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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:50 PM
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I got totally blown off by someone that I really liked...
:cry:
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acmavm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:52 PM
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1. Permanently or just a 'I can't make it tonight, something came up' type
or blown off?
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:00 AM
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6. permanently blown off....
and the excuse she gave me in an email was totally lame. I'm pissed as hell and also sad as hell too. :-(
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2Design Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:52 PM
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2. they are probably having a chemically imbalance day or PMS
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kiahzero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:52 PM
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3. That sucks
I know we clash from time to time, but I hate to see people down.

:pals:

Do something nice for yourself to take your mind off of it, would be my suggestion.
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jbm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:52 PM
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4. awwwww.......
I'm sorry slinkerwink. What happened?
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:01 AM
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7. can't go further into a lot of detail...
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madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-30-04 11:59 PM
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5. ya, that happens
just kin`a sets ya back a minute..like wtf? but life goes on and sooner or later you find it was no big deal..at 57 yrs i`ve been thru a few of these and that`s what i`ve found to be true....
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vajraroshana Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:02 AM
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8. it sucks
but what can you do? people are unpredictable.
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jukes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:05 AM
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9. EXTREMELY
poor judgement on his/her part!




:7
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:33 AM
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16. I'd have to agree!
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Mikimouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:10 AM
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10. Whoa, Slinkers, sorry to hear it...
I don't know what to say, except that I'm here for you. :hi: :hug: I hope that the sadness and pain will not persist.
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:33 AM
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15. yeah, a friend came over and we had a good talk
laughed a lot over telling some bad relationship stories so I'm feeling better.
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Mikimouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:49 AM
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21. Glad to hear it...
From all the posts I have read, you are a cool person.
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 01:06 AM
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23. thanks for saying that!
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qwertyMike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:14 AM
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11. Her loss n/t
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rumguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:19 AM
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12. I take it this was the one you were asking about a while back?
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:32 AM
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14. yep, same one
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Paragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:21 AM
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13. I still love ya, slink
:loveya:
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:38 AM
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17. Aww.... I'm sorry.
That person is a damned fool, by the way! :hug:
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:42 AM
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19. it's alright....that person no longer deserves what I have to give anyway
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NightTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:50 AM
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22. At least you have the right attitude!
And if you're anything like me, you developed that attitude after having been blown off more than once. :(
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 01:11 AM
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24. yes....but I'll still give my everything to the next person I'm in love
with because I can't hold anything back because that's not like me to do that.
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fudge stripe cookays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 08:37 AM
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29. And that's a good way to be.
I'm like you...wear my heart on my sleeve, and give every iota when I'm in a relationship.

Sooner or later, it will pay off. BIG TIME.

Sorry you're having a rough time. It'll get better.

FSC
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 01:43 PM
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30. thanks for saying that!
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stickdog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:40 AM
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18. Girls can be like that.
Boys too.

It's them -- not you.
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 12:45 AM
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20. That sucks
a friend of over 20 years did the same thing to me, then called me back 2 years later and apologized. We're buds again.

Wishing you the same. Everybody has their stupid moments...
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Sapphocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 02:07 AM
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25. Slink!
Check your PM's, will you, woman!
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neverborn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 02:14 AM
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26. Noo! Slinker!
You're too nice to have that shit happen to you!!

:loveya: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals: :pals:
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 05:35 AM
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27. I'm sorry, Slink.
I'm just really busy, ya know? :P

j/k I'm the blow-off-ee, of course.
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 08:32 AM
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28. What is it with we good people...
...having taste in well, fools? :loveya:

Fear not, as you can see, we all love ya. Eventually the good ones find one another and the idiots stumble into the wilderness, never to bother us again. At least that's a good thing to keep telling yourself. :hug:
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-31-04 08:22 PM
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31. heh, nice advice
:-)
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