Reply #10: I have gone hungry. [View All]

There were days when I had 99 cents for a burger king, that was all I had to eat.
But there has been much more enrichment. I knew people last year who would sit and eat steak and lobster in front of you and never offer a bite. I do not understand that concept. It isn't that I NEEDED steak and lobster. It was just a matter of seeing greed right there. (ex-neighbors)

MG .. I pretty much know only one way to go at an issue. And that is frontal. Oh sure. I can dance around it and analyze it forever! So I'm very good at spotting that.

So I'll just tell you what stands out for me when I read your post.
DH has a freespending habit (by your standard)
MG is worried about said habit of someone else and feels a need to be responsible for same.

Is MG willing to allow DH the responsibility and play partners to allow you to leave an painful situation? Or does MG still need to be in the painful situation?

There is no wrong answer!
IOW .. do what you want to do. And yes, the Universe will abide.

:hug:
Thank you for the opportunity to clarify my belief system. Sharing your path helps me.