Going out with coworkers can be strange... (warning, rated TV14)

So a coworker and I went out to Subway. Well, I don't know what was on her mind as she made a reference I didn't quite understand (yet alone hear). She then explained her comment, saying it came from the movie "Deep Throat". Lo and behold, half the patrons in the bloody restaurant then turned around to look... AT ME! :shrug:

:wtf: I'm eating a sandwich, and she's making wacky comments worthy of a 1970s Woody Allen movie!

Will somebody tell me what is going on?!

Desperate minds want to know!

(And pictures would be helpful, too...)

And i want to see the pics too!

I haven't any pics, nor did they have a security camera - and, yes, I would ask to get a copy of the tape from that hour...

She knows I'm a homo, which might have been the basis for the comment... :-) Apparently, it was how I was eating the sub that prompted her to comment. After all, it was a footlong sub... :eyes:

Actually, she's got an A+ sense of humor.

(edit: Block quotes)

It was a witty/sleazy come on that you could either take up or ignore. She was making her meaning clear and also allowing you to take it as a joke with no big deal.


But she thinks you're cute.
From some of the things you've said in the past, going out for a friendly drink or dinner with her would be a bad idea.

But she still thinks you're cute :)

Khash.

This is a different female co-worker. I like hanging around female coworkers because there's comparatively less 'stress', and easier to talk with and to and I can relate to them. Heck, we can even freely talk about which men are hot and which are not, discuss shoe size, and lots of other things. (I can't say there's no stress, but nobody's perfect...)

A friendly drink with her with other coworkers would be acceptable, I think...

She's looking for a hubby as she's got a child already. I am not sufficiently emotionally stable to be a father, and I am not 'financially stable' - a quality heteros with children need far more than homos without the desire to raise children...

Now she has made other comments (2, heh...) so she might have a mini-thing for me... I dunno.

But I'd rather keep her as a friend.

I'll start to worry only if she starts making hints about me switching teams or whatever. :-)