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NNN0LHI

(67,190 posts)
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 02:02 PM Feb 2012

Religion offers needed structure

http://www.suntimes.com/news/otherviews/10414425-452/religion-offers-needed-structure.html

Religion offers needed structure

By Bonnie Erbe February 4, 2012 3:54PM

As I sit through and observe the God-smathered GOP presidential primary, I look longingly at Europe, where people can have intellectual, stimulating discussions about religion, atheism and politics.

Europe is a place, unlike the U.S., where they don’t expect a bolt of lightning to strike down any person who mentions that he or she is an atheist. At the same time, Europeans are not as zealous in their lack of faith as religious voters here are in their beliefs. Europeans recognize that religion fills some basic human cravings that atheism just can’t sate. snip

Religion is appealing because it answers the unanswerable questions, and faith gives people a reason to hang on and even to enjoy life when they may have no other. Religion also provides a ready-made social structure, a calendar of activities and events and groups of friends with similar interests.

Atheism would do well to adopt some of these structures and to offer adherents an alternative to socializing solely within church (or synagogue or mosque) walls.

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For the record I am an atheist so I am not posting this trying to convert anybody. Just thought it was a well written article on the subject. I almost didn't read it because I didn't like the title but I am glad I read it.

Cheers ...

Don
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JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
2. The article makes valid points.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 02:54 PM
Feb 2012

And religion does offer benefits of community. Interestingly, the atheists I know, if they get a notion for such fellowship, head on over to the UU church. Of course we all tend to move in the same political circles so everyone sort of knows each other.

I went to the funeral of a friend and fellow activist there (the UU church). Hundreds of people jammed the place, the service had n'ary a religious mention really. It was the best funeral service for an atheist I've ever been to. I see them as a friend to atheists and, at least locally speaking, is a good example of what atheists might consider. The "church" has a great lending library of all sorts of books. From what I understand, it's a place of much enlightened discussion.

Tho' I'm not among those who go to UU (other than that funeral), I do find the concept of what that place is to be appealing. Sort of like our AA forum here at DU. I always enjoy the discussions here. Not only are you guys brilliant, you're hilarious.

Julie

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
4. That is a good point about the UU church.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 04:29 PM
Feb 2012

I use "church" liberally here. If you do feel the need to find open-minded people who do not judge any beliefs systems or lack thereof, this is a good place in my area also. I sometimes join them for a "service", which is often something like a hike in the woods. I can deal with that.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
3. One of the big problems I have with religion is the structure.
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 04:27 PM
Feb 2012

Well, that, and all the spooky supernatural stuff. All the ritual, structure, and requirements are what really turn me off. This is the same reason that in my search for "something", I looked into Wicca and other non-traditional beliefs. But they all have rituals that I have no interest in practicing. I am at peace with non-belief now, and I am glad to be free from any structure.

And as to the "hang on" or "enjoy life" that faith supposedly gives, I guess that suggests that a person without faith cannot have a full and enjoyable life. I didn't know that. How do we hang on????

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
5. Religion is appealing because it answers the unanswerable questions,
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 05:50 PM
Feb 2012

wrong, made up answers...

What makes people think atheists don't have friends???? We go to concerts, plays, movies... and talk about them afterwards. There's no need to get together once a week (except maybe to play cards) and recite ancient rituals and sing alongs interspersed with armchair psychology.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
6. Except that religion does not "answer"
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 06:05 PM
Feb 2012

the unanswerable questions. It uses supernatural pap to placate people who cannot cope with the fact that there may not BE answers to those questions.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
10. I've always viewed religion as for two basic types of people, those that
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 11:45 AM
Feb 2012

want to dominate and have a flock, and then those frightened about the fact "that there may not BE answers to those questions." I've avoided religion my entire life because it's too mindless and filled with authoritarians.

And they can't tolerate people that don't agree with them. I've noticed when I reply negatively to religion in GD I get some ignores, for example.



 

mr blur

(7,753 posts)
7. By definition the "unanswerable" questions are...unanswerable
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 07:03 PM
Feb 2012

Other than by fantasy and superstition.

Interesting read, though.

BiggJawn

(23,051 posts)
9. Oh, I liked this line...
Sun Feb 5, 2012, 09:24 PM
Feb 2012

"Religion also provides a ready-made social structure, a calendar of activities and events and groups of friends with similar interests. "

So do Wife-Swapping clubs. And you don't have to worry about what the others are wearing...

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
11. So do Wife-Swapping clubs.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:04 PM
Feb 2012

You can combine the two....

Like The Family did (does) at C Street House!

lindysalsagal

(20,796 posts)
12. Obama was right:
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 10:05 PM
Feb 2012

They cling to their guns and bibles.

I'm so glad he said that outloud. It makes them totally enraged!

onager

(9,356 posts)
16. In context, that quote is not so bad
Tue Mar 13, 2012, 10:03 PM
Mar 2012

The whole quote:

You go into these small towns in Pennsylvania and, like a lot of small towns in the Midwest, the jobs have been gone now for 25 years and nothing's replaced them.

And they fell through the Clinton administration, and the Bush administration, and each successive administration has said that somehow these communities are gonna regenerate and they have not.

And it's not surprising then they get bitter, they cling to guns or religion or antipathy toward people who aren't like them or anti-immigrant sentiment or anti-trade sentiment as a way to explain their frustrations.


He was trying (IMO) to say he understood their frustrations and wanted to help them.

Then Faux News and the usual suspects did their usual selective editing, and it came out as a liberal, elitist, anti-god attack on Flyover Country.

iris27

(1,951 posts)
14. Well, of course it does. That doesn't make it right. How would the author propose that atheists
Sun Mar 4, 2012, 02:04 AM
Mar 2012

could adopt the concept of "answering unanswerable questions"? The whole idea of atheism is facing the unknown rather than making up an answer to cling to in hard times.

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