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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:04 PM
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We lost two old friends last night... :-(
Edited on Mon May-24-04 05:05 PM by Padraig18
We had some violent weather here last night, and during one period of straight-line winds, we lost the two OLD white oaks in our backyard. They had withstood tornados and lightning strikes, ice storms and blizzards, supported tree houses and tire swings, bird and squirrel nests, been climbed by kids and cats beyond memory, but last night was the final straw, and they gave up the ghost. I counted the rings today as the men were cutting them up, and they must have been planted the same year, because they were both 103 years-old.

Call me silly, but it hurts to see such magnificence die. :cry:
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Trajan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:05 PM
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1. Not silly at all ...
Old oaks give a feeling of stability in a topsy turvy world ....

Too bad ..... The big circle keepsa turnin ...
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:28 PM
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10. Aye.... karma.
*sigh*
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ewagner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:06 PM
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2. Felt the same
When we lost a big one in our front yard two years ago.

I understand how you fell.
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villager Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:06 PM
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3. not silly at all...
...every time I've seen a familiar tree go down -- once, due to a neighbor's house being trashed/cleared for an apartment building -- it's painful...
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bhunt70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:06 PM
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4. I've got a huge one here also
I can't even imagine what my yard would look like without it.
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Shopaholic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:10 PM
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5. Now you know how I felt after Hurricane Hugo
I never realized what a difference trees make until then. It was like looking at an alien landscape--except I knew where I was at--but nothing looked the same.
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:11 PM
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6. Not silly at all....
I think it's incredibly sad.

The most beautiful sights to me in SC are the lush old oaks.
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:12 PM
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7. They shaded our whole back yard.
We loved to sit in the yard, even on hot days, because their spreads canopied the whole yard. We could even sit out in some rainstorms, and never get wet.

I'm gonna miss 'em like sin, but I'm also gonna plant new ones, so that people can enjoy THEM for the next century, or so. *sigh*
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 06:39 PM
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18. How long do oaks take to reach adult size?
Or maybe "yep, it's definitely a tree" size?
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:13 PM
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8. We lost two water oaks and three pine trees in last week's storms
I hate losing trees. Even though we're on a large, heavily wooded lot I cringe whenever we lose some.

Probably comes from being raised in SoCal, where every tree has been planted by some landscape company.

I feel for you, Padraig18 :(
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:17 PM
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9. Thanks!
Virtually every tree here on the prairie was deliberately planted by someone, so whenever we lose one, I feel as though a connection with the past has also died; being a budding historian, that bugs me more deeply than I can say.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:37 PM
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11. oak trees remind me of ents. they are the wise old men of the forest.
my condolences. I hate it when trees die. there's something so very horrible about it. remember the tree in Texas someone poisoned? I still feel terrible about that one.
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:52 PM
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14. Aye.
I truly felt 'sheltered'--- safe and protected--- when I was underneath them. *nods*
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:38 PM
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12. 103?
Wow that is amazing.

That really sucks that you lost both of the trees.

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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 06:20 PM
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16. Aye, they were huge!
Like two proud, old men, still tall and straight, despite their advanced age. :(
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aljones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:40 PM
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13. I am very sorry!!
Nothing is prettier then a tall strong oak!!

ally
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 05:52 PM
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15. Happy birthday, love!
:party::toast::beer:
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 06:22 PM
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17. A simple beauty that they were planted together and died together
Edited on Mon May-24-04 06:23 PM by Rabrrrrrr
Reminds of the old couple that Zeus and the other God visited, and the couple asked only that when one dies, the other dies, so they never have to be apart.

So sad to hear of the oaks dying - I love oak trees, all trees, really. The time-sense of trees must be amazing, that they see us as almost nothing with our short lifespans and constant generations while they go on, sometimes for thousands of years.
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:30 PM
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22. Aye, there's a certain sad symmetry to it.
I tried imagining one without the other today, and I just couldn't see it in my mind, so maybe it's best this way.
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m-jean03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 06:45 PM
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19. Padraig, I really enjoy your thoughtful & heartfelt posts
Heart and brains, you lack not. :-) I too, hate to see a good tree fall. :cry:

/suck-up moment over/ :7
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:31 PM
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23. Thank you, darlin!
:hi:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 06:54 PM
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20. Definitely not silly *hugs*
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:31 PM
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24. *hugs*
:hug:
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Mel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:03 PM
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21. Not silly at ALL
My friend and I hug trees there are trees that you love and are part of you! I have a Weeping Willow tree that I love it's my tree!
I live in NC (City of Oaks) Raleigh and when hurricane Fran hit us she took a many of our Oaks and one of my Pecans. I do understand your hurt and will go hug my one Oak tree for you.
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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:35 PM
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26. I don't feel so odd, now that you've told me that.
Early this morning, before the men came to cut them up, I took my tea out and just sat with them, and told them how lovely they were, and how much joy they'd given us both. I don't think trees have souls (although they MIGHT, I suppose :shrug: ), but if they did, or if they could 'hear', I thought someone should at least say 'thank you; well done!' to them.

:shrug:
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Mel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 08:23 PM
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27. they do have souls maybe not in the sense of
a teaching/religion of god but they where alive and growing so I understand what you mean, I think. You, I, and my friend would hit it off your having tea and telling your trees what you felt about them sounds so much like something we would do except we are coffee drinkers ;) logically (science) I know what the deal is but my soft heart part still feels that trees don't like being destroyed. When my Pecan tree was cut up I collected some of it's wood chips and made a piece of paper out of it so I could remember it. I still have wood chips saved from that tree for future pieces of paper/art. Why not? I loved that tree if that's silly so what!
My feeling of peace (and that's something we sure are in need of in these days) comes from plants, trees, and animals.
I admit it the things I miss most when I leave home is my animals and my yard. When I do leave I get someone to stay at my house and babysit them! I think I'm the silly one.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-04 07:32 PM
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25. ohh i am sorry...thats quite sad
Edited on Mon May-24-04 07:33 PM by lionesspriyanka
:hug:
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