Are you 100% sure you are a homo or heterosexual???

Is anyone???

make a video.

:evilgrin:

nt

...that I'm a 7 on the Kinsey scale, with 1 being exclusively heterosexual and 6 being exclusively homosexual.

Kind of like 110% sure, like giving 110% effort. Truly can't be done, but it's a way to hammer home a point.

...that you're gayer than me.:mad: Did I say a 7 on the Kinsey scale? I meant a 17.:P

I can keep going--how about you?????????????

I think gay and straight society both have a problem with bisexuals. It presents a lot of complications. Also, everybody thinks bisexuals are just gays who want to have it both ways. So bi's are forced into choosing one side and sublimating the other. (Which is okay with me, since promiscuity can be deadly now).

Monogamy itself would tremble at the thought of bisexuality. The bigotry of which you speak has many roots, and it's very real. Many gays (although it's unforgivable to say) are convinced of a "superior" choice, and think that those dabbling are obviously in denial. Lest we forget, there are plenty of man-hating dykes and gash-hating queens out there, along with the level headed folks who simply know what they want and accept it.

In all too many spheres of life, people define themselves by what they dislike than by what they like, and that's probably never going to change. The good news is that there are a lot of decent folks out there, and the nasties are self-defeating.

Then again, just as there are "good" aspects of bisexuality, there are also some not-so-pleasant ones: some folks just need to have everyone lust after them. (Sort of like this post: equal opportunity flame-bait.)

Bisexuality is real, programmed-in and as much a fact as either of the other two polarities. It's existence is seen as a threat to certain ideologues of both groups, and it's the gray area of life that terrifies so many in life; that's why there's religion. The narrow agendas of various groups always tyrannize those in the middle (or straddling the line) and this will be one of the future battlegrounds after homosexuality is more accepted.

With monogamy being one of the basic building-blocks of society, bisexuality is seen as a threat to many, and you can expect to see it be more of an issue in the future.

Remember the lessons of history: the oppressed, as soon as they gain a homeland of their own, start oppressing. The beat goes on, and there always seems to be a group to oppress, so it's all just variations on a theme.

I don't see bisexuality as a bad thing. PRACTICING bisexuality, on the other hand, however is another story. I have had feelings for both genders, but I've made my choice and I'm sticking with it. I very much believe in monogamy. Popping from flower to flower like a honeybee leaves behind wrecked families and a lot of hurt feelings.

I suppose it's a person's right if they want to be a promiscuous bisexual, but I don't really like it. Having desires and fantasies about both sexes is, IMO, perfectly normal, and not something to be ashamed of - it should be enjoyed in fact. Repression causes as much misery as promiscuity does.

I think that young people who aren't sure should experiment and enjoy themselves, and decide who they want to be with - there shouldn't be any guilt, but once the commitment is made, it should be kept.

I'm leaving the other 1% open because I use an umbrella.

(inside joke only loafie will understand)

No I don't.:)

that I am bisexual :-)

it's in pLay.

No chance going the other way.

I'm not sure it matters anyway. I've never been attracted to men, which makes me "heterosexual", but it's not a big deal if other men are.

--bkl

And thank god for it.

:shrug:

:P

If memory serves me correctly, I distinctly recall you in a steamy 3-way with a yak the other night... Need I remind you?

<>

Don't let all the sudden fame & notoriety drive you back into the closet... Look what happened to Tom Cruise...

But I've never met a man that attracted me "in that way", so I guess I gotta be somewhere in the upper 90's in straightness. But not narrowness.

or something

Especially if you've ever heard any of the soundbyte .wav files at Landover Baptist.

-- Allen

...and don't forget the "Homo Handshake"

http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0101/shake.html

I love that site


LOL

Cineplex 6... I went to see The Wiz there as a child...

What does that mean? I'm scared & confused now...

:scared:

men are pigs :P

Tryed dudes just to find out, but no thrill whatsoever.

The 1% is just theoretical... not really. :evilgrin:

We've got a chance!

And the "chances" were used up before I was 20. :) :evilgrin:

I've never really understood what it is that straight women see in us anyway. :hi:

you're just a glutton for punishment...

You're an ADDICT, young lady, an ADDICT...

Did you see that mess you made yesterday?!

(okay, after 16 years in a relationship, I have to keep having people remind me what sex IS .... )

But I sure don't buy into a 'sexuality' based on someone else's numbers of who I have or haven't had sex with.

I'm sexual, only my sex acts have definitions! <wink>

I have tried the available options and have confirmed my preference.

Of falling in love with men that don't love me back.

:bounce:

No doubt about it.

(as opposed to being as gay as a 2 dollar bill). Takes a little math to get that one.

Asexual. Nothing interests me at this point.

prince charming has yet to prance into my life, but i'm pretty sure most heteros are inactively bi.



except those who protest too much, o/c!


B-)

But after a couple of drinks at King's Head Pub once, that poster of David Beckham was looking pretty good!

...but find myself becoming attracted to women, too....so maybe Im bisexual.

I think sexuality is more fluid than we think....

..tho I dont see the pun, thanx!

sexual fluids...

but I couldn't get an erection at all, so I don't know. I love women, but it also really turns me on to see two guys making out. So I guess I'm far from 100% hetero.

But I would have a real problem with any sort of anal sex, the very notion of it grosses me out. That's why I decided to stick with women (one woman, actually)

I don't think there's anything wrong with getting off on homoeroticism. The sad thing is the people who do, but are full of shame about it. I'm 100% sure that it's the shame factor that makes people act out in inappropriate ways.

And of course we all know where shame comes from - - The Christian churches.

That is, 90%+ hetero.

I've never been attracted to a man (and, frankly, penises kinda gross me out); but I learned long ago to never say never.

I mean, if Jesus came back and wanted to fuck me, I'd probably do it. Shit, then I could tell all my friends that I fucked Jesus! That would be cool.

Hetero. No question.

I am a male who is, physically, only attracted to females of the opposite gender. However, socially, my best friends tend to more often be gay men. I'm not the least physically interested in them, but they are just more interesting, socially, to talk with and seem, from my perspective, to make better friends that straight guys.

---

Most of the str8 guys I know are pretty boring.....

*

(but I guess I'm 100% sure of that, so is that a yes or a no, LynneSin?)

My entire real-world experience has been hetero.

But I occasionally have found myself attracted to women. Never acted on it -- though I'm not sure if it any of the situations would have been appropriate to act on, anyway. (I guess I'm separating the sex part of orientation from the relationship part of orientation -- I'm more specifically talking about sex. I can't really speculate about the relationship part, except to say I couldn't 100% rule it out...)

Perhaps that dreaded "bi-curious" label would apply (if it applies anywhere outside of personal ads, anyway).

I'm attracted to people, not genders.

Ive always wondered about that....most people who say they are "bisexual" mean they are interested in experimenting with the same sex...

...yet in my case, im probably more gay, but would like to experiment or have a fling with the opposite sex.

:shrug:

*

"Fag hags", would-be "converters"... are really just afraid of going all the way (whether physically or emotionally) with a man, so they go after the unthreatening, unattainable pretty boy who doesn't mind hanging out with a woman all the time.

There are sensitive, kind straight men out there. Unfortunately, women tend to ignore them in favor of thuggish, brutish louts, and gays. Women are nutty!

while I was married to a bisexual man (who also had sex with one of the men). What does that make me? I'm not a "would-be converter" - I didn't want either of them to convert, I liked them just as they were. They were curious about sex with a woman, I found them attractive, a good time was had by all.

so I am fundamentally unsure of everything, including sexuality.


The less I know the more I learn.

I'm as bisexual as a monogamous person can be.

:)