Reply #50: Peaks & valleys.. [View All]

before anyone bolts, get counselling..and think about this..

Would your life be better without her..or just different..

different is not always better, and once you exit a marriage the children are always hurt, no matter how friendly the split is.

People who say marriage is 50-50, are just plain wrong,.sometimes it's 90-10..and then other times it's 10-90

If you don;t hate each other, and there's no violence or infidelity..give it a chance..and start small.. It didn't change overnight, and it won't change back overnight either..

yesterday was our 36th anniversary, and not all of them were prize-winning years, but once the kids are grown and gone, it's kind of nice to have a lifelong friend/companion/buddy/pal/husband etc..

As much fun as the young years were, you can never re-create them again..

Hang in there :)