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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-18-05 03:14 AM
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20. No, you really don't have to put up w/it...
You are entitled to set limits and boundaries that YOU are comfortable with. You are also entitled to enforce those boundaries.

If someone (even a blood relative) is abusive to you--you don't owe them a thing. Don't put yourself in situations that aren't good for you. Sure there are times in life we all have to do some stuff we don't want to, but putting ourselves with abusers isn't one of them.

I'm very sorry that you had a tough time with this... Please let yourself off the hook. You don't deserve the guilt or bad feelings.

:hug:

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