 11:54 AM
Mar 12

I have been shocked and amazed at how many black women mayors we have. I think it's because it's so regional.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
61. Thank you so much.
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 12:00 PM
Mar 12

If you can think of anything special I can do for Pride Month, let me know. I was going to do something about Marsha P. Johnson, and maybe intersectionality.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
64. Thank you!
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 12:03 PM
Mar 12

The Facebook page is:
https://www.facebook.com/LKFWilson/


The actual blog is:
https://afrobougieblues.com/blogs/

I've been blogging for nearly two years now, but it's only recently that I've made progress in getting a following.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
75. There's just one.
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 03:50 PM
Mar 12

Afro-Bougie Blues: A Collection of Short Fiction.

Sadly, I don't think there will be another one. I write stories when I'm experiencing bipolar mania and I'm on some VERY good drugs, and it rarely happens. I tried cutting back and my suicidal tendencies ramped up and they are incredibly annoying when they happen. (I don't mean to downplay the experience, but when you know it's going to go away in a few hours, you just kinda ride it out.)


Thanks for the congratulations. I really appreciate it.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
88. Thank you!
Tue Mar 12, 2024, 09:09 PM
Mar 12

Last edited Wed Mar 13, 2024, 09:25 AM - Edit history (1)

The book is Afro-Bougie Blues: A collection of short fiction.

The banner on my blog says, "From the Desk of Lauren Wilson"

But I generally call it, "Lauren's Blog".

Here's the link.

www.afrobougieblues.com/blogs/

It generally has African American topics, topics about other minorities, feminism, technology and the occasional personal post.

qwlauren35

(6,150 posts)
92. Thanks for catching that.
Wed Mar 13, 2024, 09:26 AM
Mar 13

I added an "s". No idea what made me do that.

I really appreciate the fact that you added the correct link.

Thank you.

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