who is trying to tear you down, rather than lift you up. Stay strong enough to ignore her, and remember that your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need.

Constantly getting into issues with her hoa. But tells me I'm too negative and worry too much. I have GAD. The hoa is suing her for money something, and her vendetta now is getting some guys license revoked. I haven't reported my medical exam results to her, and she didn't ask. She's blaming me for expensive TMJ dental work I need for a dislocated jaw. She thinks i just need a new pillow. She's very into how i spend MY money.

Her last missive basically said that, bc I'm crazy, my drs will order expensive unneeded medical tests to scare me and "bleed me dry". I can't be exposed to this type of mental torture daily. She's crazy herself

stay away from toxic people even if they are family. Take care of yourself.

But I'm the negative person. She gets into fights with her adult daughter and they scream curse s at each other. I think she wanted me to co sign a 20k loan . I'm not doing anything like that. She was caught shoplifting and got a slap on the wrist. Her car spontaneously combusted supposedly. Everything happens to her constantly.

I went through this very thing, and suffered for several years with her here and then a decade after.

Toxic people cause years of damage and you really deserve better, please just say no.

And paranoid. I've accomplished a lot in Life before i became disabled. She's been on ssdi for years, is racist, and has two court judgements against her in another state. She mentions me and her BUILDING an air bnb together. WTAF?! Its like she's trying to get me into some type of complex financial situation with her. Her credit is shot. She's pissed thru more money than I'll ever see after decades of working.

In a few years you will likely realize it was one of the best decisions you ever made

But, depending on the situation, it can be the best thing you ever did!