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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 12:58 PM Original message |
Yes to vaginal sex, no to anal sex. Is it rape? |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yes, it's rape. Case closed. |
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ShaneGR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
89. I think it's more stupid dating games than rape |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:10 PM Response to Reply #89 |
91. I doubt the law suggests the guy ask about everything. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:06 PM Response to Reply #91 |
110. this is what I found on-line |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:58 PM Response to Reply #110 |
127. Seems pretty clear to me |
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jiacinto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
2. No means no period |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
3. It's Rape |
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theboss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
4. If she says no, it's rape |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:07 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. In your mind is No I don't want to sufficient resistance |
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jiacinto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:08 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. No means no |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:23 PM Response to Reply #11 |
72. Actually |
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theboss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:14 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. No is enough |
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maggrwaggr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. Yeah, who would want to have sex with a woman who wasn't into it? |
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Clete (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
6. For anyone to force you to do a sex act that you are |
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FireHeart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:26 PM Response to Reply #6 |
116. That's called sexual assault and it definitely isn't |
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ronnykmarshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
8. Rape! |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
9. Yes, it's rape |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
10. well.. |
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Muddleoftheroad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. God |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. no, but you would think force has to come into it at some level |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:15 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. But if you are the confused one what responsibility do YOU have |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:25 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. the normal ones |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:36 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. question |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:36 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. I'm that incredible |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:40 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. you frighten me |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. uh-huh |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:43 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. see my response below |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:59 PM Response to Reply #46 |
65. Thank you I didn't see your edits before |
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foo_bar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:23 PM Response to Reply #46 |
73. I'm neither a dinosaur nor a feminist |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:29 PM Response to Reply #46 |
76. And your answer was? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:14 PM Response to Reply #76 |
95. "I'm such a stud that no woman is able to resist my advances". |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:22 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. because you can |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:31 PM Response to Reply #98 |
100. but I believe this notion is being purpetrated by the guys themselves |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:36 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. much sense |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:44 PM Response to Reply #101 |
106. the games people play |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:50 PM Response to Reply #106 |
173. Yep |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:57 PM Response to Reply #101 |
107. the topic is done a disservice when only the most superficial |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:02 PM Response to Reply #107 |
109. excellent points, wonder |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:26 PM Response to Reply #109 |
118. just realize its not 'sometimes no means yes' its and assumption that no= |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:34 PM Response to Reply #118 |
157. pretty darned warped |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:00 PM Response to Reply #101 |
108. StandWatie please see |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:25 PM Response to Reply #101 |
115. I don't know you still seem overly inclined to believe that no means go |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:26 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. because.. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:38 PM Response to Reply #117 |
123. well than standwatie she is not an example |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:41 PM Response to Reply #123 |
124. you are probably right.. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:05 PM Response to Reply #124 |
133. you are being goofy |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:17 PM Response to Reply #133 |
139. not in the slightest |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:26 PM Response to Reply #139 |
147. well standWatie perhaps that is true for you |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:29 PM Response to Reply #139 |
152. and no one is saying a male has to bolt to the door after a no |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:04 PM Response to Reply #117 |
131. If she says NO and MEANS yes and you BOTH know that to be true |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:11 PM Response to Reply #131 |
134. I tend to be curious myself |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:21 PM Response to Reply #131 |
143. this is getting x-rated |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:29 PM Response to Reply #143 |
151. I think you like the lines blurred for your own benefit |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:34 PM Response to Reply #151 |
158. ... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:15 PM Response to Reply #158 |
183. if you don't bolt on out at first no |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:26 PM Response to Reply #158 |
188. StandWatie May I be Frank? |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:26 PM Response to Reply #188 |
189. sure |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:04 PM Response to Reply #189 |
205. Let's take this slowly |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:13 PM Response to Reply #117 |
135. There is a difference |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:43 PM Response to Reply #135 |
227. oops missed an edit |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:59 PM Response to Reply #32 |
88. StandWatie I believe what you are alluding to |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:41 PM Response to Reply #32 |
104. YOU |
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FireHeart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:30 PM Response to Reply #32 |
120. If she (or he) says no... |
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Muddleoftheroad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:16 PM Response to Reply #17 |
21. Making it clear? |
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FireHeart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:42 AM Response to Reply #21 |
415. It's about as clear as you can get. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:18 PM Response to Reply #10 |
22. Could help explain |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:25 PM Original message |
no, just some physical resistance |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
38. but what does "no" mean |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:32 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. obviously |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:37 PM Response to Reply #40 |
47. Its what happened to me, when I ran into someone like you |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:39 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. did he know after? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:42 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. no he didn't |
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StandWatie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:44 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. I'm specifically said women wouldn't use this to play gotcha |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:46 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. I would believe you |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:13 PM Response to Reply #49 |
94. of course he knew what he was doing but there is a sociopathic |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
12. well, with me it's not really rape |
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LS_Webmaster (505 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:15 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. indeed |
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charlie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
13. I cannot fathom |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:11 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. You do (I'm sure) recall a 500 plus post thread |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:18 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. I think the problem with that thread |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:21 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. sadly, I am not so sure |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
97. I agree there is a certain pervasiveness |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:39 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. The interesting thing is |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:35 PM Response to Reply #102 |
121. yes I agree and it is encouraging |
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ConservativeDemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:22 PM Response to Reply #16 |
29. Mucky for YOU... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:29 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. Funny that is not how i read that other thread at all |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:38 PM Response to Reply #36 |
122. I simply do not see how you figure that was the jist of the thread.. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:59 PM Response to Reply #122 |
128. as I said |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:18 PM Response to Reply #128 |
140. OH MY F-ING GOD... NO YOU DIDN'T |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:24 PM Response to Reply #140 |
145. it is crucial to understand |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:28 PM Response to Reply #145 |
149. but remember |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:32 PM Response to Reply #149 |
155. I am with you here salin |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:44 PM Response to Reply #149 |
193. Why is this so hard to understand... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:54 PM Response to Reply #193 |
197. okay then perhaps in regard to those statements on lying woman |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:57 PM Response to Reply #197 |
276. Thank you... wow, more than I expected. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:02 PM Response to Reply #193 |
204. Context is everything. You stated ALL WOMEN LIE in the context of a thread |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:15 PM Response to Reply #204 |
210. Oh, so now context means something... |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:39 PM Response to Reply #145 |
192. Sorry but you made it very clear that differences in perception... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:17 PM Response to Reply #192 |
259. Sure you are done talking to me BECAUSE |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:34 PM Response to Reply #192 |
264. It seems at this point other posters also felt YOU were attacking |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:27 PM Response to Reply #140 |
148. ah.. there you go again |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:37 PM Response to Reply #148 |
160. Salin |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:49 PM Response to Reply #148 |
195. More BS distortion... WTF is so hard about this language? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:29 PM Response to Reply #195 |
217. from direct interaction |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:56 PM Response to Reply #217 |
235. No I just missed that post i guess... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:09 PM Response to Reply #29 |
68. If I am on anyone's ignore list that's their loss |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:49 PM Response to Reply #68 |
125. Yeah you did... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:42 PM Response to Reply #125 |
164. I singled nobody out. I understand you resent me for posting that and |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:17 PM Response to Reply #164 |
184. why would I not be surprised if there was |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:54 PM Response to Reply #164 |
198. Of course you did not single anybody out... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:57 PM Response to Reply #198 |
201. OK, when's your birthday.? I'm going to buy you a dictionary |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:17 PM Response to Reply #201 |
211. You said it yourself... context is everything. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:33 PM Response to Reply #211 |
218. No I don't have a different standard. There were many posts on that thread |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:18 PM Response to Reply #218 |
244. Why do you continue to try to make this personal? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:13 AM Response to Reply #244 |
406. turnaround...why is it so personal to you? |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:44 AM Response to Reply #406 |
417. Good question! |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:50 AM Response to Reply #417 |
425. Accuse me of being a rapist and I take it personally. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:01 PM Response to Reply #425 |
426. have you used the alert button? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:12 PM Response to Reply #125 |
181. THOSE ARE THE CRITERIA |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:32 PM Response to Reply #29 |
77. Aren't you the poster who linked to a Christina Hoff Summers article |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:20 PM Response to Reply #77 |
141. What he quoted was correct.... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:31 PM Response to Reply #141 |
153. why does it keep getting floated on threads, then, as proof - not as |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:39 PM Response to Reply #153 |
163. Because the numbers support the positions some hold... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:06 PM Response to Reply #163 |
179. what numbers are you refering to? |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:58 PM Response to Reply #179 |
202. The 24% number in the Koss study. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:08 PM Response to Reply #202 |
207. this is one study |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:19 PM Response to Reply #207 |
212. I think the Koss study has the highest percentage... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:40 PM Response to Reply #212 |
222. While it is in no way scientific |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:49 PM Response to Reply #222 |
230. Listen I want to be very clear about this... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:58 PM Response to Reply #230 |
238. No one was suggesting it should be ignored |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:33 PM Response to Reply #238 |
249. On the contrary... they said repeatedly it was not rational... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:39 PM Response to Reply #249 |
252. forget it |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:34 PM Response to Reply #252 |
263. You say nobody said it... and I point out quotes where they did. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:40 PM Response to Reply #263 |
265. what is it you hoped to accomplish? |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:02 PM Response to Reply #265 |
278. I'm not sure... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:11 PM Response to Reply #278 |
279. you see what you describe here (is it understanding) |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:40 PM Response to Reply #279 |
288. You know I got the impression that... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:49 PM Response to Reply #288 |
296. No. |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:10 AM Response to Reply #296 |
314. But see since i did not say those things like that... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:15 AM Response to Reply #314 |
317. The fact that a number came away with this perception |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:47 AM Response to Reply #317 |
388. I asked you to point to posts or quotes.... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:51 AM Response to Reply #388 |
390. clearly we are talking past one another |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:49 PM Response to Reply #288 |
297. it never was a threat to me... |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:11 AM Response to Reply #297 |
315. Ok please tell me when oh when |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:16 AM Response to Reply #315 |
318. Here is an exercise for you |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:50 AM Response to Reply #318 |
344. That's why i am asking those people.... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:55 AM Response to Reply #344 |
348. yet you are unable to hear the response |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:51 AM Response to Reply #348 |
391. Oh i see, so I just accept that I, being male, I'm wrong and at fault... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:42 AM Response to Reply #315 |
335. okay I tried Salin tried NSMA tried Noiretbu tried. |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:17 AM Response to Reply #335 |
363. You reached this conclusion.... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:46 PM Response to Reply #278 |
291. okay well I thought after reading those posts 279 and 281 |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:15 AM Response to Reply #291 |
316. I'm not sure what you mean by what i need. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:44 AM Response to Reply #316 |
338. and I am simple a voice of a position |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:51 AM Response to Reply #316 |
345. You seem to be trying to force the women posters to PROVE |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:19 AM Response to Reply #345 |
365. The only thing I want them to prove... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:06 PM Response to Reply #249 |
258. THE BOO HOO CAME AFTER IT WAS CLEAR |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:41 PM Response to Reply #258 |
266. I do not understand... am I just supposed to never mention my situation |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:02 PM Response to Reply #266 |
277. this is what you do you turn it around |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:17 PM Response to Reply #277 |
280. Now how did you reach that conclusion? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:25 PM Response to Reply #280 |
284. do me a favor TLM read my post 281 |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:27 PM Response to Reply #280 |
285. be sure and read post 279 as well. 281 and 279 |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:29 AM Response to Reply #280 |
325. Yes you are correct I did dispute it ..not in the beginning but at the end |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:48 AM Response to Reply #325 |
343. And you are still personaly attacking... now I'm an abuser? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:03 AM Response to Reply #343 |
353. Be clear that I am not attacking you |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:21 AM Response to Reply #353 |
367. Oh yeah...calling me an abuser isn;t an attack... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:42 AM Response to Reply #367 |
383. Great, no more circular reasoning. I called you nothing. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:20 PM Response to Reply #266 |
281. no it is not that you are not suppose to mention your situation... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:43 PM Response to Reply #212 |
226. I am confused as to why you are raising the koss study |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:55 PM Response to Reply #226 |
234. I think the point |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:01 PM Response to Reply #234 |
239. Well yeah especially since the poster had over 85 posts jockeying for it |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:34 PM Response to Reply #239 |
250. Thankyou NSMA and SALIN |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:28 PM Response to Reply #234 |
262. OMFG... this is insane. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:47 PM Response to Reply #262 |
269. I already gave up |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:45 PM Response to Reply #226 |
253. In this thread... someone asked about it above... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:01 PM Response to Reply #29 |
79. and your simplistics pronoucements |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:28 PM Response to Reply #79 |
150. Again with the dishonesty.... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:46 PM Response to Reply #150 |
168. *sigh* WHAT BOTH OF YOU FAIL TO REALIZE...STILL |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:10 PM Response to Reply #168 |
208. NOBODY... NOBODY said anything about "friendly" rapes. |
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ConservativeDemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:39 PM Response to Reply #208 |
221. Even when it's stranger rape, it's better to resist... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:46 PM Response to Reply #221 |
229. SURE...TELL THAT TO A 110LB WOMAN |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:15 PM Response to Reply #229 |
243. and by doing so one starts to unintentionally shift the blame |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:50 PM Response to Reply #221 |
232. I'd like the actual links to your quotes please |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:57 PM Response to Reply #232 |
256. MY QUOTE IS #400 responding to # 397 responding to post #369 |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:38 PM Response to Reply #221 |
251. i consider myself a pretty tough person not without fear |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:42 PM Response to Reply #208 |
225. DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE WORD "IMPLY" MEANS? |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:52 PM Response to Reply #225 |
273. Oh here we go again... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:57 PM Response to Reply #273 |
308. highly unlikely... |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:22 AM Response to Reply #308 |
320. Simple logic... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:35 AM Response to Reply #320 |
328. less severe...still as clueless as ever |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:35 AM Response to Reply #328 |
376. More personal attacks... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:46 AM Response to Reply #376 |
386. still playing the victim, i see |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:00 AM Response to Reply #386 |
397. when you can respond without personal attacks let me know. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:05 AM Response to Reply #397 |
399. poor TLM...this tactic...again |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:12 AM Response to Reply #399 |
404. Obviously you're more interested in flames than debate. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:19 AM Response to Reply #404 |
408. it is MY pleasure and honor |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:26 AM Response to Reply #408 |
411. I don't believe it Noiretblu this is right back to square one. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:14 PM Response to Reply #208 |
242. actually that isn't true. |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:52 PM Response to Reply #242 |
300. I think the confusion is in the idea of prevention... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:55 PM Response to Reply #300 |
304. sadly |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:00 AM Response to Reply #304 |
310. yeah...i'd love to hear some opinions about how to prevent |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:18 AM Response to Reply #310 |
319. I have tried to raise it before |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:23 AM Response to Reply #319 |
321. well let's open it up: MEN...any ideas about how to stop MEN from raping? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:33 AM Response to Reply #321 |
326. Deserves its own thread |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:35 AM Response to Reply #321 |
329. Actually there are a number of male organizations committed to |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:42 AM Response to Reply #329 |
333. perhaps this is a good resource for education |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:47 AM Response to Reply #333 |
341. I did post it on the other thread |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:02 AM Response to Reply #341 |
352. i don't think so... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:42 AM Response to Reply #329 |
334. I am very glad to learn about this group. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:46 AM Response to Reply #321 |
339. is this thread open or only under consideration (should be in GD) |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:34 AM Response to Reply #310 |
327. That's like asking how to prevent women from commiting infanticide. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:38 AM Response to Reply #327 |
331. other than the title, this is one of your more reasonable posts |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:47 AM Response to Reply #327 |
342. the consent issue is clear |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:52 AM Response to Reply #310 |
347. Noiretblu there is a Mens Group headed by an X Sports Figure |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:15 AM Response to Reply #347 |
360. yes...i've seen this guy on a talk show |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:05 AM Response to Reply #300 |
313. But it can also get a woman killed |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:04 PM Response to Reply #29 |
132. Or we're worried about being labeled as rapists... again. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:15 PM Response to Reply #132 |
137. I said this |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:32 PM Response to Reply #137 |
156. My point is that NOBODY said any of that... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:45 PM Response to Reply #156 |
167. what exactly is made up about that statement? |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:29 PM Response to Reply #167 |
216. EVERYTHING... the whole damn thing was made up... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:56 PM Response to Reply #216 |
236. you are losing me TLM it seems you are off topic |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:02 PM Response to Reply #216 |
240. Then why did you say, "according to this small crew of guys" |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:21 PM Response to Reply #216 |
246. then why did so many people |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:19 PM Response to Reply #246 |
260. Salin it seems he is now done talking to me |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:49 PM Response to Reply #260 |
270. Sigh |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:09 AM Response to Reply #260 |
401. Yet oddly enough not one of you can point to a single post... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:31 AM Response to Reply #401 |
413. it doesn't even matter any more TLM |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:22 PM Response to Reply #156 |
186. there are several examples |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:28 PM Response to Reply #186 |
190. Yes I do believe he did and |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:22 PM Response to Reply #186 |
214. Please quote where CD said any of this... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:45 PM Response to Reply #214 |
228. I said that. You pulled that from one of my posts in the 500+ thread |
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charlie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:24 PM Response to Reply #16 |
31. I saw it, but didn't crack open that thread |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:04 PM Response to Reply #31 |
66. LOL! |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:51 PM Response to Reply #31 |
196. I guess that is what THIS thread is attempting to define |
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Character Assassin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
15. It's rape. |
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NewYorkerfromMass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
26. No to "no" is rape |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
24. BTW, for those who question my intentions on starting this thread |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
25. Yes |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
28. Rape's not a sex crime, it's a force crime, ergo... |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:27 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. Without putting too fine a point on it |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:21 PM Response to Reply #35 |
71. It happens in jails quite frequently. |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:30 PM Response to Reply #28 |
37. Also important |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
30. yes.. it is rape |
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joeybee12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:26 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. There's no way to answer this |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:34 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Once s/he says NO |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:04 PM Response to Reply #42 |
67. I believe I said I agree with this.. |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:16 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. Indeed, you did. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:19 PM Response to Reply #69 |
70. phew.. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
61. clarification |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:09 PM Response to Reply #61 |
111. third choice |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:02 PM Response to Reply #111 |
130. I think I tried to capture that with point two |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
33. This is SO Easy |
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joeybee12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
41. This is NOTso easy |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:37 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. I think a man knows |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:43 PM Response to Reply #48 |
55. Excuse Me |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:55 PM Response to Reply #55 |
63. my response was actully to #41 |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:25 PM Response to Reply #48 |
81. I must admit |
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outinforce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:39 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. It ABSOLUTELY does not matter |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:47 PM Response to Reply #33 |
60. oif, for once, i agree with you completely |
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Blue_Chill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
39. If she say no it's rape |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
43. First thread where I have seen 100% agreement on |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
56. look above |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:51 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. BUT it is the most civil |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:28 PM Response to Reply #43 |
99. now it is a matter of those fine points |
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Devil Dog Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
44. What if, she said no to "going south" (as you put it) last week . . . |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:45 PM Response to Reply #44 |
58. while I would not think so... I would have to wonder about the |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:26 PM Response to Reply #44 |
74. If she is passive due to willingly accepting it then no |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:40 PM Response to Reply #74 |
103. passive due to threat of violence is common |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
64. It is interesting at times |
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GOPBasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
75. Of course that's rape. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
78. yes. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
80. Yes it is rape --- perhaps |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:27 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. perhaps |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:36 PM Response to Reply #83 |
86. yes too few |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
82. Of course it's rape |
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Uzybone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
84. No is no |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
85. really I do not know what to make of this |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 03:38 PM Response to Reply #85 |
87. this is the preferred method of mature people |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:13 PM Response to Reply #87 |
112. yes Noiretblu this "doing her" thing is also problematic |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:22 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. why yes, indeed you are |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:55 PM Response to Reply #113 |
126. males who encounter this ambivalence regularly are type specific |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:31 PM Response to Reply #126 |
154. 1- very selfish is my vote |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:54 PM Response to Reply #154 |
175. that all women are ambivalent about sex is a BIG LIE |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:24 PM Response to Reply #175 |
215. it is complex, and few bother to examine themselves |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:49 PM Response to Reply #215 |
271. BINGO: fixing someone else is a distraction from the fixing i need to do |
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dfong63 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
90. what if |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:12 PM Response to Reply #90 |
93. No...NON...Nicht...it's all the same and pretty universally understood |
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ButterflyBlood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
92. if she says no, it's rape |
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buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
96. clearly it is about respect |
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tom_paine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
105. Rape. |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
114. What exactly is the point of continuing to drag this crap up... |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:00 PM Response to Reply #114 |
129. no it has now moved onto an even finer point |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:14 PM Response to Reply #114 |
136. The point of bringing this up was posted in the original post |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:35 PM Response to Reply #136 |
219. Oh there were? Well then please cite them... |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:47 PM Response to Reply #114 |
172. Actually - you seem to be one of the main people inflaming others |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:35 PM Response to Reply #172 |
220. Yeah I get a little on edge being called a rapist... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:19 PM Response to Reply #220 |
245. ironically |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:56 PM Response to Reply #245 |
275. Hey, you're the first one to admit it even happened. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:38 PM Response to Reply #275 |
287. funny how you only hear/ read the part that you chose to hear/read. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:52 PM Original message |
No please DO take me at my word |
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SyracuseDemocrat (696 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
119. It's definitely rape |
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TLM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:40 PM Response to Reply #119 |
223. Once again what guys have said this? |
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David Zephyr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
138. If 32 Strokes Were Approved, "No" Stated At Stroke #33...What If |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:24 PM Response to Reply #138 |
146. It's far too hypothetical to answer |
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David Zephyr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:39 PM Response to Reply #146 |
161. See My Edited & Expanded Former Post. Is & Isn't Hypothetical. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:44 PM Response to Reply #161 |
166. Different levels could be a good idea - n/t |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:47 PM Response to Reply #161 |
171. Another friend posed this question to me last week |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:56 PM Response to Reply #171 |
177. I was t hinking about that, but... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
142. The situation you describe is rape, yes, but tone needs to be addressed |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:36 PM Response to Reply #142 |
159. I think your response is completely reasonable and not intending to |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:46 PM Response to Reply #159 |
169. Right, the CA case wouldn't happen to your normal guy--he would stop (nt) |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:54 PM Response to Reply #169 |
174. I'd like to think so. From the sounds of it some might not |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:10 PM Response to Reply #174 |
180. Wouldn't happen--hearing that would freak me out, and I would stop |
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stickdog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
144. Definitely. |
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Starpass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
162. I'm offended at the use of the words vaginal, sex and rape in this post |
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Aaron (489 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:46 PM Response to Reply #162 |
170. What words would you suggest in place of those? n/t |
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Aaron (489 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:32 PM Response to Reply #170 |
248. Maybe that was sarcasm. My sarcasm-detector is bad n/t |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:55 PM Response to Reply #162 |
176. Ok but you were fine with anal right? |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 06:43 PM Response to Original message |
165. Yes. |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
178. Of course it's rape but let me end this thread right now.... |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
182. If the woman says no... |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
185. Here's a radical idea |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
187. Well Well Well |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:31 PM Response to Reply #187 |
191. But as I stated, the thread wasn't about Kobe. I simply thought the rumor |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:47 PM Response to Reply #191 |
194. No Means No |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:55 PM Response to Reply #194 |
200. Did you read the original post? |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:59 PM Response to Reply #200 |
203. I read the original post and than the nearly two hundred posts that |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:05 PM Response to Reply #203 |
206. But one might engage in intercourse but not wish to engage in it anally |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:20 PM Response to Reply #206 |
213. Respectfully, I think you are missing my point |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:40 PM Response to Reply #213 |
224. It clearly does NOT...if that were so then jailhouse rapes would not be an |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:57 PM Response to Reply #224 |
237. I think we are arguing on parallel |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:09 PM Response to Reply #237 |
241. I still take issue with your point |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
199. white hegemony denies power to nonmales and nonwhites |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
209. Yes. It's rape. No means no. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
231. this gets my nomination.... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 08:54 PM Response to Reply #231 |
233. Thanks for your vote. You make a difference. |
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SPICYHOT (345 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
247. No means no |
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are_we_united_yet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
254. sorry |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
255. Deleted message |
Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:26 PM Response to Reply #255 |
261. Then ground rules need to be stated |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:41 PM Response to Reply #255 |
267. ".......but I don't see how it could be rape" |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:53 PM Response to Reply #267 |
274. Interesting take on it |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:23 PM Response to Reply #267 |
282. Well consider the circumstances |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:27 PM Response to Reply #282 |
286. No then you are just a run of the mill *********(fill in the blank) |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:47 PM Response to Reply #286 |
294. You are not being pragmatic, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:52 PM Response to Reply #294 |
301. The question is two fold |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:11 AM Response to Reply #294 |
358. you are wrong |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:34 PM Response to Reply #358 |
438. You whole first paragraph is a none issue, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:48 PM Response to Reply #438 |
442. please read here so we are talking about the same post |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:02 PM Response to Reply #442 |
447. Okay, what I say stands. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:57 PM Response to Reply #438 |
444. let's get something straight AgainstME: you write a post about DOING HER |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:06 PM Response to Reply #444 |
448. Well wonder, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:17 PM Response to Reply #448 |
453. No AgainstME the expression DOING HER is not acceptable |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:58 PM Response to Reply #282 |
309. Again - are you serious?? |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:40 PM Response to Reply #309 |
440. First of all, you are just wrong. |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:01 PM Response to Reply #440 |
445. Okay, my mistake |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:02 AM Response to Reply #282 |
351. as soon as she resists YOU STOP |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
257. Of course it’s rape. |
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West Coast Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
268. It depends on whether someone is forcing an act |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
272. I have no problem with saying no, and the guy continueing |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:24 PM Response to Reply #272 |
283. There isn't any law that says that |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:43 PM Response to Reply #283 |
289. Yeah, but a law allows for that. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:47 PM Response to Reply #289 |
293. Here is the law. Please elaborate |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:51 PM Response to Reply #293 |
298. Yes okay here's a scenario, that it allows for. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:25 AM Response to Reply #298 |
322. Lets try the same scenario |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:43 AM Response to Reply #322 |
336. Okay, but in your case she never consented, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:44 AM Response to Reply #298 |
337. No I don't. I see a bigger problem with the boy not being educated |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:07 AM Response to Reply #337 |
355. You keep trying to demonize me, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:11 AM Response to Reply #355 |
356. interesting comparison |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:30 AM Response to Reply #356 |
370. NO, READ THE POST BEFORE MINE, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:36 AM Response to Reply #370 |
378. didn't catch the details |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:22 PM Response to Reply #378 |
436. Okay, fair enough. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:16 AM Response to Reply #355 |
362. no one is demonizing you. |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:33 AM Response to Reply #362 |
373. Thanks, no wonder people are demonziing |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:40 AM Response to Reply #373 |
379. I clarify "your rules" in my post #358 |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:56 AM Response to Reply #373 |
395. Haven't read post 358 yet AME. What is up with that? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:09 AM Response to Reply #373 |
400. still no AgainstME GEE and I thought he wanted to discuss this civily |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:19 AM Response to Reply #355 |
364. Deleted message |
nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:28 AM Response to Reply #355 |
412. I' m demonizing no one |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:51 PM Response to Reply #289 |
299. you want something black and white |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:54 PM Response to Reply #299 |
303. But something as importantant as rape law, |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:56 PM Response to Reply #303 |
307. Have you read through these threads? |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:03 AM Response to Reply #307 |
311. yes I do, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:27 AM Response to Reply #311 |
323. and he kept going for quite some time |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:35 AM Response to Reply #323 |
330. I have never said that, |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:41 AM Response to Reply #330 |
332. Another "victim" |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:46 AM Response to Reply #330 |
340. It was an easy inference |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:04 AM Response to Reply #340 |
354. I never said my scenario bas based on the case, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:13 AM Response to Reply #354 |
359. Just curious |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:19 AM Response to Reply #359 |
366. The consequences are that |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:33 AM Response to Reply #366 |
374. Then i misunderstood |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:41 AM Response to Reply #374 |
380. Okay, Okay. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:46 AM Response to Reply #380 |
387. and there is our disagreement |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:45 PM Response to Reply #387 |
441. Hey, though the girl knew this could be a possible outcome too. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:01 PM Response to Reply #441 |
446. Yes it would be emotionally damaging to rape someone and be |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:17 PM Response to Reply #446 |
452. Tell me this doesn't demonize me |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:35 PM Response to Reply #452 |
459. I'll admit. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:52 AM Response to Reply #311 |
346. Here is the case. Here is their reasoning for the interpretation |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:01 AM Response to Reply #346 |
350. oh.. but he was young.. surely he didn't hear what she was saying |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:11 AM Response to Reply #350 |
357. Everything you say is absolutely loaded, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:16 AM Response to Reply #357 |
361. I have - just from the girls perspective |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:26 AM Response to Reply #361 |
369. Why, do you associate a bad sexual experience with rape? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:41 AM Response to Reply #369 |
382. I appreciate the more accurate description |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:10 AM Response to Reply #369 |
402. Run that by me again?? |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:15 AM Response to Reply #402 |
407. I think she (he?) is saying |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 03:29 AM Response to Reply #407 |
424. Well it's pretty hard to tell |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 04:47 PM Response to Reply #424 |
431. I must remind you, |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:11 PM Response to Reply #431 |
450. OK |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 05:11 PM Response to Reply #402 |
434. Did you read all my other posts, |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:18 PM Response to Reply #434 |
454. I agree with this |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:07 AM Response to Reply #434 |
471. AgainstME. I have a couple of questions? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:13 AM Response to Reply #369 |
405. you have got to be pulling our legs AgainstME because |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 05:01 PM Response to Reply #405 |
433. Your post lacks substance, |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:21 AM Response to Reply #369 |
409. I'll try |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:23 AM Response to Reply #303 |
368. whether you like it or not, or agree with it or not |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:44 PM Response to Reply #283 |
290. this is getting absurd |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:52 PM Response to Reply #290 |
302. Why do you dismiss |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:27 AM Response to Reply #302 |
324. absurdity does not valid make n/t |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:32 AM Response to Reply #290 |
372. salin this was absurd from the words in his very first post on this thread |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:36 AM Response to Reply #372 |
377. Wonder, do you care to have a constructive argument? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:41 AM Response to Reply #377 |
381. read my post 358 and then come back Ill wait |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:55 AM Response to Reply #377 |
394. so where are you Against ME? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:34 AM Response to Reply #290 |
375. IMHO this post was absurd post 282 I pasted it here |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:49 AM Response to Reply #375 |
389. In fairness |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:53 AM Response to Reply #389 |
393. Never mind |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:04 AM Response to Reply #393 |
398. is the tag along not absurd |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:25 AM Response to Reply #398 |
410. I am refering to the two posts (not yours) |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 03:01 AM Response to Reply #410 |
420. oh well it doesn't matter salin |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:31 AM Response to Reply #272 |
371. whatever Against ME |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:45 AM Response to Reply #371 |
385. Once again wonder, you bring personal attacks and assumption into this. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:52 AM Response to Reply #385 |
392. have you read my post 358 yet? or do you prefer to avoid the issue? |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:21 PM Response to Reply #392 |
435. Please provide a link to 358, or copy and paste. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:38 PM Response to Reply #435 |
439. Post 358 pasted in. |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:53 PM Response to Reply #439 |
443. For the love of god, quit coming in on my responses to people |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:08 PM Response to Reply #443 |
449. your problem with the law Against ME is a non issue. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:15 PM Response to Reply #449 |
451. I disagree WONDER. I think his problem with the law is an issue |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:24 PM Response to Reply #451 |
455. Thank you. n/t |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:18 AM Response to Reply #455 |
474. interesting that you would jump in here |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:29 PM Response to Reply #451 |
457. Keep in mind, I have never argued the actual case. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:46 PM Response to Reply #457 |
462. I don't entirely agree with that and here's why |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:56 AM Response to Reply #457 |
469. NO i don't agree |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:39 AM Response to Reply #451 |
468. NSMA I have no problem |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:26 PM Response to Reply #449 |
456. Okay wonder, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:33 PM Response to Reply #456 |
458. Sweetie...if you were at a party and people were walking in and watching |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:41 PM Response to Reply #458 |
460. You dodged it, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:50 PM Response to Reply #460 |
463. Sure it matters. If you're not 18 you won't be tried as an adult |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:01 AM Response to Reply #463 |
464. True, but it is irrelevant to guilt or innocents. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:08 AM Response to Reply #464 |
465. Ignorance (not stupidity but a legal term) is not an excuse |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:17 AM Response to Reply #465 |
466. I see your point, |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 12:33 AM Response to Reply #466 |
467. OK but there are exceptions anyway |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:07 AM Response to Reply #467 |
470. You did not answer my question |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:10 AM Response to Reply #470 |
472. Ya got me going there |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:13 AM Response to Reply #470 |
473. AgainstME? |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 02:40 AM Response to Reply #470 |
479. Okay AgainstME I guess we missed each other. |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-03 11:40 PM Response to Reply #479 |
482. It would be a misunderstanding, and confusion, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-03 11:56 PM Response to Reply #482 |
485. It is not a misunderstanding on my part AgainstME |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:22 AM Response to Reply #485 |
486. Actually you asked me to answer the bold type, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:29 AM Response to Reply #486 |
490. yes I know you answered the part about the DOING HER phrase |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:35 AM Response to Reply #490 |
491. The fact is that saying "doing her" hurts nothing, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 02:28 AM Response to Reply #491 |
512. the phrase DOING HER implies |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:37 AM Response to Reply #486 |
492. I think you have made yourself pretty clear ... |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:40 AM Response to Reply #486 |
493. PS |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:46 AM Response to Reply #493 |
495. Yeah, check yours. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:53 AM Response to Reply #495 |
497. Deleted message |
Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:42 AM Response to Reply #486 |
494. actually YOU seem big on avoidance and confusion NOT I |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:54 AM Response to Reply #494 |
498. "Little risk" is unnaceptable risk!!!! |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:00 AM Response to Reply #498 |
501. I think I will let the blind lead the blind on this one |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:03 AM Original message |
Ha |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:04 AM Response to Reply #498 |
504. I disagree with you here |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:07 AM Response to Reply #504 |
506. Maybe you are right. Maybe I should go put on a foil hat. |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:43 AM Response to Reply #506 |
511. It's not a trick or a conspiracy |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:30 AM Response to Reply #460 |
475. here's a suggestion: don't "block out" your partner |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 01:36 AM Response to Reply #475 |
476. Hello Noretblu |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 02:15 AM Response to Reply #476 |
477. you and i see eye-to-eye, friend |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 02:20 AM Response to Reply #477 |
478. okey dokey |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-03 11:21 PM Response to Reply #475 |
481. That is not the point, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-03 11:46 PM Response to Reply #481 |
483. No! this is what is problematic |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:26 AM Response to Reply #483 |
488. Funny how you dodgethe question |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:51 AM Response to Reply #488 |
496. actually against ME I disagree with booberdawg completely |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:57 AM Response to Reply #496 |
500. Ahhh ha |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:03 AM Response to Reply #500 |
503. tut tut |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:05 AM Response to Reply #503 |
505. But you see, I never said you said I was a rapist, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:09 AM Response to Reply #505 |
508. no you implied it here are your words |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:09 AM Response to Reply #503 |
507. Once again not reading what I say, |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:11 AM Response to Reply #507 |
509. whatever |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:24 AM Response to Reply #481 |
487. I think she's just suggesting you be more "in tune" |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:29 AM Response to Reply #487 |
489. Exactly, it's going to be clear 99% of the time, |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 12:54 AM Response to Reply #489 |
499. An innocent misunderstanding |
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Against ME (282 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:02 AM Response to Reply #499 |
502. But do you think something like what I have described could happen? |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-03 01:29 AM Response to Reply #502 |
510. No, I don't think it would happen |
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Booberdawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 11:45 PM Response to Reply #456 |
461. This seems reasonable |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-09-03 03:00 AM Response to Reply #456 |
480. I must admit AgainstME I am having a couple of problems |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:36 AM Response to Reply #385 |
414. AGAINST ME 's RULES vs THE LAW |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
292. I've never understood why a guy would want to fight for sex |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:48 PM Response to Reply #292 |
295. It's because you are a gentleman who is not into violence to have |
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Cassandra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
305. I think it's at least assault. |
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Wonder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:56 AM Response to Reply #305 |
349. really. I am always interested in the female perspective here as well |
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Terwilliger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-03 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
306. Rape is when someone is being forced to have sex against their will |
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Capn Sunshine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
312. I'm down with that |
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Shanty Oilish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
384. It is now. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 01:59 AM Response to Reply #384 |
396. thoughtful response |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:10 AM Response to Reply #384 |
403. Why lessen the punishment for a crime that is already under reported |
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Shanty Oilish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:43 AM Response to Reply #403 |
416. Because it may end up being underprosecuted, for one thing... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:54 AM Response to Reply #416 |
419. Possibly but not entirely true |
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Shanty Oilish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 03:19 AM Response to Reply #419 |
422. Serial rapists get convicted for multiple offenses? |
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Shanty Oilish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 02:47 AM Response to Reply #403 |
418. PS: I hear the sound of rape shield laws fracturing. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 03:02 AM Response to Reply #418 |
421. That backlash was present long ago. |
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Shanty Oilish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 03:27 AM Response to Reply #421 |
423. Yes, but now they can act on it, and are doing so. |
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El Mariachi (79 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:41 PM Response to Reply #423 |
427. A few things I've learned. |
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prez_sux (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
428. damn... |
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West Coast Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
429. Please Lock This Enormous Thread!!!!!!!!! |
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Lady Freedom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
430. When she says no... |
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ibegurpard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
432. No question. |
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MaraJade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-08-03 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
437. Absolutely Rape. Period. |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-03 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
484. In my humble opinion... |
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