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Croney

(4,689 posts)
5. She wore all black clothing and entered through a window,
Fri Apr 26, 2024, 12:00 PM
Apr 26

intending to steal the ashes, pictures, and a flannel shirt. Good grief.

The wife of the deceased is the rightful owner of those things. If my husband dies, I keep his ashes.

A disappointing act from a Democrat, to be sure, but we're only human after all. I'd still vote for her over any Repug.

"retrieving Father's ashes from Stepmother's home''' yeah, quite the inexplicable 'scandal' there... hlthe2b Apr 26 #1
Agree. There's no reason at all for the dad's surviving life partner to want those ashes. Bucky Apr 26 #3
Your post seems dripping with sarcasm. I dont' know this person--just commenting on how I'd feel hlthe2b Apr 26 #4
(mostly making fun of myself) Bucky Apr 26 #20
Legally they are the widow's, without a will they will go to the surviving partner ripcord Apr 26 #7
Oh, give it a break. I am only saying there is grief involved--not defending her becoming a class A burgler. hlthe2b Apr 26 #9
You asked who had more claim than the biological daughter and I told you the law ripcord Apr 26 #11
I am speaking morally. Legal rights do not always differentiate. hlthe2b Apr 26 #12
How can you decide what is moral if you don't have any facts? ripcord Apr 26 #13
I mentioned this in the post(s) you did not read. hlthe2b Apr 26 #14
Of course, no jumping to conclusions at all ripcord Apr 26 #15
Well, I could certainly say the same for you... hlthe2b Apr 26 #16
Being "one of us" doesn't absolve her. Ocelot II Apr 26 #2
Exactly sarisataka Apr 26 #6
She wore all black clothing and entered through a window, Croney Apr 26 #5
agree Bucky Apr 26 #21
My ethics are not situational sarisataka Apr 26 #8
No one argues... but fingerwagging in such situations where grief is obviously at play is low rent hlthe2b Apr 26 #10
Regardless of her motives, she's certainly fucked up the DFL trifecta; the senate is now 33-33. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 26 #17
No matter what party I would actually give the benefit of the doubt chowder66 Apr 26 #18
Why would someone want to retrieve their parent's ashes in such a manner? LeftInTX Apr 26 #19
It's grief. It makes us do dumb things. Bucky Apr 26 #22
As a stepmother myself, I can't imagine A)dealing with a burglary after losing my husband shrike3 Apr 26 #23
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