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Related: About this forumLesbian Couple Mourning Son's Death Also Fighting for Recognition on Birth Certificate
http://www.shewired.com/lifestyle/2012/02/08/lesbian-couple-mourning-sons-death-also-fighting-recognition-birth-certificateWhile mourning the loss of their son, a married lesbian couple is also fighting to be equally recognized by the state of Iowa on their child's birth certificate.
Jenny and Jessica Buntemeyer met and fell in love while serving for the Army in Iraq in 2008. They wed in 2010, and decided to have a baby with the help of an anonymous donor. Thirty weeks into her pregnancy, Jessica gave birth to Brayden Bruce Buntemeyer, who died in childbirth on October 21, 2011. She filled out the fetal death certificate as his mother, while Jenny filled out the section marked, "father." However, when the couple received the official document in January, Jenny's name was omitted Now the couple is suing the state department of public health to have both of their names on the document.
Camilla Taylor, National Marriage Project Director for Lambda Legal, called the agency's move an "egregious display of insensitivity." She added, "A different-sex married couple grieving a similar loss would receive a two-parent death certificate with no questions asked. Death certificates and other vital records like birth certificates document legal parentage, and not biology. To white out a mothers name from her stillborn babys death certificate is cruel to a family that is already devastated."
Taylor is representing the couple along with Kenneth Upton and Beth Littrell of Lambda Legal and Sharon K. Malheiro of Davis, Brown, Koehn, Shors & Roberts, P.C.
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(6,960 posts)A birth certificate is supposed to be a document of fact.
If the father is an anonymous donor (or known donor for that matter), then that needs to be stated.
If the mother is an anonymous donor (or known donor for that matter), then that should be noted, too.
A child may need to know for a host of medical reasons in the future who the actual biological parents were.
However, a birth certificate should also probably note legally responsible parentage as well.
So, in an age of marriage equality, there are going to have to be changes in lots of technical, legal documentation.
My children are adopted and I am listed as their father on the birth certificate. No mother is listed. We know this is not possible though. On the bottom of the birth certificate there is a code that indicates the birth certificate is amended. It is not marked in any other way. This way, my kids could seek out their original birth certificates at some point in the future if they needed to.