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Aristus

(66,527 posts)
Sat Jan 6, 2024, 02:38 PM Jan 2024

I think an old girlfriend of mine may have gone MAGA. [View all]

Inside, I'm begging 'Please, let it not be so'.

We met as part of the 'Rocky Horror' crowd in the gay-friendly St. Mathews district of Louisville, Kentucky thirty years ago. I was in the Army at Fort Knox, and she was having second thoughts about her engagement to another guy in our group. We had a few torrid weeks together until I got out of the Army and came home to Washington State.

We reconnected by Facebook back in 2010 and maintained a friendly relationship now that we each were married to others. She never was very political, but with her history in a highly LGBTQ-friendly environment, it was natural to assume she was a lefty like me.

The other day, after being absent from Facebook for months, she added a post opposing Green Day's callout of American Idiot Trump. No explanatory text was included, but the post speaks for itself. If you're defending Trump, you're a Trumpster.

When I knew her, she was sweet and funny and friendly. She lives in Indiana now. I'm guessing the state atmosphere of toxic hate might be partly responsible.

I feel like I've lost a long-time friend.

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one of my neighbor friends who moved to be near fam was starting to turn , then lost contact. AllaN01Bear Jan 2024 #1
Indiana (after I read that far .. ) stopdiggin Jan 2024 #2
It's like many other states. The cities are blue. The higher the spooky3 Jan 2024 #5
MAGA may have changed things stopdiggin Jan 2024 #9
I grew up in Northern Indiana. hoosierspud Jan 2024 #17
interested. so how 'red' would you consider that area now? stopdiggin Jan 2024 #22
We have some neighbors that were Dems MOMFUDSKI Jan 2024 #3
I'd love to know what the snide remark was. Anything that makes MAGAts disappear Maru Kitteh Jan 2024 #21
Breaking out the truth will send my neighbor inside in a huff. czarjak Jan 2024 #40
I'm sorry to hear that. Hope she finds her way back... Lucinda Jan 2024 #4
I'm not going to un-friend her yet. Aristus Jan 2024 #6
i don't unfriend too quickly. i put them on snooze Tetrachloride Jan 2024 #25
i had 2 lifelong friends barbtries Jan 2024 #7
Maybe she just doesn't like bands getting involved with politics Polybius Jan 2024 #8
that's an interesting point stopdiggin Jan 2024 #12
Not really Polybius Jan 2024 #35
the better part of my post echos this pretty much exactly stopdiggin Jan 2024 #36
The majority of DownriverDem Jan 2024 #24
That has nothing to do with my post n/t Polybius Jan 2024 #33
With Trump it isn't just "politics". Elessar Zappa Jan 2024 #28
Some people don't want entertainers mentioning anything about Trump Polybius Jan 2024 #34
Try and reach her Be The Light Jan 2024 #10
Vast number of my HS class are MAGAs Pas-de-Calais Jan 2024 #11
It happens GreenWave Jan 2024 #13
Don't feel like you are alone! MyOwnPeace Jan 2024 #14
People who don't know much and have no interest in politics are easily influenced and just want to fit in. sop Jan 2024 #15
The condition is known as self-aggrandising spinelessness ExWhoDoesntCare Jan 2024 #31
+1000000000000000000000 Celerity Jan 2024 #37
And that's why they call them Exes. TheBlackAdder Jan 2024 #16
My BFF of 36 years dumped me because I'm not a MAGAt OMGWTF Jan 2024 #18
Well. She should be dead to you now. I have no room for these assholes. texasfiddler Jan 2024 #19
You don't have to lose her as a friend ... Raine Jan 2024 #20
Been there, done that. NNadir Jan 2024 #23
Are you sure that she truly was a long lost friend? I say this not because I'm mocking you, or your finding out in this SWBTATTReg Jan 2024 #26
The MAGAts like him because amidst the nonsense ExWhoDoesntCare Jan 2024 #32
Ask, Aristus. Just to be sure. And I'm sorry. Hekate Jan 2024 #27
I know my first love is a RepubliQan Jilly_in_VA Jan 2024 #29
If Friends, Family, Neighbors, Favorite Stars and Musicians Mr.Bee Jan 2024 #30
My ex-wife went MAGA before there WAS any MAGA... DemocraticPatriot Jan 2024 #38
Again, war is hell. The Grand Illuminist Jan 2024 #39
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