Prognosis is a topic discussed often in hospice programs as are the concepts of hope.
Usually a physician's prognosis is based on the average life expectancy with the condition, factoring in a patient's overall health, family history, etc etc. And as often, the patient's perception of a prognosis is a part of the picture. The common phrase "I've been
given x years to live" is taken as a surety of sorts. And it's not the case. Physician's don't know for sure, everyone's different, and physicians obviously can't "give" a certain amount of time, except in real short periods. Your brother has shown that a prognosis is not written in stone. Docs know that, yet people tend to read it as such. I'm glad he has lived beyond the statistics.
Hospice tends to look at hope on a broad scale, as well. Many people think hospice care means "giving up hope". Programs work to support realistic hope not the absence of hope. Hope for a cure, hope for an extended lifespan, hope for a chance to wrap up some loose ends, hope for a full life - regardless of time, hope for effective pain management, and hope for an exit supported by loved ones.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross took up the metamorphosis of caterpillar into a butterfly as a sort of trademark for her pioneering of the hospice movement. She had seen images of butterflies scrawled on to bunk bed posts in the death camps of Europe by children who realized they were going to die. Hope never dies. Nor love.
Once saying of her impending death, "I am like a plane that has left the gate and not taken off. I would rather go back to the gate or fly away."Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings. - EKR