Reply #62: Yes and one of them, may have got her into bed, [View All]

by telling her, he loves her, wants her, needs her.
He may have romanced her, be a wonderful man to date. She maybe be truely in love with him
She may not know until she is pregnant that how much of a selfish pig, he really is. She may have been responsible, she can get pregnant on The Pill and condoms do fail sometimes. (I love how the implication is that the woman has to be responsible, because men cannot be relied upon.)
When she says to him she is pregnant and he acts like a child,she maybe shocked to discover that side of him.
If she wants to take the oppertunity to have a baby, then nobody should deny her that chance. In making that decision, she is taking full responsibility for her actions, she is making to chose to change her life forever. If the man wants nothing to do with the child, he won't, he will find away to not pay child support. And even if all he does is pay child support, he has the easiest job in bringing up a child. Being commited,loving, involved father is far tougher and takes
courage.