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dana_b

(11,546 posts)
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 03:05 PM Feb 2012

How Social Isolation Kills

How Social Isolation Kills
Posted by Socialist WebZine On 9:59 PM

by Billy Wharton

Sitting down to create a life plan is a time for, people, especially young people, to demonstrate their hopes for the future. For the young the possibilities seem endless so you will hear a good sprinkling of pro-basketball player, astronaut and race car driver during these conversations. Few would identify the fate of an elderly couple and their son in the Japanese city of Saitama as desirable. Last week, the emaciated bodies of these three people were found in their apartment. They had died of starvation and no one had even bothered to check. Isolated, despondent and starving may not make into the typical life plan, but it is increasingly becoming a real possibility for people in the advanced capitalist economies all over the world.

Perhaps even more shocking is the fact that the bodies of the three victims remained in the apartment one month after they had starved to death. They were only discovered when the landlord of the apartment complex called the police and went with officers to demand payment of months overdue rent. Newspaper reports indicate that the family was several months behind on the rent and that electric and gas service to the apartment had already been shut off. Neighbors reported that the family had asked at least one neighbor for assistance, but was turned away and told to go to the Social Welfare office.

The fact that the landlord was the only person interested in the fate of the family is a stunning, yet increasingly familiar, example of the social isolation many people experience today. Of course, neither the landlord nor the police were driven by humanistic impulses to check on the family, their visit was motivated purely by money. The relationship between the family and the landlord was a market relationship – the landlord using his property ownership to extract money from the family who might otherwise face homelessness. Nothing unusual here. Most of us are engaged in similar relationships.

What’s new about the situation that led to these deaths by starvation, is that these market relations are now often the only human relationships people participate in. A profound sense of social isolation has been growing inside of capitalist society. As people are forced to spend more time at work, spaces for social interaction collapse and daily life is reduced to a series of market relations arbitrated by money. This is particularly true in Japan, where decades of economic decline have undermined social bonds of solidarity, by introducing casual labor – jobs with no guarantee of future employment, rising homelessness and a generational dislocation that has left the elderly to fend for themselves.

http://socialistwebzine.blogspot.com/2012/02/how-social-isolation-kills.html

I see that all over the place now - even in our own lives. People I know are so overwhelmed with work that there is very little time to see each other. I feel fortunate to even know my neighbors.

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Warpy

(111,470 posts)
2. One reason I've always preferred crappy, inner city neighborhoods
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 04:01 PM
Feb 2012

is that people aren't on the road for 2 hour commutes to work each way and if they work 8 hour days, they have time to come home and look around them before falling into bed, dead to the world until it's time to get up for the next day's commute. We know what each other look like even if there isn't time for hanging out like there used to be.

Living in an exurb so there's a big yard for the kid and the dog has a lot of unanticipated costs, IMO, not the least of which is that all families tend to be pretty isolated, the kids in after school care until the parents stagger home, exhausted.

Japan centers social life in men around their work, not around family or friends or sports buddies. They might be where we are going if this corporate stranglehold isn't released soon.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
3. people are garrulous--our lives are lived with others and we have relationships
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 04:37 PM
Feb 2012

wheareas right-libertarianism and Objectivism only offer a universe of contractual relations and total individualism (hence its popularity among the more well-to-do)

it's even funnier when they offer their American-Psycho yuppieism as the cure for racism and killings--of course, they have Paul and Thomas Sowell telling them that slavery was done because of state intervention, not because it was profitable, so who cares what they think?

TBF

(32,153 posts)
4. At least we are connecting via internet/social network -
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 06:02 PM
Feb 2012

so critical to keep those methods open ... how ironic that NDAA was tabled because the computer gurus on the west coast didn't want the government telling them what to do (ie taking down an Internet they are making tons of $$ off of ...).

Getting to know neighbors is definitely a first start. We sell girl scout cookies and go door to door, and also walk our dogs frequently. I make a point of waving and saying hello during the year, stopping to chat at the mailboxes - rather than pretending I don't know them until the next year. It's nice to make connections and know who folks are even if everyone is very busy.

dana_b

(11,546 posts)
6. making connections is crucial
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 08:41 PM
Feb 2012

I can't imagine having no one else to call if something were wrong. Today my downstairs neighbors' dog out and I could hear her calling for the dog. I went downstairs to try and help her find the dog (we live next to a lot of trees, hills and open space) and luckily she (the dog) did come back when we called her. I know that we can depend on each other to help out in a pinch. That seems to be disappearing.

The people in this article and others' attitudes toward them just made me terribly sad.

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