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Jennos20 (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:47 PM Original message |
I need advice....My friend is ruining her life |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. It's none of your business. |
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Jennos20 (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:02 PM Response to Reply #1 |
14. I haven't commented much |
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fricasseed_gourmet_rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:50 PM Response to Reply #1 |
34. I sort of disagree. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:51 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. That's not what I meant -- |
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Boredtodeath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
2. It's her life. Butt out. |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
43. Bingo |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. She gets no pity from me. The way she handled telling the wife... |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:55 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I agree.. that was evil to do that |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. It isn't clear from the OP whether the "unwitting mistress" was among |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:11 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. The friend was in on meeting the wife though |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:33 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. Sounds almost like "Fatal Attraction" to me. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
46. I agree. Why on earth did she have to tell the wife what was going |
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RethugAssKicker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
4. Just be there for her when she falls. |
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Lochloosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
5. You wrote your own answer |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
6. Experience makes the person wiser |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. Stay out of it.. She's gonna get burned and has no one to blame |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
8. Step back and let them work it out |
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okieinpain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
10. speaking from experience (my mom) stay out of the way. she will |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
11. There is nothing you can do. It's her life. |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. i love the smell of trainwrecks in the morning |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
13. For some reason I don't think that family needed much help breaking. |
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Jennos20 (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:03 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I hope your right |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
17. She showed her true colors when she went to the wife, and then took him in |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
18. No offense, but your friend is an immature pinhead... |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
19. Calling the wife was unforgivable |
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Jennos20 (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:16 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. First of all SHE called the wife |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:45 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Cut the melodrama - her life is not 'ruined' |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Hear hear. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:34 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. Yes! Thank you! |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 05:20 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. "Hoke? You're my best friend." |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:42 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. Calling the wife is quite forgivable |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Wrong. He's the root cause of the problem |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
40. We will never agree on this one in a thousand back-and-forths |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:01 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. My orientation is a grad of the school of 'Minding My Own Business" |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:22 PM Response to Reply #30 |
44. Agreed - Reminds of the Clinton blow job scandal. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
27. I disagree with that |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:47 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Good advice on starting a sexual relationship. |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:54 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. How old are you? |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:30 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. I have not lived with my parents |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:57 PM Response to Reply #45 |
62. Heh...I hate BF too, but it's an easy internet abbreviation. |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #19 |
49. Um, HE caused the broken family |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 05:05 PM Response to Reply #19 |
50. Give me a break |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 05:45 PM Response to Reply #19 |
53. I wouldn't go that far but it looks like |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 11:42 PM Response to Reply #53 |
66. Ambush is exactly the word. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
21. Even if you didn't butt out, she wouldn't listen |
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matcom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
23. this may actually be better than MY flamewar! |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:02 PM Response to Reply #23 |
63. If you share the popcorn, I'll share the... |
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MarianJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
24. STAY OUT! |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
29. Why come to DU with this? |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:57 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. matcom is more fun than dear abby |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
33. SHE did NOT break up that family. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
36. Handcuff the guy to a urinal, rip off his clothes, and kick him until... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
37. Three possible outcomes.. |
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Metta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
41. The more you push, the further you drive the wedge between you. |
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Jennos20 (149 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:41 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. Thanks for the advice |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
52. Some women are proud of themselves |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
54. Let her learn her lesson |
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Giant Robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
55. The more you try to intervene |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
56. You cannot save anyone but yourself |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 06:57 PM Response to Original message |
57. I'm guessing you are pretty young... |
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diplomats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 08:36 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. Why would you want somebody |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:07 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. I'm guessing.. |
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SOteric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
58. You don't need advice, your friend does. And she's not asking. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
59. Woah, there. Didn't realize we'd traveled back in time to 1953. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
61. Back off. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
65. To start with |
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