Reply #18: Really? Women really don't understand that our orgasms are just [View All]

not conducive to the type of physical manipulation that straight intercourse creates, and they hate themselves? I'm dumbfounded.

Of course, I figured this out long ago. At first I actually thought it was my partners' faults because I knew I could create an orgasm for myself in less than 3 minutes. Unfortunately for men, this means I'm almost never in the mood to waste time with their careless and generally useless efforts regarding sex.

I just don't understand why women are so quick to internalize every goll dern thing, instead of seeing reality. I've seen this sort of thing with parenting as well. The mother works her butt off, set rules, does discipline, things go fine, then "Daddy" comes home and while Mom is getting dinner on and all those evening chores, the Dad is in the other room ruining all the hard work the Mom had done all day with the children. He's saying things like, "sure we can, just don't tell Mommy." and "What your Mother doesn't know won't hurt her." Stupid stuff like that which is usually geared to "teach" the kids that Mom's an uptight bitch trying to ruin their lives with foolish things like honesty, integrity, and personal responsibility.

Unfortunately women are our own worse enemy, both individually and collectively. I guess it was never so well displayed as it was in "The Color Purple," when the sister-in-law, Whoopi, instructs a husband to beat his wife, Oprah.

This is what we need a pill for. We need a pill that forces our mouths and our minds to quit taking the blame, to stop allowing ourselves to be blamed, and to relish who we are and the glory of what we bring to the world.