Reply #31: i wouldn't worry about, men who like kids are actually the opposite of hot [View All]

i've never understood the purpose of this kind of false pretense, actually, it's quite a turn-off to see some guy doting on a child, if it's his child it's a turn-off because why would i want to get romantically or sexually involved with a man who already has a child/family -- and if it isn't his child it's just downright creepy

so if we're honest with ourselves, no, a man with child is not hot, any more than a woman with child is hot, except to their immediate partners/spouses -- to the rest of us, no, definitely not hot

the word "hot" has a meaning, and it's a sexual meaning, now if she means it gives her a warm gooey feeling to see that the man dotes on his child fine, but that isn't "hot," any more than the warm gooey feeling you get from petting your cat is "hot"