After our Freeper friends all join up and make this war a bipartisan effort, I have some recommendations for all of us, because someday soon I think most all of us are going to want this war over. We're going to have to be the ones to end it, too, because as long as there is money to be made in Iraq, the criminals in charge will keep trying to fight there.
If you're honest about it, the term, "I support the troops, not the war," can be a workable statement. But the problem has to be approached very carefully. Here are my suggestions.
* First, go out and read Lt. Col. Dave Grossman's book,
On Killing. Grossman makes compelling arguments in favor of the idea that most people, soldiers included, have an aversion to killing other people which must be carefully overcome through training and conditioning. Afterwards, soldiers who have killed and seen death up close face severe psychological difficulties. Those difficulties are even worse if the soldiers feel they bear some responsibility for the war itself, especially if we lose the war (and we're going to lose this war).
* Second, when you express your disdain for the war, please make certain to place the blame for the fiasco squarely in the hands of those responsible: in my opinion, that's the Bush Administration, and really nobody else. The troops are NOT responsible for this war! They are the victims we are trying to save from further depredation.
* Third, please do not usurp symbology and terminology on which the troops themselves depend for their honor. Don't mock or deface the American flag, or military dress, or the system of military rank. Over-the-top humor is probably okay, like our friend
General J.C. Christian, Patriot. But some of the more notorious protesting behavior during the Vietnam war proved to be very damaging to returning troops. The last thing you want to do is harm the troops--that's why we're trying to bring them home, dammit! So read Col. Grossman's chapter on Vietnam veterans and try your best to avoid the behavior which the troops themselves found to be so heartbreaking.
* Finally, when you see or meet a soldier returning home from the war, express yourself favorably to that person. Your initial reaction may be misguided--try to overcome it. Look that person square in the eye and say this: "thank you for doing your job." If that's all you can say, that's fine. Don't try to bullshit the person by pretending to understand what he or she has been through--all you've done is read a book. And for god's sake, DO NOT direct your anger for this horseshit war against the warrior! If you're protesting and some soldiers come by, give 'em a cheer to let them know you're not protesting
them. If you see soldiers in a bar, buy them a drink. As for this guy in particular, I dropped him a short little line to let him know I care.
Do everything you can to remind yourself and the soldier that you are both Americans, both human. No catcalls, no babykiller lines, no insults, no spitting or throwing shit. If you do that--and I am not kidding about this--you are harming that person in a way that no bullet can equal, and you are a bad, bad person for doing it.
These are some thoughts I've had for a long time now, and you can take 'em or leave 'em as you wish. But it's my heartfelt opinion and I hope that even if you disagree with me you see some sense in what I'm saying. Thanks for your time.