Reply #5: well, he just quoted stuff from there and I automatically [View All]

tuned out, out of habit I guess, and tuned back in when he said "you know what I mean?". I just mumbled that "I think so" and gave him a kiss, saying something about being glad that he has found something that gives him hope. the thing is, I'm worried that it won't really give him hope, while watching tv he has already questioned why God would let a natural disaster happen, what is the reason? He may have even said "It's God's will" but seemed distressed, he is struggling to make sense of it. He seems to derive comfort that there is a God that is watching over him and will be there when he dies, which is a nice thought, but may give himself permission to engage in risky behavior he is prone to, after all God will watch over him, and if it's his time to go it's God's Will, and heaven will be a wonderful place anyway, better than on earth. I can see why this would comfort some people, and help people grieving, but he's young (39) and not terminally ill.

ach, I should try to look on the bright side, at least he is finding some inspiration, maybe temporarily, maybe long-term, either way it will be a soul-searching experience for him, I'm sure, I just wish I knew how to ease his distress when he questions Biblical concepts, I don't want to negate the Bible, and crush his hold on inspiration, but don't know how to respond to the "why was it's God's will?" type of questions.