Reply #6: I think it's getting to be about "that time." [View All]

She's a great woman. She's stuck with me through a whole...lot...of........stuff. :)

I've just never really felt right about it because I haven't felt "man" enough as far as all the Puritanical crap that's been programmed into me in my Methodist, non-religious upbringing. I quit my job in CA to come out here when she got this really AWESOME job (otherwise you can be damned sure she would have been moving to CA), and I've had trouble starting a career.

But now I'm doing this paralegal thing, and I might even be going to law school, soon (just got my paralegal certificate). She's supported me for quite awhile, and a lot more than just financially. I'm really quite a bit to put up with, and I have a huge amount of respect for her just in that she's handled me at all. She's amazing.