Reply #4: Please DO NOT [View All]

JUDGE ALL WOMEN BY THE ACTIONS OF SOME WOMEN! Men are always complaining that we gals do that to them, and they're right in a lot of cases.

I had that problem with men for quite awhile after my son's father threw me out of the house when I was three months pregnant, not caring that I had nowhere to go and no money and we were engaged and planning a life together. And I'd had a few dealings with some not-so-nice men before and after that, as well.

But it would be grossly unfair of me to blame and tar ALL men in the same way because of the actions of a few, and the same thing should apply here.

The singles world is, frankly, dog-eat-dog, and you will, undoubtedly, run into situations like this. But you're young and you're obviously a really great guy, and I really think your time will come and someone will come along who appreciates you for who you are. But please DO NOT CARRY a chip on your shoulder about women, because that is a MAJOR MAJOR turn-off for both sexes. Good luck and keep us posted!