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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:14 PM
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Why do you think certain people feel the need to yell when they talk?
I really don't get it. I mean, it's not like they're hearing impaired or anything of that sort.

I just don't get how a simple lunch conversation can resemble a shouting match.

Do these critters intend to be the loudest, the biggest, the proudest? Should smaller creatures run & hide?

Please explain. :wtf:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:14 PM
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1. They are attention-seekers.
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:16 PM
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2. or insecure as hell?
:shrug:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:19 PM
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7. Or both. I think attention-seekers are often insecure as well.
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:16 PM
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3. I grew up around hearing impaired people
and I can't hear well if there's a lot of background noise so I tend to speak a bit loud in hopes other people will speak loud enough to carry over background noise.
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:21 PM
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8. That makes perfect sense.
I was thinking of the ones who have no hearing impairment.

Ex: Two hillbilly buddies discussing trucks or something.
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Chovexani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:17 PM
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4. Some of it is just cultural
:shrug:
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:26 PM
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11. for sure
And by some freak coincidence, some of the best wisdom comes from cultures which have traditionally been soft spoken. Waddaya know. ;)
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:18 PM
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5. WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
:D
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kmla Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:18 PM
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6. WHY DO YOU ASK?
ARE YOU REFERRING TO ME?

Heh.

Dunno. Could be because the foolish associate volume with the accuracy of the statement and the righteousness of the idea.

Or it could be because they are rude bastids.
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cry baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:22 PM
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9. probably just habit. or perhaps they believe their words are more
important than others' words.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:23 PM
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10. They are dumb
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:26 PM
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12. Both of my parents are
somewhat hearing impaired (decades of factory work) so it's just kind of rreally loud talking in their house.

Add to that that I really AM a big barrel-chested kind-of-guy who just naturally has a loud booming voice. It gets really bad when I drink--I really only started to drink at bars, live music ones usually where you really have to bellow to be heard at all.

I try to keep my voice down, but sometimes I forget.
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:28 PM
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13. I KNOW!!! I can't even process what they say if they are talking directly
Edited on Fri Jan-21-05 03:29 PM by Misunderestimator
to me like that... and I can't process my own thoughts if they are anywhere in the vicinity talking like that. Even when I noticeably grimace at the sheer violent strength and pain of the noise emitting from their mouths, they don't seem to notice that they are doing it. :shrug:
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amazona Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:30 PM
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14. they probably ARE hearing impaired
Several times I have later learned that the loudmouth was indeed hearing impaired.

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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-21-05 03:35 PM
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15. i have a neighbor like that. he is so obnoxious
you can hear him belly-laughing and yakking to his friends and he is across the street! the decibel level out of his mouth is unbelievable x(
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-05 08:19 AM
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16. For some it's being hard of hearing; for most, it's just tackiness and
Edited on Sat Jan-22-05 08:20 AM by Rabrrrrrr
lack of manners and disregard for other people. Though even of the tacky loudmouth socially disastrous sort, I doubt they realize that they are talking way too loud, and I would imagine that little of it is actually inentional. Except the loudmouths on the cell phones - that's intentional.

And some cultures talk way louder than others - I found, when I lived in a Dominican neighborhood, that they talk REALLY FUCKING LOUD ALL THE TIME. Part of that, I'm sure, is the hearing loss they caused by playing their music so fucking loud; but most, I bet, is that the culture itself is just a loud speaking culture. And my family, all raised as dirt poor mostly uneducated farmer peasant types, also tend to speak louder than the average joe.
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democratic pride Donating Member (95 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-05 08:21 AM
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17. they just want to drown you out of the conversation.
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B Calm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-05 08:34 AM
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18. We have a new guy at work that talks very loud. I don't
get it, he's not hard of hearing. Everybody makes fun of him when he's not around.
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-22-05 08:50 AM
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19. I have no idea - but what in the world are you doing posting NOW
ISN'T IT 5:00 IN THE MORNING WHERE YOU ARE AND SHOULDN'T YOU BE SLEEPING?

:P
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