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King_David

(14,851 posts)
Sun Jun 10, 2012, 11:13 PM Jun 2012

How can you be gay and Jewish?

Jay Michaelson



I am sometimes asked: "How can you be gay and Jewish? Doesn't the Bible forbid homosexuality?" Here is my attempt at an answer.

At the outset, I am only answering this question as part of a subset of a subset of Jews: religious Jews who feel themselves bound or in some way affected by the Torah and Jewish law. Of course, the majority of Jews do not believe themselves to be bound in any such way. For them, the issue is much simpler: any prohibitions which may exist are historical in nature and far less important than conscience, ethics, culture, and other values. The law evolves, or doesn't matter anyway. So what the questioner really means is: how can one be gay and religiously Jewish, with a religious consciousness that, for whatever reasons, treats what the Bible says with seriousness. That is the question I mean to answer.

The Bible does not forbid homosexuality. 'Homosexuality' is a modern term, a pseudo- scientific category created in 1869. It refers not only to sexual acts, but to a sexual orientation, an identity, and is today used (imprecisely) to describe a range of sexual behaviors, attractions, and ideas about the self. This way of looking at sex acts was unknown both to the Bible and to the Talmud. Where the Torah does speak of sexual acts, as we will see below, it has no conception that these acts relate to personal identity, or to love. It expresses no belief that such acts are indicative of an inborn proclivity, and no conception that acts "make you gay," or even that one type sex act is necessarily related to another. Those who say that the Bible (or Torah, or Talmud, or halacha) forbids homosexuality are simply wrong. There is no such thing as Biblical homosexuality.

http://www.zeek.net/jay_0409.shtml

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How can you be gay and Jewish? (Original Post) King_David Jun 2012 OP
Jay Michaelson King_David Jun 2012 #1
I have a friend who is gay and Jewish SoutherDem Jun 2012 #2
All true. xfundy Jun 2012 #3
Nominally be born that way ProgressiveProfessor Jun 2012 #4
Would you please expound further on your statement? Zorra Jun 2012 #5
Spell checker problem and a very small screen ProgressiveProfessor Jun 2012 #6
Thank you so much, because I had just finished ripping you a new one, and Zorra Jun 2012 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Zorra Jun 2012 #7
Please, fix this post, as per your word, ASAP. Thanks! nt Zorra Jun 2012 #9
I waited until I could get on a full size screen... ProgressiveProfessor Jun 2012 #11
I understand. nt Zorra Jun 2012 #12
OK. You see, now I can't be sure if your intent is playing some childish homophobic or anti-Semitic Zorra Jun 2012 #10
def 7? Catherina Jun 2012 #13

King_David

(14,851 posts)
1. Jay Michaelson
Sun Jun 10, 2012, 11:14 PM
Jun 2012

Jay Michaelson is the author of four books and two hundred articles on the intersections of religion, spirituality, sexuality, and law. His most recent book, God vs. Gay? The Religious Case for Equality (Beacon), was an Amazon.com bestseller and has been nominated for a 2012 Lambda Literary Award. Jay is a contributing editor to the Forward newspaper, associate editor of Religion Dispatches magazine, and the founding editor of Zeek magazine, and his work has appeared in Salon, Newsweek, Tikkun, The Huffington Post, and other publications. His other books include Everything is God: The Radical Path of Nondual Judaism and Another Word for Sky: Poems.

Jay is also the founder of Nehirim, a national community of LGBT Jews, partners, and allies, which has been recognized by the Slingshot Fund as one of the fifty most innovative Jewish nonprofits in the US. Jay’s advocacy on behalf of sexual minorities in religious communities has been featured on CNN, NPR, and in the New York Times.

In 2009, Jay was included on the Forward 50 list of influential American Jews, and in 2010 he won the New York Society of Professional Journalists’ award for opinion writing. He received his J.D. from Yale Law School and will soon be completing his Ph.D in Jewish Thought at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, where he holds an M.A. in religion. Jay has held teaching positions at Boston University Law School, City College of New York, and Yale University.

http://www.jaymichaelson.net/

xfundy

(5,105 posts)
3. All true.
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 12:31 AM
Jun 2012

The invention of the term led hucksters and quacks, whether in the religion or patent medicine industries, in the early 1900s, to hawk "cures" just as they are doing today. The FEAR and HATE and divide & conquer strategy goes way, way back. So many "doctors" were created, and though I haven't studied it yet, I'd bet that "religious" degrees in "doctorates" were probably pushed through by bullies and quacks in that same time period.

Divide and conquer, indeed. They're doing it, we keep falling for it.





Zorra

(27,670 posts)
5. Would you please expound further on your statement?
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 10:06 AM
Jun 2012

notional

1. Of, containing, or being a notion; mental or imaginary.
2. Speculative or theoretical.
3. Linguistics Conveying an idea of a thing or of an action; having full lexical meaning as distinguished from relational meaning. The word did is notional in We did the work and relational in We did not agree.

Do you not believe that LGBT individuals were born LGBT?

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
6. Spell checker problem and a very small screen
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 12:08 PM
Jun 2012

One is born gay and born Jewish

I will fix the prior post and thanks for catching it

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
8. Thank you so much, because I had just finished ripping you a new one, and
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 12:52 PM
Jun 2012

I hate it when I am compelled to do that.

Happy Pride Month!


Response to ProgressiveProfessor (Reply #4)

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
10. OK. You see, now I can't be sure if your intent is playing some childish homophobic or anti-Semitic
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 02:15 PM
Jun 2012

game.

Just letting the insulting post stand as long as possible, trying to get the thread locked because of some anti-Semitic beliefs, etc.

I don't know; you see, there are even some that become members of DU for the express purpose of posting childish, bigoted homophobic comments.

I do realize there may be some legitimate reason for your tardiness in fixing your post, but, you must understand where I'm coming from here so if I block you under these circumstances, you will have a clear picture of my reasoning.

Please fix your post ASAP, as per your word, or, please understand, I have little choice but to assume that your intentions are malicious, and will block you in order to protect the members of the LGBT group.

I will not be locking this thread under the present circumstances

Thank you for your consideration.

Please read:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/11373759#post8

Please, don't post anything that may be insulting/degrading to the LGBT community.

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