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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 09:51 PM
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I think there should be an acts-like-a-mother's day.
I'm serious. I rent the third floor of my family's house from them, but technically I live with 4 other people (sometimes more, depending on who's in and out). I work three jobs, I do the cooking, I clean up afterward, I remember everyones birthday/anniversary/whatever, I do the household shopping, take care of the family pets.
I love to cook, but I also love hearing 'thank you' or 'that was great'. I love my cats, but I'd love it if someone else remembered that they need feeding. I don't mind shopping, but I'd love it if someone would remember to, say, give me grocery money or offer me a ride to buy them their groceries for the week.
Today was mothers day, and I love my mother very very much. But I was feeling a little bitter. I do totally appreciate that she's my mother, she raised me, supported me into adulthood. She's a great person. But at the same time, all day, I was feeling like "I mother this family, and no one EVER says thank you. EVER. Including my Mum.


And before you even ask why I still do it, it's because I love my family. And I was born with an overdeveloped nurturing complex.
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Eye and Monkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 09:54 PM
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1. Thank you for taking care of three people and the pets.
And by the way, Happy Acts-Like A-Mother Day. You're a good sorta-mom, and here's a long-stemmed rose just for you -

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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 09:55 PM
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2. Awwww
Thank you :)
Its four people, not including me :)

Thats very sweet of you
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 10:01 PM
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3. I moved
Edited on Sun May-09-04 10:02 PM by mharris660
2500 miles away from my family because we don't get along, I just made my mothers day call and its always hard to do. Along with that I hate my wife sometimes, what are you doing next Sat. night? BTW your a good person for being so nice to your family :)
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 10:29 PM
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5. Thanks
Though, your reply kinda confused me
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-10-04 01:07 AM
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7. It was
a goofy attempt at humor, just to make you smile today. Not really a come-on of any kind, just a lame joke. BTW what cha wearing? (kidding) :)
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-10-04 01:30 AM
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8. *laughs*
I didn't even pick up on that *out of it*

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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-10-04 01:43 AM
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9. I don't think
it translated very well into the Canadian language. I've been meaning to learn Canadian for awhile, cuz I ski and flyfish up there alot.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-10-04 11:32 PM
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10. :P
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-11-04 01:39 AM
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11. I ate too many donuts and
I hurt, wanna rub my tummy?
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-11-04 12:47 PM
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12. Sure
*rub*
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MichaelHarris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-11-04 12:51 PM
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13. /me
kicks his leg like a frisky dog
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candy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 10:11 PM
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4. You've Been Like a Mother to Me!!
I actually received a card that said that from my son,the one with the weird,wonderful sense of humor.
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GirlinContempt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-04 10:30 PM
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6. *laughs*
Thats cute :)
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-11-04 12:55 PM
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14. i am kinda similar
Edited on Tue May-11-04 01:00 PM by lionesspriyanka
except that atleast part of my family recognizes it...and appreciates it..

have you ever asked for help? sometimes you need to voice these things...
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