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vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:38 PM Dec 2022

Going into 2023 invisible

Heartbroken, alone, depressed are all I feel. 2023 is just gonna be another year of being sad and lonely. What I thought I had is gone and now its just another year of being invisible to others. I'm an afterthought.

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Going into 2023 invisible (Original Post) vercetti2021 Dec 2022 OP
Goddammit, we still got Oreos unweird Dec 2022 #1
You remember the oreos? vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #4
Oreos are my guilty pleasure unweird Jan 2023 #8
I'm trying vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #10
sending you a New Year hug Wicked Blue Dec 2022 #2
Thank you vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #5
I hear you, vercetti2021. MLAA Dec 2022 #3
I hope not vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #6
You're not invisible to us here, V! SheltieLover Jan 2023 #7
+++ Tetrachloride Jan 2023 #9
++++! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Jan 2023 #11

unweird

(2,566 posts)
1. Goddammit, we still got Oreos
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 10:44 PM
Dec 2022

Hang in there. In lonesome periods I have found time and space to learn myself better. To become a more fuller individual. One more sure and confident and able to forge stronger relationships with others.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
4. You remember the oreos?
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 12:31 AM
Jan 2023

I'm surprised anyone did since they were late night posts. It was a way to cope but I stopped because someone got mad at me for supporting oreos during their strike...I got some from a friend as a gift. So I stopped posting...people made me feel so bad for just trying to cope.

unweird

(2,566 posts)
8. Oreos are my guilty pleasure
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 03:40 AM
Jan 2023

And hell yes I remember those late nights.

Get in touch with yourself now while you aren’t distracted by the relationships with others. Focus in, build a stronger you that is more in tune with yourself and confident in how you feel and are. Then you become that person who can tell those critics where to get off. We can’t always be one hundred percent perfect and fighting all the battles. Sometimes we just need to indulge our guilty pleasures and when we are confident in ourselves it becomes oh so easy to shrug our shoulders and just tell them ‘whatever’ and carry on.

You are a strong person who has accomplished so much already in realizing your truer self. Keep on keeping on, you can do this.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
10. I'm trying
Sun Jan 1, 2023, 07:21 PM
Jan 2023

But I slip up sometimes and get mouthy about issues here. I wanna go back to making those threads. I'm having such bad insomnia lately and I wanna be noticed by others not being some invisible blip on the map.

I appreciate your words.

Wicked Blue

(5,867 posts)
2. sending you a New Year hug
Sat Dec 31, 2022, 11:02 PM
Dec 2022

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