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riversedge

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Fri Mar 22, 2024, 07:13 PM Mar 22

Red States Are Coming For No-Fault Divorce [View all]

Source: crooksandliars.com



Republican legislatures looking at banning no-fault divorce. Wonder how many of them are on wife number two or three?
— March 22, 2024

by Marcia Zug

“First comes love, then comes marriage” – so goes the classic children’s rhyme. But not everyone agrees. Increasingly, the idea that love is the most important reason to marry – or at least to stay married – is under attack. Republican pundits and lawmakers have been pushing back on the availability of no-fault divorce, challenging the idea that not being in love is a valid reason to end a marriage.

Speaking as a professor of family law, I know such views aren’t new. Zsa Zsa Gabor once quipped, “Getting divorced just because you don’t love a man is almost as silly as getting married just because you do.” But while Gabor was probably joking, the Republican attack on divorce is serious.

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For most of U.S. history, getting a divorce was difficult. Many states banned it entirely, while others permitted it only under limited circumstances – typically cruelty, desertion or adultery. Unhappily married couples who couldn’t prove such “faults” were effectively stuck..............................


Crowder isn’t alone in such criticisms: Divorce has become a hot topic among many red-state Republican lawmakers. Most recently, in January 2024, Oklahoma lawmaker Dusty Deevers proposed a bill to eliminate no-fault divorce and suggested “public shaming” of spouses who commit marital fault and then divorce. Restricting no-fault divorce is also part of both the Texas and Nebraska Republican Party platforms, and was recently debated by Louisiana lawmakers.......................

Read more: https://crooksandliars.com/2024/03/red-states-are-coming-no-fault-divorce

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Just another attempt to control women spooky3 Mar 22 #1
Agree completely...I've thought for sometime marriage has really out lived its usefulness. Parents are still PortTack Mar 22 #6
Only half of all custodial parents have child support orders in place (either formal or informal) MichMan Mar 23 #35
Sad! And gqp can't figure it out...one of many reasons why women don't want to have kids... PortTack Mar 23 #58
Removing no-fault divorce as an option has unintended consequences. no_hypocrisy Mar 22 #2
Hmmm Traildogbob Mar 22 #3
The three wives and three divorces VGNonly Mar 22 #20
Divorce, contraception, yeah those will be big hits. Hassler Mar 22 #4
And don't forget the "no divorce while pregnant" rules. GopherGal Mar 22 #5
They are hell-bent on putting us back in our places... Hekate Mar 22 #7
Sure does feel that way! calimary Mar 23 #25
They are on a roll. Let them go. MOMFUDSKI Mar 22 #8
Napoleon said.... SergeStorms Mar 22 #17
then they will take away a womans right to have a bank account. Roll it back to 1915 is the plan ZonkerHarris Mar 22 #9
Further back than that, by far Hekate Mar 23 #23
And then they'll wonder why Demobrat Mar 22 #10
WTF is wrong with these people? They don't own any of us. flashman13 Mar 22 #11
That is exactly what is wrong with them mercuryblues Mar 22 #16
Yep. And they think it's wrong that they don't own any of us. calimary Mar 23 #27
This is why there were melm00se Mar 22 #12
I don't know about protestant churches. markodochartaigh Mar 22 #13
Who cares what the religions do in this arena? NanaCat Mar 23 #32
Control of sex and specifically procreation is the point lonely bird Mar 23 #59
Fuck every last one of these douchebags. NoMoreRepugs Mar 22 #14
It's once again about the money Aviation Pro Mar 22 #15
It's about control of women, period NanaCat Mar 23 #33
Making America Great Again by forcing people who hate each other to stay married. tclambert Mar 22 #18
They could craft whatever laws they like. malthaussen Mar 23 #50
Having sex with a woman "past bearing age" might become illegal, regarded as a form of birth control. tclambert Mar 23 #55
Good thing they can't charge me retroactively, then. malthaussen Mar 23 #57
They relish the idea of more domestic violence SouthernDem4ever Mar 22 #19
FWIW, Zsa Zsa was married 9 times and was a practicing Catholic. progressoid Mar 22 #21
I doubt that Rome gave her 9 annulments. She would have simply gone thru the secular process... Hekate Mar 23 #24
Do you know about 15 year old Zsa Zsa and Ataturk? barbaraann Mar 23 #31
What is the story? I looked on Wikipedia and there was no mention of that name kimbutgar Mar 23 #40
Ataturk was originally Mustafa Kemal. barbaraann Mar 23 #44
Wow great story ! kimbutgar Mar 23 #46
You're welcome. barbaraann Mar 23 #47
Well I do now! progressoid Mar 23 #51
Marriage rates will plummet NickB79 Mar 22 #22
The problem is this: the same people are doing away with birth control... Hekate Mar 23 #26
What they really want is a time machine so they can literally go back in time and maybe drag some calimary Mar 23 #28
The Dark Ages sounds about right. When women died in childbirth & uppity women could be burned at the stake. Hekate Mar 23 #29
Or women being committed to VGNonly Mar 23 #30
Back before no-fault divorce, my brother's classmate NanaCat Mar 23 #34
Had to look up Delphinus Mar 23 #42
Briefly. But it's not like they will stop there. malthaussen Mar 23 #49
Handmaid's Tale going from sci-fi to reality NickB79 Mar 23 #52
money grab also et tu Mar 23 #36
Red states gonna be full of angry Incel dudes when the women leave 617Blue Mar 23 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author TxGuitar Mar 23 #38
Here are some others advocating for getting rid of no-fault.... TxGuitar Mar 23 #39
I'm betting this is going to backfire on the Repukes bigtime! FakeNoose Mar 23 #41
I sure hope Delphinus Mar 23 #43
They want to go back to the "good old days" when women were the property of their husbands, could not buy a house,a car appleannie1 Mar 23 #45
Goodness, gracious, who would have seen that coming? malthaussen Mar 23 #48
Why though? mahina Mar 23 #53
The ever expanding Republican policy of, "What can we take from you today?" Chainfire Mar 23 #54
Time to forget getting married Ritabert Mar 23 #56
But why should they have to forsake marriage, if that's what they want? Elessar Zappa Mar 24 #61
They would need to take away the right to vote before access to contraception happyez Mar 24 #60
well this makes marriage just SO attractive... samnsara Mar 24 #62
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