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In reply to the discussion: Why didn't you tell someone when it happened? [View all]mommymarine2003
(261 posts)That happened to my daughter. We did not find out until 12 years later. She repressed it and went from a very happy child to someone who had many issues. We thought she was safe attending youth group. He took her to a private area of the church. The church is over a 100 years old and had a secret room behind the pipe organ. He started out with flattery and made her feel special.
We took her to a sexual assault counselor when we found out. We wanted to have him arrested, but first the statute of limitations had ended. Second, she had to be emotionally ready to handle what she would face in court. The Presbyterian church has lots of money for good lawyers. She is still not ready to this day. I know where he is, as he has moved several times, but I make it a point to periodically check on where he has relocated. I know that she must not be the only one he has molested through the years.
We have not been able to attend church after this. Our sons do not want anything to do with organized religion. And then I watch the Evangelicals support a monster like Trump. It turns my stomach.