Reply #85: I agree with them, and I'm a mom [View All]

1. There is no way to know if he was planning on having sex there or getting the guy to go somewhere else. Having sex somewhere else, if it was private, would be totally legal.

2. There is no reason to believe they would have had sex in front of children because of #1.

3. He looked through the guy's stall and as I remember the guy was still completely dressed and was looking back at him. If they guy had been actually using the facilities as intended, I doubt he would have continued looking. There is no reason to assume he would have. If the cop was dressed, didn't look like he intended to use the facilities, and was looking back at him, it was reasonable for him to assume he was interested and continue looking.

4. I have yet to hear from anyone who has seen gay men have sex in a bathroom or whose kids have. And I read several parenting forums. This has never come up. If gay men are having sex in bathrooms, they are incredibly sneaky about it, probably for that specific reason. Unless I hear about some rash of gay men having sex in front of kids in restrooms, I am not going to worry about this. I don't worry about things that aren't happening.

5. There is nothing illegal about tapping your foot. If the cop hadn't tapped back or whatever signal is generally used, it would have stopped there.