Reply #11: I don't think you need a psychic [View All]

as much as someone who can help you heal emotionally. It is important to clarify and address your feelings about this situation, and then release them. There are several ways of doing this, and you should pick the one that feels right to you--because you are seeking emotional relief. One practice is to write down your feelings of hurt, betrayal, etc, and then burn them, symbolically burning the feelings as well. Another is to visualize the emotional ties between yourself and that person, and see yourself cutting those ties. Another is to forgive the person for all they have done, then forgive yourself--and then to be thankful for the lessons the experience has taught you.

Don't expect the pain to go away overnight. The longer your involvement with the person, the more likely it will be to take time to heal.

Hope these ideas help.