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Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
57. Financially much, much worse
Tue Mar 5, 2024, 04:18 PM
Mar 5

My husband is making the same amount was he was years ago when we were originally able to get OFF food stamps, carry our own health insurance (including dental) and pay for all of our basic needs, car payments, car maintenance , and fun stuff like small basic vacations.

Now? We are are way way worse. We live in the same apartment, but rent skyrocketed, especially with COVID. We are back on food stamps and Medicaid and do not have dental care access (Medicaid dental is very limited here, especially for adults). Our food stamps were cut this year and we cannot afford enough groceries for our family ... and that includes making food pantry visits. My car is way out of inspection and in need of repairs. I've been driving with a stuck window (regulator is broken) for a year now, which is just amazing in the rain and freezing cold. My vent won't turn off. I can't afford oil changes as those are double the price as they were about 4 years ago. My kids know actual hunger. Utilities are too much. We can't afford basics like household supplies and clothing. I have a new job/career and I can't afford clothes for it or lunch to pack each day and I deal with hunger headaches because of it. My new job involves a lot of driving, which is hard because of the car's issues and gas prices. Kitty care is hard as well. My credit is the lowest it has ever been.

It's worse in other ways....both of my parents died since 2020 and my brother wants me dead and has committed to making sure I never feel safe. My CPTSD that I have had for a long time is way worse and was out of control for 2020 - 2023. Other mental illness worsened as well

That said, I have gotten into therapy. I made the move to get certified for a position in the mental health field. I started a new job in my career field just recently. I am starting to better manage CPTSD symptoms. I am still optimistic that someday it will get better. Oh, and my student loans were recently wiped! Thanks, Joe!!

Unlike many, I do not blame Joe Biden. I blame the GOP for doing everything to keep corporations in power and for voting against people. They are the ones that bolster the corporate greed that allows food prices and rent prices to rise out of control. They are the ones who cut SNAP and Medicaid and are happy to let kids starve.

No Polybius Mar 5 #1
Wow Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #8
Individual Polybius Mar 5 #10
Sorry Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #13
Can you consider putting future savings in an S&P index fund? Nt spooky3 Mar 5 #32
Ouch! Ms. Toad Mar 5 #42
A lot of retirement stock are tied to the bond market Johonny Mar 5 #11
Mie is over 30%. sinkingfeeling Mar 5 #20
I am sorry to hear that. ProudMNDemocrat Mar 5 #41
Our investments lost 10% in 2022, but regained everything in 2023. brooklynite Mar 5 #46
Your stocks are down that much? yardwork Mar 5 #53
Stocks down 75%? You need a new broker. spanone Mar 5 #55
Despite inflation, and all the horrors, I personally am doing much better niyad Mar 5 #2
Much better. Happy Hoosier Mar 5 #3
I voted yes Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #4
laid off 4 years ago, now making 2/3 my former $ RainCaster Mar 5 #5
I hope your $ improve. Your answer had to be complicated karynnj Mar 5 #9
Yes redqueen Mar 5 #6
Much better in most respects PatSeg Mar 5 #7
Money in the bank Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #17
Those statistics are interesting PatSeg Mar 5 #24
Great post Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #27
That brings back so memories PatSeg Mar 5 #38
Student loans Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #12
Much better Trashman272 Mar 5 #14
About the same ITAL Mar 5 #15
Everyone I know is way better off now than before 2020. Higher income, better jobs. Heck my youngest is graduating MenloParque Mar 5 #16
Same Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #18
Yes and no. All Mixed Up Mar 5 #19
Hope you can find a good new one. Nt spooky3 Mar 5 #33
My retirement/401k is the highest it's ever been - right now; my salary LeftinOH Mar 5 #21
Yes, much better! beaglelover Mar 5 #22
I am genuinely shocked at these results Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #23
Or limbicnuminousity Mar 5 #28
Was trying to only get the pulse of DU Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #31
Fair enough limbicnuminousity Mar 5 #35
More good data in the internals regarding low income workers Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #39
Doing better because of investments but lynintenn Mar 5 #25
I've been treading water for years pfitz59 Mar 5 #26
i have made more money, , saved more money and spent more on luxury expenses than the previous 4 MistakenLamb Mar 5 #29
I have gained back my losses from Trump's Emile Mar 5 #30
I think the media buys this myth of the pre Covid Trump economy Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #37
Financially yes; health no, but it's not terrible. Nt spooky3 Mar 5 #34
Anecdotally, I have been trying to hire people to remodel my home, with no luck. Midnight Writer Mar 5 #36
And plumbers. It seems they've gone extinct. Vinca Mar 5 #40
Yes. ProudMNDemocrat Mar 5 #43
No TexasBushwhacker Mar 5 #44
I contemplated that. Ms. Toad Mar 5 #48
I really need to work at least another year TexasBushwhacker Mar 5 #50
I don't know what your aptitudes are - Ms. Toad Mar 5 #54
Way the hell better... GreenWave Mar 5 #45
Own personal finances and general situation are two different things. Ms. Toad Mar 5 #47
Yes and no. We got "Got mine!" better Sympthsical Mar 5 #49
Not sure on the K shaped Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #56
I'm in a much worse spot happybird Mar 5 #51
I'm older and fatter. Oh! You meant am I better off under Biden? yardwork Mar 5 #52
Financially much, much worse Tree-Hugger Mar 5 #57
Very sorry for your situation Johnny2X2X Mar 5 #59
Chugging along GenThePerservering Mar 5 #58
I turned 80 last Sunday. Ping Tung Mar 5 #60
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